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My date today was late 45 minutes. A date which she delayed half an hour by the way (I don't mind since I was still at home). Luckily I managed to kill 15 of those minutes at the gas station but still not impressed. The moment she got in my car I told her she is paying the bill in a sarcastic serious way, she laughed and said ok. It still went alright, she wasn't super hot but had amazing boobs and decent face. I'm not going to text her but if she texts me I'd fuck

emblem boy posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

Look fresh one day, snap a good selfie with good lighting and angle, then when a girl asks for a selfie send that

This guy fucks

What lol

Who looks their best all the time?

Look fresh one day, snap a good selfie with good lighting and angle, then when a girl asks for a selfie send that

Tauros posted...

emblem boy posted...

Tauros posted...

Matched with a girl who super liked me. Got her number, she seems interested in meeting for drinks. She texts me asking me to send a selfie, so I oblige. She unmatched me right after, and never responded.

Why do I still even try.

Damn, that's cold

Even more proof that I should just permanently give up. Between all the ghostings and this, I'm apparently just not good enough to date even a halfway cute girl.

Bruh

emblem boy posted...

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JustMyOpinion posted...

Tanoomba posted...

Why have you been talking to a girl for almost a month and not setting a date?

My thoughts exactly. Did he go to OKC for a date or a pen pal?

1) I'm spending the whole month in vacation in a different country.

2) OKC is kind of slow. Just getting to know a girl a bit can take a couple weeks.

3) I haven't been on a date in my life so I don't know how this stuff is done. Hell, I don't know how to flirt, my messages are purely conversational. Not even a dingle compliment, I don't know how to say them and make it sound normal.

Try to ask for a date soon after you get back

3/4 solid days is ideal to ask out. After that it's tough, even if you don't meet up for a few days. I usually say the same thing "Hey, you seem pretty cool and chill. Want to go out for a drink or coffee (if you don't drink). Obviously when it works for both of us" and it always works

Speaking of, have a date tonight. The girl is super cute but only realized when I stalked her up, her tinder pics were good but she definitely didn't put her best up. It sounds like her english isn't that great

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Cemith posted...

Can y'all help a bumbling bro out

Bumble is not easy fam, half your matches won't even message or they'll message once

Anyways met a girl today. She was very attractive and good all around.


Now here's where I sound stupid but I just refuse to message a girl first after a date and if I don't get a message well that's the end. Hope I get a message tomorrow lol

That sounds petty man.

Eh, it's hard to explain

I can explain it. It's clown shit. I don't believe in chasing chicks. They gotta show they're interested too but we all know generally speaking the guy should sort of lead somewhat. If I got something to say I'm gonna text or call or whatever if that's what I feel like doing. A lot of girls won't do that until you get them to that point. I bet you a bunch of girls you've seen were sitting waiting doing the same shit you're doing and going oh I guess he isn't interested.

Call it clown shit (because it might be) but that's basically it. Why am I supposed to do so much? Message first on tinder, ask her for her number, ask her out, pick her up, pay for drinks, take her home. If the date leads to instant make out session or even sex then sure I'll message first next day.

Because you're the predator. It's not hard to know if the girl is interested. I'm not saying you gotta go breaking your back to please em. Just take some initiative. It's like playing tennis you gotta hit the ball to em and they'll hit it back. The balls on your side and you're fucking up the game worrying about stupid shit. The next day you can send a simple hey with a smiley face and their response or lack of response can show you what the deal is.

Yo

She ended up texting

mrtopgoon327 posted...

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emblem boy posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

Cemith posted...

Can y'all help a bumbling bro out

Bumble is not easy fam, half your matches won't even message or they'll message once

Anyways met a girl today. She was very attractive and good all around.


Now here's where I sound stupid but I just refuse to message a girl first after a date and if I don't get a message well that's the end. Hope I get a message tomorrow lol

That sounds petty man.

Eh, it's hard to explain

I can explain it. It's clown shit. I don't believe in chasing chicks. They gotta show they're interested too but we all know generally speaking the guy should sort of lead somewhat. If I got something to say I'm gonna text or call or whatever if that's what I feel like doing. A lot of girls won't do that until you get them to that point. I bet you a bunch of girls you've seen were sitting waiting doing the same shit you're doing and going oh I guess he isn't interested.

Call it clown shit (because it might be) but that's basically it. Why am I supposed to do so much? Message first on tinder, ask her for her number, ask her out, pick her up, pay for drinks, take her home. If the date leads to instant make out session or even sex then sure I'll message first next day.

emblem boy posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

Cemith posted...

Can y'all help a bumbling bro out

Bumble is not easy fam, half your matches won't even message or they'll message once

Anyways met a girl today. She was very attractive and good all around.


Now here's where I sound stupid but I just refuse to message a girl first after a date and if I don't get a message well that's the end. Hope I get a message tomorrow lol

That sounds petty man.

Eh, it's hard to explain

Cemith posted...

Can y'all help a bumbling bro out

Bumble is not easy fam, half your matches won't even message or they'll message once

Anyways met a girl today. She was very attractive and good all around.


Now here's where I sound stupid but I just refuse to message a girl first after a date and if I don't get a message well that's the end. Hope I get a message tomorrow lol

mrtopgoon327 posted...

gna647 posted...

mrtopgoon327 posted...

Hope she sticks around, can tell you're gonna start going crazy again if things don't pan out.

:(

i know
i have that in the back of my mind. And i consciously kinda stop myself from catching feelings and tell myself to let it go if she decides im not for her.

we were talking yesterday morning (she slept over last night too) and she was telling me she told her family about me and they were teasing her cause they knew she would end up with an asian guy (she has a thing for them since she likes naruto and anime lol)

Just remember that even though they're different, all the girls are the same. There isn't one soulmate for you out there. There are multiple people you'd be happy with, it just depends which one you find first and build that connection with and at the same time, you gotta remember anything can happen. You never truly know someone. I was with this chick that I thought would become my wife, our relationship was great.

I make sure to keep in mind that things can always end despite how amazing it seems, that's part of what prepares you to handle it if things do end, but I never expected us to end the way we did. My homies and family loved her and thought we were great together as well and told me not to mess it up. I got sick and she abandoned me pretty much. I'd understand if it had been a few months but she left pretty quick. If the situation was reversed I'd of done everything for her. Shit was wack, I was angry and still am of course, but moreso because I just was disgusted by her and the situation. I wasn't angry in the sense of thinking I'd never find someone I really like to that extent again. I miss what we had, but I don't miss her. I don't think you liked that halloween chick as much as you think. It sounds just like the feeling of liking someone and you just got your hopes up with her first. Don't waste your time with people that aren't chasing you back.

truth

Last year I dated this girl who I thought was the one and perfect for me, that ended and I was pretty down. This year I ended up dating someone better than that girl in every way, unfortunately that ended too but I wasn't as down as I realized it will happen again

Summer 17 girl

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emblem boy posted...

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This girl I'm seeing is a sex addict. I thought I was one but I dunno if I can keep up.

Brah

I've been there man, get out. The highly sexual, sex addict girl eventually took the fun out of sex for me and it was a while before it felt good again

I'm gonna roll with it for now. She is also extremely attractive and is really cool so far.

I mean get out slowly, but for now enjoy the ride

Going downhill now. We agreed to chill on the sex for a week. We were hanging yesterday and she gets worked up. I ran outta condoms and intentionally wasn't restocking for a bit and she wanted to do it anyways yo. I said no and she now she has a problem with me. What a lunatic.

that feeling when you are right ^_^

1 quality girl that likes you is better than 1000 matches, let's hope one of these turn out to be that for me

My quick review

POF- Decent variety, attractive girls, a lot of spam. Has the most trans, prostitutes, crossdressers, couples as well (Don't want any of these). Find conversations die on here fastest too.

OKcupid- The girls aren't as attractive as pof but I find the ones you do talk to have a higher chance of holding a conversation. App is super slow and I hate how they removed the "viewed me" feature as I only ever messaged girls that viewed my profile.

Tinder- The best app by far. Has the highest amount of users and location based. Definitely the go to

Bumble- Tinder lite. Also has very attractive women but half my matches don't even send the first message or they message once and that's it.

RedWhiteBlue posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

Get along with everyone? Aha I guess? Do you mean girls I meet?

Everyone, guys and girls. But I go the point from your above paragraph. You've got that natural funny going on, I used to have that but it was short-lived, years ago. Was glorious >_>

I didn't know it was possible to lose your humor

I won't lie, I reuse jokes and stories that worked on girls before when I meet someone new

RedWhiteBlue posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

http://imgur.com/a/C8CX8

when tinder acknowledges your power level

Out of curiosity (I don't use dating sites), what do you look like and do you get along with everybody? I assume your texting / social skills are phenomenal and you look above average? Or hobbies all over the place?

Posted pics in the last topic but that topic got destroyed I guess. I don't think I'm ugly but I'm not for everyone. I just wrote a witty bio but I do think I have good texting/social skills. Every girl has said that I'm pretty funny and my ex used to tell me I was the funniest guy she knows. I think you have to strike a balance of being funny, a bit dangerous with that humor but never any thing stupid or straight up perverted

Get along with everyone? Aha I guess? Do you mean girls I meet?

teepan95 posted...

Daaaaamn

Daaaaamn is right son ^_^

http://imgur.com/a/C8CX8

when tinder acknowledges your power level

emblem boy posted...

So the girl I've been seeing. We've met like 6 or 7 times now. She's met friends of mine and I've met one of her friends. She's been to my place and has spent the night twice now, no sex or anything, just cuddling.
But it's cool so far. Just gonna see how it keeps going.

This got me thinking

Does your perception of a girl change if they have sex with you quick?

mrtopgoon327 posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

emblem boy posted...

mrtopgoon327 posted...

This girl I'm seeing is a sex addict. I thought I was one but I dunno if I can keep up.

Brah

I've been there man, get out. The highly sexual, sex addict girl eventually took the fun out of sex for me and it was a while before it felt good again

I'm gonna roll with it for now. She is also extremely attractive and is really cool so far.

I mean get out slowly, but for now enjoy the ride

emblem boy posted...

mrtopgoon327 posted...

This girl I'm seeing is a sex addict. I thought I was one but I dunno if I can keep up.

Brah

I've been there man, get out. The highly sexual, sex addict girl eventually took the fun out of sex for me and it was a while before it felt good again

emblem boy posted...

I don't know if I could do multiple first dates like that man.

That shit has to get tiring

Ones a beer date, ones a coffee date and ones a gym date. It's only temporary, when one is solid, I'll stop with the first dates

RIP Halloween girl (finally)


I got 3 dates lined up for next week but couldnt get anyone this week

Sundays I matched over a year ago and had on insta this whole time, she liked my pictures often too. We matched again and it's finally happening

Delete it, make a new one with better pics of yourself then try again

billcom6 posted...

I honestly have an amazing gift, or curse maybe.

I will match with a girl on tinder/bumble and talk to here for awhile, whether it be a few days or a whole week, and I am talking good conversation, so then I will ask them if they would like to go out sometime, and then they will never respond again (some seemingly never log into the app again after that).

It has happened too many times to just be a coincidence.

a week is too long if you are talking consistently. 3 days min

Discussion of girls met on Halloween is prohibited

I'm single and down for anything (relationship, casual relationship, one night stand, fuck buddy). I want none of the above with her but have a few dates set up for next week but they are all tentative as I have work and a wedding

but no this girl is much worse looking than every girl I have been with

I just reply much slower until she gets it

Was talking to a girl all day, we exchanged pics and whoa....she definitely put her best on tinder. Backed out of that shit

MrResetti posted...

I matched with an attractive 29 year old. I'm 25. But she's in an open marriage and her husband comes into my work sometimes. Granted I don't have to interact with him because he doesn't use us for prescriptions but.

Makes me nervous. Still messaged her lol

She's in an open relationship, you are single

As long as he knows she is seeing other guys you are good

Maeiv posted...

Looks like I exhausted a lot of my candidates around my area.

Time for a long hiatus.

Where are you located?

I am so glad I am in a big city. This can't happen to me

vbty3 posted...

Those are all the ones I know of that are free. What's weird is that you're still having trouble when you're attractive. Maybe try MeetMe

Not having trouble necessarily, just trying to fuck someone by the end of the week.

vbty3 posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

Do you guys find any other apps besides Bumble, tinder, OKC, and pof useful?

Grindr

*apps for a straight man to find women

Do you guys find any other apps besides Bumble, tinder, OKC, and pof useful?

teepan95 posted...

emblem boy posted...

We kissed.

Ayyyyyy

Yes my homie getting in there

What's up with bumble, only half of my matches message, the other half let it expire

Okcupid got rid of their "viewed me" section?

I only messaged girls that viewed my profile -_-

Have 2 dates lined up for next week. This one russian girl who is still new to Canada, and this older asian girl

24 matches between bumble and tinder in 24 hours #eggplantgoinginpeach

Ok I'll stop showing off ^_^

Guys just get 4 clear pics that show body and smile, and you'll be good. If you don't have some, get someone to take them. 3 of my pics my mom took and one my friend at the gym

Just downloaded bumble as well and have a match already. Let's do this ;)

Downloaded tinder again today. Let's see how this round goes. I wanted to let a past failure heal first and I think I'm ready now

Tauros posted...

Tinder date flaked today. It amazes me how these girls can talk to me for a week, let me know when they're available, we set up a date, then just ghost.

Sucks, been there. If she ever hits you up again, tell her you are only going out if she buys dinner

JustMyOpinion posted...

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Blue_Popo posted...

^

gna647 posted...

Officially did it


Talked to her about how I felt and I told her we probably can't be friends because of it.

She told me it's frustrating we can't be friends but she understands, and that what I wanted was bad timing for her because she's not ready for anything serious with anyone


But we had closure, and I blocked her on everything


So that's that.

I feel relieved and regret at the same time. Like I wanted her to stop me and tell me she's willing to give us a shot. But I'm just happy I won't be seeing her on anything or talking to her anymore

First page of this topic LOL

This guy is jorah mormont, that girl is danerys

Lmao

What a joke. A sad, pathetic joke.

Hey

...I thought my joke was pretty good :p

Antifar posted...

ThanksUglyGod posted...

Wait, there were women at those alt-right rallies?

Yeah, in general, I don't recall seeing many female faces from their torchlight march.

so it's a group of unattractive men? :/

Maeiv posted...

Dating friends. Yes or no?

no

CmndrHurricane posted...

why are none of the women hot? because they're only alt-right

This one was good

^

gna647 posted...

Officially did it


Talked to her about how I felt and I told her we probably can't be friends because of it.

She told me it's frustrating we can't be friends but she understands, and that what I wanted was bad timing for her because she's not ready for anything serious with anyone


But we had closure, and I blocked her on everything


So that's that.

I feel relieved and regret at the same time. Like I wanted her to stop me and tell me she's willing to give us a shot. But I'm just happy I won't be seeing her on anything or talking to her anymore

First page of this topic LOL

This guy is jorah mormont, that girl is danerys

From the pics and videos they have no attractive women on that side

EnragedSlith posted...

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emblem boy posted...

I think I'm scared of kissing her because it's been so long and I don't want to be had at it. I've kissed 2 girls. When I was 23/24 and had a month long thing with this girl. Then when I was 25, but I was drunk for that one and don't remember it. I haven't been sober for a kiss in 3 years.

This is how I feel except for sex
I've had sex 3 times but I haven't had any since April

Then why do you keep talking about "being with" women. What does even mean to you?

Also, kissing is easy. Just kiss her how she kisses you.

Yes this last bit is key. Match their pace, don't be trying to tongue her wisdom teeth

umax555 posted...

Do I have a chance to escape the friend zone here?

I met this girl from Tinder back in March or April. I've been on tons of online dates but this girl stood out and was one of the very few that I was 100% sure I really liked. We went on 3 dates, she seemed into me during the first two but after the third she seemed less interested and made excuses not to hang out. I finally asked her what was up and she said she didn't want a boyfriend right now and we should just be friends. After that we didn't talk for awhile.

Fast foward to about a month ago. I sent her a text saying happy birthday, and it turned into a whole conversation. Since then we've been texting/snapchatting multiple times per week and she actually seemed interested in talking to me again. No flirting yet though. I finally said we should hang out and she agreed. We're planning on grabbing drinks or something later this week. So, do I make a move or wait until we've hung out a bit more? And how would I go about doing it?

See how the situation unfolds, if you've been on a ton of dates you should be able to tell if she just wants a friend or she wants you

mrtopgoon327 posted...

JustMyOpinion posted...

Flaking on a meet up is lame. No sympathy for that behavior.

Yea, people needa stop tolerating disrespect, makes me fucking sick.

Aha we agreed to go out and she will buy me dinner and even pick me up ^_^

mrtopgoon327 posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

One I'm not sure if I should meet or tell to **** off, she's pretty but last time we were supposed to meet up she ghosted me the day of. I ignored her afterwards, today she messaged like nothing happened, I acted the same way but I have too much pride to meet someone like that

Good. Should've called her out too. Said you're really gonna hit me up like nothing happened?

She replied, she said at that point she had never met anyone online and she gets nervous. She apologized. I accepted. It's not like I left my house or anything last time

Coolppl Owns posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

One I'm not sure if I should meet or tell to **** off, she's pretty but last time we were supposed to meet up she ghosted me the day of. I ignored her afterwards, today she messaged like nothing happened, I acted the same way but I have too much pride to meet someone like that

I wouldn't

I messaged her telling her that I want to know what happened and if she doesn't have a good answer the conversation is over