No, it's called reality. If you don't believe that women have an easier time finding a willing sexual partner than men, I'm not sure I or anybody can help you. You can try to spin that however you want, but it's always been true.
That you're framing it as "finding a willing sexual partner" and not "finding a worthwhile sexual partner" is pretty textbook incel. What's next, talking about "sexual market value"?
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