I think it's the opposite. Misery loves company. They want everyone to have tied down lives full of responsibility directed at others. A lot of parents are absolutely miserable with their decisions but don't feel safe to say so. So they want everyone else to be as miserable as them.
I hate to use the word jealousy ever but from personal experience a lot of parents are jealous of people who have all the free time in the world and freed up finances to do fun things instead of sending Johnny to soccer camp or getting Annie's tonsils out.
I've met more unhappy families than happy ones, anecdotally.
My entire life I haven't wanted kids. My entire life has been filled with people older than me telling me that I'll eventually want kids and I'm being silly. I'm 35 in June and still don't want kids. People really think they know better than you.This, except I'm 36 in June.
Personally, I'd still be inclined to go for it, just to eliminate side effects from the IUD, avoid the discomfort of future IUD insertions, and to protect yourself from any future legislation that might make sterilization or even IUDs illegal, but you do you. It's your body and you should do whatever you're most comfortable with.
I don't have any negative side effects from the IUD. I also don't have a period and haven't in 11 years which is nice. I might revisit again if the voter initiative here doesn't pass. But also I can get sterilized out of state and my insurance covers travel for procedures.
I wish they could just like irradiate my nuts or something instead of painful surgery.
I wish they could just like irradiate my nuts or something instead of painful surgery.
I wish they could just like irradiate my nuts or something instead of painful surgery.
I'm not much of a sex-haver I'll admit, but how many dudes are fucking every day anyway? Having one day off doesn't really sound like that big of a deal
Are you the guy who said he gets wet dreams after like two days? That sounds like some sort of condition. Maybe a totally harmless for all I know, but that definitely ain't normal
The worst think about getting a vasectomy is just not being able to have sex for a day.I had it done just under a month ago and was told you cant do it for a week, if you cant even last a day then clearly it isnt for you.
Well, that and the smell of burning sperm as they weld you shut after.
you also dont smell anything, not sure why youd think you would.
I had it done just under a month ago and was told you cant do it for a week, if you cant even last a day then clearly it isnt for you.
you also dont smell anything, not sure why youd think you would.
As I understand it, it's no more painful than most dental cleanings. It's not pleasant , so you aren't exactly going to book a bunch of recreational vasectomies, but it's not painful enough to warrant avoiding it out of concern for the pain if you do in fact want to be sterilized.I remember a while back Zang (I think?) had in his sig about feeling his vas deferens burning
I'm not much of a sex-haver I'll admit, but how many dudes are fucking every day anyway?
Are you the guy who said he gets wet dreams after like two days? That sounds like some sort of condition. Maybe a totally harmless for all I know, but that definitely ain't normal