My sister in law has ruined their finances.

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This isn't uncommon, really...and there's only one way this progresses. Mooches will ask for more and more until the moochie ends it or is broke themselves. You simply have to say "no more". I know it's far easier said than done with family, but it's the truth.

Some separation would make it far easier...
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