vycebrand2 posted...
If you don't try, you don't gain. The social anxiety I've always had made it hard. I made it better by running a retail business. One thing I learned from that is you have to put yourself out there. Don't be afraid. You will get discouraged but dust yourself off try again
Yeah I get all that and I get this advice all the time, but being told what to do and to actually do it are two totally different things. The problem is, I like not working. I like not going out in public. I like not having responsibilities. I like not being an adult. So while I would like a gf, I don't think I can get one or deserve to have one.