Honestly get over it. Life's too short to complain about this stuff.Dungeater posted...
i voiced my discomfort and moved on
as i said, ultimately i can live with it. ive said my piece and if he cant abide, so be it. he's made other, larger compromises so i know this isnt simply out of lack of manners/consideration
I mean... what about when your partner is sick? Do you hold their hair, rub their back while they vomit?I literally had to pull shit from my SO's ass during her last couple months alive, and I'd still be doing it if she were alive and required it. Farts really are nothing. You can't love a person if you aren't willing to do gross things for them.
I've had to help my late wife onto and off the toilet before. Went into the shower together and I had to clean her body for her because she couldn't.
It's not glamorous, but that is a part of supporting those you love. Farts are NOTHING.
I say this with love, but cant people bring up stuff on this board without people going to such a dark place?yeah...im not like, upset or anything. and im sorry to have evoked those memories for those people. but im confused as to why its going there
I dont want my partner farting in front of me, that does not make me a terrible person.
I also just took care of my dad in hospice, I can be vulgar about what that just entailed as well. I did all that fun shit as well. We dont have to trauma dump to prove our points here. Relationship boundaries about hygiene/conduct/etc are separate issues.
It reminds me of the other day when Marvel was trying to talk about his issue with dating, and everyone got al pissy about their failures and he didnt even want to talk about his shit anymore because everyone got so weird. What the fuck is actually going on?
If you read the topic its literally been said multiple times that the spirit of the discussion is people that habitually fart in front of their partners. Like lifting their leg to rip ass in front of each other, Dutch ovening, that type of scenario I am sure.I think there's different levels that people experience too. Like when I think of "my girlfriend farts in front of me" she's not like lifting her leg and letting out a super loud fart every few minutes or something. Just a little toot on a rare occasion (like a few times per week at most). I think it probably would bother me if she was ripping ass dozens of times a day
Taking care of a sick partner is not included and should never even be a consideration.
I think there's different levels that people experience too. Like when I think of "my girlfriend farts in front of me" she's not like lifting her leg and letting out a super loud fart every few minutes or something. Just a little toot on a rare occasion (like a few times per week at most). I think it probably would bother me if she was ripping ass dozens of times a dayits about 6-12 times a day. i dont count so i dont have an exact figure. its deff every day though
TC should try holding in all farts for a day. It actually does start to hurt.i do that for long stretches at work
As nasty as it, it's just normal to do it.Go to the bathroom. It's not hard.
The longer you hold it the worse it'll be for you, up to the point your body forces the gas out of you. Yeah that can happen otherwise your body starts to bloat.
Go to the bathroom. It's not hard.I'm just saying, like it can happen abruptly.
i make no such demands or expectations. everyone is their own person. i dont know why people are getting so extra with their interpretations of what im saying
my partner is one. ive voiced that i dislike it but if he's feeling bloated or unwell im not gonna demand he accommodate me. but even then it happens several times daily, grosses me out every time but im not gonna shame anyone over it
apparently some people have this degree of incontinence where "it just slips out"? incontinence is a strong word, i just dk what else to call it
@Asherlee10 i kno u vibe w/ me on this
I'm just saying, like it can happen abruptly.Uh no. I don't just accidentally fart
Especially if you're moving around a lot or lifting something.
Yeah you caught some undeserved nonsense in this topic and I don't think it's hard to navigate context and nuance to this.i appreciate it. sometimes when its mostly everyone but oneself, it can start to feel a bit brainfuzzy
It's like some folks on CE really can't understand that sometimes you make a topic to just vent about whatever's on your mind. You're not telling people what to do or how to think. It's how you think about those things and sometimes folks relate.
In this case, you knew I would and I do. If someone can't relate, then they can buzz off.
This is such a weird take.?
Uh no. I don't just accidentally fartI can promise you that a few times your body released gas on its own whether or not you were aware of it. I don't mean it in a bad way it's just what the human body does
I can promise you that a few times your body released gas on its own whether or not you were aware of it. I don't mean it in a bad way it's just what the human body doesOkay, it has happened. But we are talking like maybe once a month on average.
After all we breath in oxygen and release CO...
You must be a woman. Guys find farts hysterical and it's a shame you want to take one of life's simple joys away from your son.Motaro is a guy, don't be a bully
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It strikes me as a very childish take. Gas happens. It feels weird to complain about it on a message board.Going around farting in front of others is childish. It is literally what children do.
Going around farting in front of others is childish. It is literally what children do.Unless it's Fable.
Going around farting in front of others is childish. It is literally what children do.
It strikes me as a very childish take. Gas happens. It feels weird to complain about it on a message board.I don't understand why you're saying what you're saying, sorry
I don't understand why you're saying what you're saying, sorry
Only if it's on purpose.This is what I don't get. I work in the corporate world and have meetings all the time. How often does someone fart? Virtually never. Adults can control it.
Just how I feel about your topic. No more no lessok?
If you found someone you could pass gas in front of without embarrassment, shame, or ridicule, I'd say you found your soulmate.i know i can do it in front of my husband and he wouldn't bat an eye. i just choose not to, because it's not something i care to do in front of others. the same way i excuse myself if i hit a coughing fit, or if i have to blow my nose. it's how id like to be treated, so in turn i do the same
This is what I don't get. I work in the corporate world and have meetings all the time. How often does someone fart? Virtually never. Adults can control it.
ok?
This is what I don't get. I work in the corporate world and have meetings all the time. How often does someone fart? Virtually never. Adults can control it.right?
You create a topic explaining your feelings. I said my feelings and that's that. Sometimes interactions aren't more complicated then thatalright?