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I'm messaging an ex gf on Instagram, they reply sometimes and always see the messages not long after but don't always reply. Surely if she wasn't interested at all she'd not even bother reading them?

Are there any that don't restrict you too much and make you buy a subscription?

Does anyone have any recommendations for some decent dating apps they've found?

DrizztLink posted...

If it's okcupid, at least twelve of those are bots.

Not meaning this as an insult, it's just fuckin' swimming in them last I checked.

That's what I thought too

Is that real or is it just them trying to get me to buy a subscription to see who liked?

pedro45 posted...

Anyone use dating apps and get to the end of users without really any matches?
I see anecdotes like the one above and feel confused as to what I'm doing to not get dates.
Even people at work have like no thoughts or advice as to how I could date better. I'm me, I'm honest, I'm straight forward, I'm nice, I'm young looking, etc.

I thought plenty of fish had like an infinite amount of users and...nope.
I've had zero success on bumble. Black people meet has been the most "successful".

That happened to me a lot on Hiki (a dating app for people with asd).

I'm trying it for the first time, seeing if it's any good.

Same

CommonStar posted...

Seems she misread your response and thought you meant far in the relationship instead of far in distance. Also might've been better to respond with "Maybe we can meet up whenever you visit your friend."

True, well it's too late now

We've been talking for a few days and being really friendly and getting along then she says "she wants someone to go out places like the cinema and airshows with her" and she asked how far away I was. We found out we were 90 miles away and she said that her friend lives near to me that she's going to sometime for a fireworks show. She said she doesn't like travelling that far by herself. She then said "I don't mind us being the close of friends! I hope I can find my happiness soon!!". I replied "Oh that's a coincidence that they live so close. I didn't think you'd want to go that far". Then she said "If I was with someone I said"
Then she blocked me on the dating app and Instagram, I don't know what I did wrong

Intro2Logic posted...

I lost my virginity at 29, after years of assuming it wouldn't happen.

Nice! Hopefully the same can happen for me

bsp77 posted...

You have an ex? Can I ask why you didn't have sex?

We were 16 so a long time ago

I'm trying to start a proper relationship first but the girl I was talking to on a dating app has stopped replying and so has my ex I was messaging

PeteyParker posted...

Here's something to comfort you in your time of need:
https://www.amazon.com/Everybody-Loves-Raymond-Complete-Various/dp/B004YOEECS

I actually am a fan of Everybody Loves Raymond and The King of Queens. I have them on DVD

rexcrk posted...

Not for everyone, unfortunately.

Some of us legit cant even get girls to look at them

The problem with me is I look decent in my appearance but then when most people start to talk to me they probably think I'm a weirdo and then walk away in droves xO

Then 10 years after that I'll be a 40 year old virgin like Steve Carrell in the movie

Glob posted...

I was chatting to my current girlfriend online for about a month and a half before we lived in the same country.

It only took you a month and a half to live together?

I've been talking to someone on a friendship/dating app and we get along great but they live in the US and I'm in the UK. Does anyone have any experience with an overseas relationship and how was it?

:(