My mom passed away the other night.

Sorry for your loss, Extha. Glad you had more time with her recently.

Oh relly thats to bad

Sorry man

Held it together better than pretty much anyone else at the funeral. I hope people don't think I'm some heartless fuck because I wasn't sobbing. I choked back tears a couple of times.

My sister, my niece, and I all sang one of the hymns together at the funeral which was pretty rad. Mom would've loved that.

It really sucks the state of the world right now because I know without the pandemic we would've had a funeral reception 250 people deep with music and drinking but that's just not responsible right now. :(

Thanks for all your kind words you guys.

I think the hard part starts now, honestly. Figuring out the estate and cleaning out her house etc etc

That's definitely the hardest part but it's important to do it. Still haven't cleaned everything out myself so it depends how much stuff you've gotta go through.

Take breaks as needed.
Also you'll need to figure out who has legal authority of things in her name like bank accounts. Companies she owes money to will send letters regularly, they tend to be easy to deal with.

Well the thing is, there's an insurance policy we need to get into and have no idea where the paperwork for it is, so hoping that we can figure that out by getting into her bank accounts.

Sorry for your loss

My sincerest condolences, dude

I'm so sorry ExTha.
You have my sincerest condolences.
Stay strong brother.