VeeVees posted...
easiest way to count would be per woman
Or just per person.
You have 3 kids from one relationship, you can only have 2 more. If your new significant other only has 2 kids from prior relationships....to bad for him/her, if s/he wants to stay with you, his/her limit is now effectively 4.
I'm fine w/ erring on the side of less. If it's people who are bouncing around between marriages and baby mamas, erring on the side of less kids is probably for the best.
Related thought: Kids you adopt shouldn't count against the limit. You want people to adopt the orphans / abandoned.