I don't see it as a possessive concept. Depending on how long the relationship was, or how the breakup went, it could make it hard for your friend to want to be around you.
Like, one of my best friends was married for several years and now they're divorced. He really loves her and would get back with her is he could. I would never try to date her, knowing how much the breakup affected him.
If we're talking "we were together for 2 weeks" high school relationships though. Then yeah it's dumb in those cases.
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