El_Dustino posted...
Win what?
I do find that slightly odd since most gay men I have met came out of the closet to have sex with and date men but still
Well, what would your reason for not wanting to date a trans man be?
I was really clarifying the cis point because I ultimately didnt want my words twisted like I knew they would be. I am not opposed to having love with a trans person, I find it deeply unlikely. Women have been a source of deep trauma for me and I dont really want to get into it, like with anyone but my therapist, but thats on me for barging into this conversation in the first place lol.
I like being with men, and to me I think of a cis man. I have really romanticized the idea I guess, and my best encounters have been with cis men so I feel like I know that about myself. I have really put thought into what it would be like in every aspect with a trans person and myself in a relationship, and I dont believe the compatibility would be there. I am very open minded though, and I would never say never.
I kind of feel like its similar thinking to me coming up to one of my straight friends and asking him on a date, and then calling him homophobic for not wanting to go on a date.