Well, I tried to trim the topic title as much as I could, it originally said "transgender community," but I hit the 80 limit pretty quick.
I feel like deadnaming is specific to the transgender community, but I also wouldn't view the comparison as 'disrespectful.' I think the main difference is that a deadname calls up more than just a name but everything associated with that time in a negative sense.
I very strongly appreciate not being defensive about this, by the way^
^Hurray for wanting to learn and not being an ignorant dickbag who plays victim to things they don't understand!
I kinda say this a lot but I'm always really glad to see people just trying to clarify and understand what they might not get instead of going... well, the other route.
Addendum: not everyone will agree with my opinion on whether or not cisgender people can have deadnames, this is just my take, I feel pretty strongly about it thoughyeah the first google result says ur wrong sry para get owned
is it disrespectful to ask if the combination of your birth and current name is intentionally a play on words? >_>Highly coincidental.
Again, the topic title.. Doesn't really offend me either. I don't believe any transphobia was implied.Yeap, the only thing that really bothers me regarding terminology/language is bad intent.
Addendum: not everyone will agree with my opinion on whether or not cisgender people can have deadnames, this is just my take, I feel pretty strongly about it thoughftr my opinion on this one is very much that I do not feel strongly about it at all. It certainly is a concept based on the trans usage but like I said attempting to relate isn't really offensive or anything.
I feel like this is a good topicno its a bad topic he oculdve just googled the answer
Highly coincidental.Fair enough. It just stuck out to me right away.
no its a bad topic he oculdve just googled the answerJust so you are aware, this is one of the top results from googling "deadname,":
Just so you are aware, this is one of the top results from googling "deadname,":I was mocking Mac for being a dipshit
"According to one entry in Urban Dictionary, a Dead Name can be described as follows: n. The birth name of somebody who has changed their name . Most commonly attributed to trans people, but can be attributed to any person who has changed their name . ( sometimes written as two words: dead name)"
...I suspect, though, that the tidbit might be by part of what para was saying.
Very un John Locke like.
Should have yelled in her face DONT TELL ME WHAT I CANT DO
why is transgender as used in the topic title offensive? legit curious.transgender is an adjective
why is transgender as used in the topic title offensive? legit curious.It's improper and usually said in a way that's derisive. It's transgender people , not 'transgenders.' It has like, a similar sort of energy as a fox news-watching grandparent saying 'the blacks.' Not quite on the level of a slur, not really exactly easy to point to why it's offensive, it's just kind of got this subtle element of both reducing people and not taking them seriously. Sorry if that's not really a satisfying answer, it's just one of those things.
It's improper and usually said in a way that's derisive. It's transgender people , not 'transgenders.' It has like, a similar sort of energy as a fox news-watching grandparent saying 'the blacks.' Not quite on the level of a slur, not really exactly easy to point to why it's offensive, it's just kind of got this subtle element of both reducing people and not taking them seriously. Sorry if that's not really a satisfying answer, it's just one of those things.
Also, I thought people changing their name IRL to a video game character was just a 4chan joke, whoda thunk people actually do that. Cringe x 1 millionNow this is just being a asshole. Did you really have to say this?
Also, I thought people changing their name IRL to a video game character was just a 4chan joke, whoda thunk people actually do that. Cringe x 1 millionSounds like you didn't cry yourself to sleep hard enough last night, maybe try again tonight and see how you feel tomorrow morning.
Now this is just being a asshole. Did you really have to say this?Insult trans people, cool