Fooled around one night with super hot coworker, now she quit and I'm sad

So anyway this super hot girl, like literally 9/10 (I didn't lose my virginity till I was 31 and am a 7/10 at absolute best for reference) started at my job about two months ago. We were always a bit flirty but she has a boyfriend and as stated, is crazy hot and all the other dudes at my job wanted her too. We were at a bar with some other coworkers and then they left and it was just me and her after that playing pool. My heart was pounding and eventually she was like I think you're hot, I feel something primal for you, I feel predatory towards you (!!). Later on that night we were back on the patio all by ourselves and before left she straddled my chair, grabbed my hand and put it on her crotch, then pulled my face towards hers and had our lips super close without actually touching. Then she stands up, says "ok see ya at work!" and leaves!!

Anyway long story short after that next week we go out again and end up fooling around and getting to third base in my car. After that she gets kind of weird because she cheated on her boyfriend (I'm not super proud of that either). We were still flirty and would text but we didnt do anything physical again after that. She left a couple days ago (for unrelated reasons I won't get into here) and not gonna lie I'm pretty sad about it. I did tell her that if things don't work out with her boyfriend to hit me up, which she then said yeah things aren't great with him, and gave a pretty enthusiastic positive response to it. So maybe in the future we'll get together?? I'm not counting on it though.

It just really blows because I would literally have committed my life to this girl. I've never had much success with women and she's sooo gorgeous and we have such amazing chemistry. If my self 20 years ago could see this girl he would have been absolutely flabbergasted that I could have fooled around with such a beautiful girl, so it is a confidence booster at least, lol.

Is Elysdeon what an Eevee becomes if you give it hallucinogens?

Wow, that sounds just like my experience a while back, so anyway this super hot girl, like literally 9/10 (I didn't lose my virginity till I was 31 and am a 7/10 at absolute best for reference) started at my job about two months ago. We were always a bit flirty but she has a boyfriend and as stated, is crazy hot and all the other dudes at my job wanted her too. We were at a bar with some other coworkers and then they left and it was just me and her after that playing pool. My heart was pounding and eventually she was like I think you're hot, I feel something primal for you, I feel predatory towards you (!!). Later on that night we were back on the patio all by ourselves and before left she straddled my chair, grabbed my hand and put it on her crotch, then pulled my face towards hers and had our lips super close without actually touching. Then she stands up, says "ok see ya at work!" and leaves!!

Anyway long story short after that next week we go out again and end up fooling around and getting to third base in my car. After that she gets kind of weird because she cheated on her boyfriend (I'm not super proud of that either). We were still flirty and would text but we didnt do anything physical again after that. She left a couple days ago (for unrelated reasons I won't get into here) and not gonna lie I'm pretty sad about it. I did tell her that if things don't work out with her boyfriend to hit me up, which she then said yeah things aren't great with him, and gave a pretty enthusiastic positive response to it. So maybe in the future we'll get together?? I'm not counting on it though.

It just really blows because I would literally have committed my life to this girl. I've never had much success with women and she's sooo gorgeous and we have such amazing chemistry. If my self 20 years ago could see this girl he would have been absolutely flabbergasted that I could have fooled around with such a beautiful girl, so it is a confidence booster at least, lol.

DrizztLink posted...

Is Elysdeon what an Eevee becomes if you give it hallucinogens?

It's actually a sword from Phantasy Star 4 that I misspelled when I made my account here when I was 13 lmao

Just remember if she comes back around to keep things casual and disabuse yourself of any ideas that shes the one or worth committing to. If she cheated with you, she will cheat on you. Every time.

I remember my first time on DMT.

Shit was pretty eye opening.

The thing about hooking up with coworkers is they always end up transferring to Switzerland a week later. If you can work around that, you're golden. That's why Swiss people are so notorious for always banging the people they work with, they're used to no consequences.

Were really going to ignore this stockpiled block account from 2003 with literally two AMPs

Panthera posted...

That's why Swiss people are so notorious for always banging the people they work with, they're used to no consequences.

Well, also because of all the people who keep getting transferred there.

It's basically a country-wide dating app.

Aeriis posted...

Oh noooo TC she would totally cheat on you

Keep the experience in your spank bank and move on

Oh I definitely thought about this but I'm dumb and already infatuated so I would take the risk

elysdeon posted...

Oh I definitely thought about this but I'm dumb and already infatuated so I would take the risk

Do it. What could go wrong.

elysdeon posted...

Oh I definitely thought about this but I'm dumb and already infatuated so I would take the risk

The eternal question: Would you rather be with someone who may cheat on you and treat you poorly, or would you rather be alone?

FL81 posted...

Wow, that sounds just like my experience a while back, so anyway this super hot girl, like literally 9/10 (I didn't lose my virginity till I was 31 and am a 7/10 at absolute best for reference) started at my job about two months ago. We were always a bit flirty but she has a boyfriend and as stated, is crazy hot and all the other dudes at my job wanted her too. We were at a bar with some other coworkers and then they left and it was just me and her after that playing pool. My heart was pounding and eventually she was like I think you're hot, I feel something primal for you, I feel predatory towards you (!!). Later on that night we were back on the patio all by ourselves and before left she straddled my chair, grabbed my hand and put it on her crotch, then pulled my face towards hers and had our lips super close without actually touching. Then she stands up, says "ok see ya at work!" and leaves!!

Anyway long story short after that next week we go out again and end up fooling around and getting to third base in my car. After that she gets kind of weird because she cheated on her boyfriend (I'm not super proud of that either). We were still flirty and would text but we didnt do anything physical again after that. She left a couple days ago (for unrelated reasons I won't get into here) and not gonna lie I'm pretty sad about it. I did tell her that if things don't work out with her boyfriend to hit me up, which she then said yeah things aren't great with him, and gave a pretty enthusiastic positive response to it. So maybe in the future we'll get together?? I'm not counting on it though.

It just really blows because I would literally have committed my life to this girl. I've never had much success with women and she's sooo gorgeous and we have such amazing chemistry. If my self 20 years ago could see this girl he would have been absolutely flabbergasted that I could have fooled around with such a beautiful girl, so it is a confidence booster at least, lol.

One time I got modded for doing this and Ive literally never seen it happen to anyone else lmao.

Sadness

rexcrk posted...

One time I got modded for doing this and Ive literally never seen it happen to anyone else lmao.

That reminds me of when one time I got modded for doing this and Ive literally never seen it happen to anyone else lmao.

elysdeon posted...

I feel predatory towards you (!!)

This is scary lol

Dear Penthouse,

ItsNotA2Mer posted...

Dear Penthouse,

This kind of thing usually doesn't to guys like me....

elysdeon posted...

It just really blows because I would literally have committed my life to this girl

Bro, she cheated on her bf with you.
If she just wants to sleep around, more power to her, but it seems like she don't want anything serious.

Aeriis posted...

Oh noooo TC she would totally cheat on you

Keep the experience in your spank bank and move on

I'm a bit disturbed that a fourteen year old is throwing around the phrase "spank bank"...

Turbam posted...

Bro, she cheated on her bf with you.
If she just wants to sleep around, more power to her, but it seems like she don't want anything serious.

yeah, sounds like she was looking for the opposite with no commitment fun. If she could sense that youd dedicate your life to her, you probably scared her off

TeaMilk posted...

This is scary lol

But it's ok when they're hot!

Euripides posted...

This kind of thing usually doesn't to guys like me....

It's actually a literally true story she used to be an ugly duckling and doesn't realize how hot she is, has like body dysmorphia or something along those lines

https://youtu.be/_JTSAKFDSVw?si=_xw50FrouibXq9kp

Is this hornyposting??