I hate being so lonelywhy dont you do it then?
I hate being so lonely
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They dont look happy with them.
I hate being so lonely
So it's a doll then, and not a robot?
Basically the movie mannequin, just without the magic/Meshach TaylorI don't see the point much of marrying someone you can't even talk to.
RIP Hollywood
I don't see the point much of marrying someone you can't even talk to.
Well. The thing is to not be lonely and to find someone to spend your time with you need to make an effort to do extroverted activities.You have strong advice.
Those are probably things you dont want to do. So you gotta decide what makes you more miserablebeing by yourself, or completely changing your lifestyle?
you be surprised. You might legit just rather stay lonely. The act of even getting or maintaining a girlfriend might end up making you even more miserable.
But that is a choice you need to make.
You have strong advice.dont encourage him
dont encourage himYou don't know why I said this vague hard to read my tone sentence.
You don't know why I said this vague hard to read my tone sentence.he is not the paragon or role model he pretends to be
I appreciate the effort I just think it's a bit assuming of him and a tiny bit too downgrading how hard it is to change your ways.
Not what he's saying at all his intentions are sound. But I think it's kinda dismissive and rude very rarely.
OK I admit I have strong mixed feelings based on his words on my vent topic
super_felicia posted...Wrong topic?
Can you elaborate on the human sounding part?
You sound like English is your second language. You might be experiencing acts of mania.
youre correct on your outline of what I have explained
Alright dude, I say this with earnest intentions. Not to make feel bad, even if that ends up being the end result.
This idea you have in your head that your straight, married therapist is going to suddenly go gay and fall in love with you is absolutely never going to happen. The only reason hes even taking an interest in you in the first place is because hes being paid to do so. Once you leave the appointment you most likely do not cross his mind at all until your next scheduled appointment.
That doesnt mean he doesnt care about you, he rather you thrive than die Im sure, but his end goal (if hes a legit licensed professional) is to eventually get you to a place where your mentally stable enough to never ever have to see him again.
His end goal is to eventually get you to a point where you dont need him in your life anymore. Thats not conducive of any type of friendship, no less any type of relationship.
The fact that your so obsessed with him that your literally sharing a random youtube video on the GameFaqs sex board because the guy in it sounds like your crush means this entire fixation is entirely unhealthy.
Because of the fixation youve found yourself in with him, you arent going to get any benefit from seeing him anymore.
Each time you visit him your mental state deteriorates deeper into this fantasy world, that LUCKILY, you have not deluded yourself into thinking could possibly become a reality. The fact that you realize this is a problem is a good sign for you and your future mental wellbeing.
My advice to you, quite honestly, is to stop seeing the therapist immediately. Go check yourself into a mental institution. It should be free (if you are in a large city) and you should be able to check yourself out at any point. Be brutally honest with the people in that institution, and start to work on getting your mind right, and dealing with this mania.
I am not a licensed professional, so all my advice is just my own opinion. But it does sound like youve ostracized yourself away from society, and have basically just been living on the internet for a while. It shows in your text patterns and overall behavior. Its possible, that you became terminally online during a crucial period of mental and physical maturitymeaning you stunted your development.
You are now an adult, but have not yet learn how to operate out in the real world, and interact with other human beings. Doing so causes you experience emotions that the rest of us learned to deal with when we were in our teenage years. Trying to navigate all of these social structures without any proper practice comes with certain hardships.
So I recommended checking yourself into a facility, and then once you check yourself out, try your hardest to be outside in the company of other people as much as possible.
The good news is that people live for a long time. Youre only twenty something. Youve got plenty of time to eventually live a normal, happy, productive life, complete with a partner that loves you. But, you gotta start working on yourself now. Like right now. Today.
Nice how he thinks but he's guessing everything about me when I explicitly mention in the first post I go college 3 times a week, I want to not love him i want to love someone like him and closer to my age, I had to explain it a lot for some reason it drove me a bit up the wall how inaccurate his analysis of me was.
Wrong topic?The final paragraph is my thoughts about sterolizers post on my behaviour on what I told In the vent topic
Is this cos of my post about my experience? How does that bother you at all...its my experience you can't be that effected by a rantIts because of the OP.
You have strong advice.It's correct advice.
It's correct advice.nah. sterolizer does it for himself
It's correct advice.I agree on that advice tbh he's correct I just wanted to point out his assumption on users who he's
I have seven imaginary girlfriends and yet there are people called tulpamancers who created willed imaginary friends they have romance and sex with. I am not one of those people because I am not magical in any way and they're extensions of my psyche. Their presence has helped my paranoia when it comes to being home alone and I enjoy their companionship.You don't want to sexualise someone you're friends with? I am so bad I have no eyes for anyone sexually besides this one i ranted about.
I loathe the idea of sexualizing my friends like that. One of them, who is the love child of Eros and Lilith, probably wouldn't mind lovemaking, but I don't desire her like that. I prefer her "love conquers all" speeches because goddamn it, she's believer of love.
You don't want to sexualise someone you're friends with? I am so bad I have no eyes for anyone sexually besides this one i ranted about.
I can see hot people who look cute but its not he same on my head.
You're friends with a hot af girl and you don't want to be sexually attracted to them? Am I reading this correctly?
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Given they are extensions of myself; yeah. I used to shower with my first girlfriend named Mary and that got weird after a while. She didn't mind, but I know that I grew out of that horny teenager and matured into a woman who valued friendship over making things complicated.Oh oof I pulled a sterolizer and assumed...
Oh oof I pulled a sterolizer and assumed...do you have friends tho
I thought you flipped and remarked about saying about my post then went back to your friends of imagination sorry
do you have friends thoTherapist guy has been in my life since I was about 16
I have generalized sexual feeling disorderWhy can't I find a clear cut answer from Google? I'd like to hear...
I agree on that advice tbh he's correct I just wanted to point out his assumption on users who he's
Never seen or interacted prior to and thinks he knows me through how I text
Representing myself as how I am online, I thought it was clear my gamefaqs ranting isn't the most accurate to how I behave irl
I don't see how an assumption makes it "strong advice"I am manically venting like a self centered person that I have become this year. I just wanted an excuse to unfairly drag him on my stressing frustrated feelings rn