El_Dustino posted...
Well I am open to discussion, but I would need an actual reason to go off of, and so far none has been provided, and the more defensive people get over it the more I am likely to assume it is transphobia.
If someone was like "Well I want to have biological children with my partner" then that is a reason, life goals not matching up.
But I feel for a lot of people it's just some variation of "trans people icky."
So how do you feel about me being gay then? Because to me it feels like I cant win and Im being forced back into boxes I dont want to be forced back into. I came out of the closet because I want to have sex with and date gay cis men. I dont hate women, I dont hate trans women, or trans people, I support everyone
Do gay men have to sleep with trans people or theyre suddenly transphobic assholes or something? I am just so confused. Why dont you tell me what you think I should do here?