Lurker > 1NfamousACE_2

Ferroseed posted...

and since ace is denying it ace also got super mad about the nfl coming out in support of the lgbtq+ community after carl nassib came out. the dude gets so pissed off whenever something he likes does anything pro lgbtq+

i didnt get mad

i thought it was messed up that the NFL was using a gay player to sell jerseys, especially since he didnt want to be known as a gay NFL player

sell all 7th round nfl jersey picks if you want equality

LSGW_Zephyra posted...

Are you for real? There is a huge difference between what is morally permissible and what is pragmatically expedient. A trans woman shouldn't have to disclose, it's usually safer and more likely to get a good reaction if they do.

exactly

a woman doesnt have to disclose they are a woman

hockeybub89 posted...

So are infertile women not women since they need to disclose infertility at some point? Actual women don't have to disclose anything to dates ever?

no, but I believe infertile women should let their partner know they are infertile eventually

Ferroseed posted...

uh huh sure it wasnt just you flipping out because he was gay and you didnt like a gay player getting any kind of positive attention

lmao

So youre JerseyProud?

How did Michael Sam do in the NFL? Lol

StealThisSheen posted...

...I said that. YOU are the one who said they need to disclose.

Oops?

Did you already forget I was the one arguing with you that not disclosing isn't deceptive?

Im not saying before the first date

Im saying ever. Should a transwomen ever disclose their status if their partner doesnt ask, and if so, when?

Ferroseed posted...

lmao you guys are just now finding out about ace? the dude had an absolute shit fit over michael sam, the gay football player

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/2000211-sports-and-racing-nfl/69237448

he didnt even make the team, but was propelled because he was gay

I think everyone should have a problem with that

StealThisSheen posted...

No, I only debate with people arguing in good faith, which you made VERY clear you are not. Goodbye.

if you felt transwomen were women, then you should feel Like they shouldnt have to disclose to their partner that they are transwomen.

so its okay, you cant refute my point, so you run away

StealThisSheen posted...

Keep digging that hole, bigot.

So you cant answer the question?

LSGW_Zephyra posted...

I haven't had gender affirmation surgery, so it might come across as a bit of a surprise if sex feels like it's on the table. Also, you just kinda talk about these things with prospective partners. Like, major life events and such.

ok, say you want to have the surgery one day, do you still feel you should disclose it eventually to a partner?

StealThisSheen posted...

I still can't get over how 1Nfamous tried to argue "I'm not transphobic because I'm not afraid of them," and then immediately turned around and went "btw transwomen aren't women."

What the fuck.

if you feel that transwomen should eventually disclose they are transwomen to their partner, that gets rid of that argument, no?

LSGW_Zephyra posted...

Probably as soon as I thought things were going well and starting to get sexual. I'm pretty open though, and I need to like someone before it gets to that point so it's likely they will know before then.

and why do you feel the need to disclose it?

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So TC makes this up and it should be treated as a rumor?

No link?

Sounds made up

Question for the transwomen in this topic.

You meet a guy, at the bar, on a dating app, at the supermarket, etc

Yall start dating.

He never asks if you are a transwoman. Do you ever disclose it to him, and if so, when?

AnsestralRecall posted...

This is just pure fucking self-aware wolf shit

Im a black man. I want a black wife. So Im racist now because I wont date a white or Asian woman?

Xenogears15 posted...

Look at this guy, trying to use a definition to help excuse his bigotry.

So now Im a bigot and transphobic because I wont date a transwoman?

AnsestralRecall posted...

Quoting so ace can't hide from it

i dont think having a preference is racist

i think saying an entire race of people is ugly or unattractive is racist

LSGW_Zephyra posted...

Yeah, see. This is why it's transphobic. It's because you don't even see us as women in the first place.

but I dont have a fear of you, or dislike you just for being a transwoman, which I thought was the basis for a phobia?

AnsestralRecall posted...

Cis women aren't women by that same fucking logic.

i dont use cis in any conversation

StealThisSheen posted...

I can't help but notice 1Nfamous doesn't want to respond to the fact that he's holding a double standard and treating trans people different than cis people by saying the former must discuss their genitalia without being asked, while the latter only needs to do so if asked.

Wonder why.

as I previously said, Im not saying they must disclose they are trans before the date.

Im simply saying that I believe that is the safest time to disclose it

Xenogears15 posted...

It depends. Do you consider transwomen to be women?

No, because if transwomen were women, then the word trans wouldnt be needed.

We need to get past that first

asdf8562 posted...

Saying shit like this does not help trans people.....

Not interested in dating trans people does not mean you hate or dislike their existence.

Im having trouble understanding it

Ill be friends with a trans woman, hang out with her but because I wont date her, that means Im transphobic?

thats unfair

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And not dating a trans woman means Im scared of her? Or I hate her? Or I dislike her?

KajeI posted...

I want to know people's opinions on this, completely separate from whether the person in question in trans or not.

If you go on a date to see a movie, and then 5 minutes in you realize the person you're on a date with is really annoying, should you sit through the whole movie?

honestly, depends on the movie

AnsestralRecall posted...

It's a dismissal of trans women on account of them being trans.

It is inherently transphobic.

But its not hate, a dislike or anything that comes with a phobia.

FLAMING_EVIL_HOMER posted...

CE goes on a date and they find out the other person is a Trumper, what does CE do?

i end the date, Pay and leave

AnsestralRecall posted...

You're wrong, but okay

What makes that transphobic?

I also dont someone should be labeled transphobic just because they wont date a trans person

StealThisSheen posted...

He didn't ask prior to the date. So how is it deceptive? Why should somebody need to ask about your penis, but trans people have to disclose without being asked? Is that really fair? You're holding a double standard.

listen, I have already said that I believe trans people should disclose they are trans before a date, so that the other person can decide if they still wish to proceed

there is no gotcha moment that can be had

StealThisSheen posted...

Okay then please disclose your penis size and shape before every date.

i will if asked and I see nothing wrong with a woman asking before the first date

emblem-man posted...

Again, I don't think you actually believe this. Or at least, I don't think you're consistent in this believe.

It's a first date, there's a plethora of things that have long-term implications that I'm sure you would say is fine to not bring up on a first date, because it'd be fucking weird and creepy to do that.

Just say you think trans people should disclose. You don't have to shroud it in some obfuscation that it's "deceptive" to not disclose.

yes, I believe trans people should disclose before the first date, so the other person can either be okay with it or not.

hockeybub89 posted...

It isn't deceptive at all. Trans women are 100% blameless for that violence. No one has any obligation to be personal on a first date.

Im not blaming trans women at all

Im simply saying there is no good time to tell someone because you never know how theyre going to react

StealThisSheen posted...

Is it? I could understand if they did something like said they WEREN'T transgender, but if it never actually comes up in conversation, should the transgender person HAVE to feel obligated to tell somebody they don't even know, prior to a first date? Why would it not make more sense to, say, wait until you start to get to know them, and tell them during the date?

Those are usually the type that lash out physically after being told.

unfortunately there is no right time to tell someone, which is why I believe it should be known before it gets to the first date because you dont know how theyll react.

ClayGuida posted...

Idk, if someone called me deceptive on a date, I'd find that to be incredibly rude.

not informing someone that you are transgender is deceptive

I understand the deception though because men are killing transgender women after finding out, which is terrible

hockeybub89 posted...

People who aren't polite should be alone forever.

he was polite until he was accused of being transphobic.

if you are on a dating app and are catfished or the picture is from 7-8 years ago, should you be obligated to stay?

hockeybub89 posted...

Non-sociopaths understand that tact and politeness are a part of the social contract.

No, some people understand that its okay to say how you feel and people can be adults

I dont see anything wrong with how it ended. If hes no longer interested, and stays, the entire date becomes awkward.

He tried to attack Khan, and hes being a little bitch and scared

Its stupid and will never catch on

even in news stories theyll say X formerly known as Twitter

modena posted...

My local PD alone make so much of their budget from "smelling Marijuana odor" that leads to a bunch of other shit from probable searches.

Florida is like that although hemp is legal but most dont know that

https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/2023/08/30/hhs-calls-for-moving-marijuana-to-a-lower-risk-category/70721436007/

the fact that its still schedule I which means no medical usage and high abuse is crazy

I would take it

Probably 100

i frequent strip clubs

without strip clubs probably like 15-20

Wtf is Twitter?

Life in prison, dont care about juvenile Stuff

20% since its easy to compute

Can teachers talk about this in class Monday here in Florida?

PerseusRad posted...

Wow I hadnt heard of this at all until just now, wtf

It was on my Facebook feed as it was ongoing

He left a manifesto

https://x.com/wjxtvic/status/1695572688578695223?s=46&t=Lc8ypXWqQKtyvDA84DPiWw