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TopicJKR continues to spread hate speech about trans women
CSCA33
11/05/23 6:03:09 PM
#102
Antiyonder posted...
Additionally I can believe that her view might have started out because of legit hardship, but her problem is thinking that being a victim makes her behavior just by default.

Otherwise those who did her wrong would have to receive the same consideration.
On top of that, she isnt even actually a victim here. Its a false narrative of perceived slight, a house of cards with no honest foundation.

Trans people and women in particular arent taking anything or invading. There is no attack, its pure fantasy. This is how some abusers operate in reality and justify their actions to themselves. We can also look at how incels feel theyve been wronged for more examples of this behavior.

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TopicSesame Street accidentally uses Jamaican slang for the gay slur in their IG
CSCA33
11/05/23 3:26:15 PM
#59
party_animal07 posted...
For the record, I don't think anybody was offended. They cut off the comments because people were making jokes in the replies.
shh our alt righties have false narratives to spin about twitter mob boogie mans

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TopicPlease don't use the Black feature on me. Don't I'm begging you!
CSCA33
11/05/23 2:00:22 PM
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Guess we will see how long the mods let this topic ride!

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TopicMiles Morales confirmed main Spider-Man going forward.
CSCA33
11/05/23 1:10:26 PM
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There's loads of seminal content for Peter that hasn't been explored in the Insomniac games. Would be a missed opportunity to relegate him away.

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TopicAlabama Mayor, Pastor Dies by Suicide After Being Involuntarily Outed
CSCA33
11/05/23 1:02:00 AM
#48
Inohira posted...
Another face eating leopards tragedy. Really unfortunate.
There are small southern towns like this where only cishet normative society and culture is tolerated, but even those places still have closeted gay and/ or trans people who are late bloomers.

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TopicAlabama Mayor, Pastor Dies by Suicide After Being Involuntarily Outed
CSCA33
11/05/23 12:11:07 AM
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It was totally a hit piece and they got what they wanted.

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TopicAlabama Mayor, Pastor Dies by Suicide After Being Involuntarily Outed
CSCA33
11/04/23 11:00:59 PM
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I remember her from one of our communities where we talk and help support each other.

This is so sad.

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TopicTrump Trials General Topic Part 2
CSCA33
11/04/23 4:24:18 PM
#36
CableZL posted...
Also, John Eastman referenced 2000 Mules as proof of election fraud in his disbarment trial
These people never learn.

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TopicJKR continues to spread hate speech about trans women
CSCA33
11/04/23 3:53:26 PM
#68
punkfanalways posted...
Just for context JKR was herself a victim of DA and Rape in the past so she's obviously got some baggage she's still dealing with. Not to justify her abhorrent stance obviously.
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/a/abf5f441.jpg

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TopicJKR continues to spread hate speech about trans women
CSCA33
11/04/23 1:50:55 PM
#35
JKR is also saying anyone who supports trans rights are rapist rights advocates.

Absolutely disgusting to target vulnerable and marginalized minorities and our allies for basic human rights.

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TopicJKR continues to spread hate speech about trans women
CSCA33
11/04/23 1:09:30 PM
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Enclave posted...
Yet there's going to still be people who deny that she's anti-trans.
Very much so. I try to give people the benefit of the doubt and treat it as genuine ignorance if possible, so statements like these really help shut down people dancing around their words with allusion and inference, or misinterpretation.

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TopicJKR continues to spread hate speech about trans women
CSCA33
11/04/23 12:56:09 PM
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https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/0/019d1f49.jpg

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Topicim upset w/my partner for something they cant control, anyone got advice?
CSCA33
11/04/23 10:24:55 AM
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I dont mean to get sideways with you or anything, I was just trying to talk and offer helpful advice. Sorry, I didnt mean to be insulting. I apologize and genuinely wish you well.

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Topicim upset w/my partner for something they cant control, anyone got advice?
CSCA33
11/04/23 10:21:17 AM
#60
Hey, if youre not comfortable discussing something, thats totally fair. I was just asking what you want for yourself and you opt not to discuss it. I respect that. I wasnt implying anything along those lines, you came here asking for advice and as its offered, you can take it or leave it.

I hope things work out well for you


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Topicim upset w/my partner for something they cant control, anyone got advice?
CSCA33
11/04/23 10:11:09 AM
#58
Dungeater posted...
this topic isnt about relationship structures
You had described a mix of parallel and kitchen table, and it can at least help to spend some personal time thinking about what you want or makes you happy for the future, being honest with yourself, even if you arent comfortable discussing that here openly. I personally wouldnt be asking this board for relationship advice period.

You may not intend to speak about some aspects specifically, but it was relevant to the discussion at hand and how it affects situations, and how to approach these things.

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TopicIs the term "Zionist" an offensive term?
CSCA33
11/04/23 8:51:59 AM
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AnYtHiNg CaN bE a sLuR!1!

/s

No, Zionist and Zionism are not offensive words.

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Topicim upset w/my partner for something they cant control, anyone got advice?
CSCA33
11/04/23 7:53:30 AM
#56
Gwynevere posted...
Some decent responses in here so far once you wade through the "polyamory bad" garbage

All I can say is your patience is God like TC, I'm not the best at accommodating the trauma of other people in a way that's very understanding
To clarify my initial remark, Im not ideologically opposed to polyamory or the broader umbrella of ENM.
Dungeater posted...
we're together almost a year at this point and it's been working very well. i think his only hangup about our relationship structure is that im not seeing or fucking other people

but i hesitate to even call it a hangup, its barely a nitpick of his. and i surprisingly havent had issues with the relationship structure itself at all, as far as i can tell. im not like, intermingling with them but a couple of his partners have had us over before and theyre really cool. the only thing ive found i get jealous about is money, not time or people

we do have "rules" and we do bring stuff up instead of bottling it in

hopefully this helps those of u who thought this thread was about our relationship structure?
What is your ideal relationship structure or future goal where you see yourself happy, content and at peace, flourishing even? Do you want to eventually find a primary nesting partner, or something more along the lines of relationship anarchist perhaps? Family maybe one day? Parallel relationships or more kitchen table poly, or even a triad or polycule? Etc.

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Topicim upset w/my partner for something they cant control, anyone got advice?
CSCA33
11/03/23 2:16:14 PM
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Dungeater posted...
i told them exactly this and they agreed its possible, if not probable. and i do believe he is working on it

like, i dont think there is anything to do but be patient with him and trust that he's putting the work in

i was more looking for advice on my temper than anything ig
Don't be so hard on yourself =) Your feelings are valid and natural human emotions. Acknowledge them and give yourself space to process the emotion without dwelling or burying it. Take time to do something simple or calming, and focus on that task in front of you.

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Topicim upset w/my partner for something they cant control, anyone got advice?
CSCA33
11/03/23 1:56:24 PM
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I would recommend delving into practicing healthy communication to help facilitate progress on issues that matter. You feel like your needs or concerns arent being addressed in some respect, and communication is the issue here rather than something like, say, trust or respect, or consent.

There are some resources to help with engaging in healthy communication, and you can bring it up as something to engage together without necessarily dumping it on him to improve on his part. You want to be happy together, care for each other presumably, and this may get more progress on that front.

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Topicim upset w/my partner for something they cant control, anyone got advice?
CSCA33
11/03/23 1:29:11 PM
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Yeah, and it isnt adequately addressed enough outside of things like unicorn hunters and triad dynamics.

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TopicRobocop Rogue City
CSCA33
11/02/23 1:01:17 AM
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Ok cool, I definitely want to check it out more then.

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TopicRobocop Rogue City
CSCA33
11/02/23 12:38:03 AM
#41
Seems like mostly surface-level indulgence in RoboCop power fantasy policing the streets without any real meat on the bone or much of the charisma and charm from the film, rife with anti-capitalist satire, 80s nostalgia, and grappling with humanism.

Wheres the heart and soul?

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TopicDo u think this reddit post on an autistic person 'breaking character' is real?
CSCA33
11/01/23 11:11:15 PM
#14
TodorokiHayato posted...
Are you sure it's not them internalizing something they've seen on television? They could have seen a scene from a movie/show and somehow subconsciously internalized the character as their own.
Its fake, not to mention offensive.

report OP and move on

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TopicDo u think this reddit post on an autistic person 'breaking character' is real?
CSCA33
11/01/23 10:59:18 PM
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TopicRobocop Rogue City
CSCA33
11/01/23 9:50:58 PM
#35
gmanthebest posted...
Loving it so far. They put a ton of detail into it. Love when you can tell devs were fans of a property
I didnt get that vibe at all from the game trailers, which as a big fan of the original film seemed like a turn off. Like it was really missing that aspect or feel the film gives out.

I want to give it the benefit of the doubt and maybe missing something the trailers just arent showing?


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TopicSusan Calloway's Getting Canceled For Liking Right-Wing Tweets
CSCA33
11/01/23 5:19:54 PM
#210
and I will never be bullied into submission by false narratives and fake outrage. Thank you for corroborating the broad strokes of what I said earlier even as you conveniently/intentionally ignored the full context of the discussion to weave a tale of outrage about me, which I will again remind you did not include any naming of individuals on my part. I actually have conviction and stand by my beliefs because it's a sensitive topic that actually matters to people's lives and families.

I would even be open to discussing the issues further in a separate topic if you want to continue to re-hash the original sentiment about how some believe it wrong or deceptive for trans people to live stealth in the context of consent. The topic can be complex with many factors to consider.

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TopicSusan Calloway's Getting Canceled For Liking Right-Wing Tweets
CSCA33
11/01/23 2:22:30 PM
#209
I'm not spreading any lies.

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TopicSusan Calloway's Getting Canceled For Liking Right-Wing Tweets
CSCA33
11/01/23 2:09:51 PM
#204
Whether or not rape was the right word to use quickly morphed into maintaining the sentiment that it was still wrong/deceptive, as I briefly explained earlier. There was no understanding to be had about that or agreements made, as it dragged on.

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TopicSusan Calloway's Getting Canceled For Liking Right-Wing Tweets
CSCA33
11/01/23 1:29:23 PM
#198
I wasn't even naming names because I'm content to let sleeping dogs lie, as it were. It was a very contentious discussion with various interpretations behind meaning and intent, with a lot of people wanting to sling mud based on overly generous interpretations and completely ignore ramifications of perpetuating harmful beliefs, or acknowledge the importance of letting minorities speak for themselves on a matter that directly affects us.

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TopicSusan Calloway's Getting Canceled For Liking Right-Wing Tweets
CSCA33
11/01/23 1:15:51 PM
#196
Bandit_Keith posted...
That's not what happened, and you were explained that repeatedly. The fact that you're still lying about it is disgusting.
I'm not lying about anything, and I'm not sure what needs to be explained to me when I was involved in the conversation itself the whole time. It's quite telling you've nothing to say other than vague accusations of lying about it though. Care to elaborate?

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TopicSusan Calloway's Getting Canceled For Liking Right-Wing Tweets
CSCA33
11/01/23 11:55:17 AM
#184
pinky0926 posted...
We're really living in the future when a small time musician for a videogame registering an emoji against a comment on twitter is groundbreaking live news that thousands of people actively take interest in
I see youre conveniently ignoring the part about absolutely disgusting or abhorrent views, but alright =)

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TopicRobert De Niro "erupts" on witness stand during trial
CSCA33
10/31/23 5:01:51 PM
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How hard is it to mute the phone call these days? Smartphones have the mute mic button.

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TopicHe's so dumb he doesn't know "cis" has nothing to do with sexuality
CSCA33
10/31/23 4:48:49 PM
#138
A lot of knee-jerk reaction to the term "cis" from cisgender people is because it upends their worldview that they are the "default" or "normal" and trans people are to be "othered." Some people don't like being confronted with that reality.

Like, "I'm not a cis woman, I'm just a woman! Don't call me cis."

And it typically goes on from there with intellectual dishonesty about respecting how other people identify or even calling it a slur.

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TopicHe's so dumb he doesn't know "cis" has nothing to do with sexuality
CSCA33
10/31/23 2:16:29 PM
#130
Yet they want to compare it to actual slurs and carry the same weight, when it objectively does not. It is appropriation of oppression to flip the tables and make the oppressed out to be the oppressors. We see this strain of transphobia consistently across hateful misinformation, like when some gender critical / TERFs in the UK started waving around Nazi propaganda as a false comparison to trans rights and the broader fight for equality.

https://www.opendemocracy.net/en/5050/alex-bramham-tory-trans-black-nazis/
A Conservative candidate in next months local elections has been suspended from the party after tweeting an image that apparently equated trans, intersex and people of colour with Nazis.
Alexander Bramham, who was standing as a Tory in Manchester, tweeted a doctored version of the Dads Army titles showing the Nazis progression through Europe, with the Nazi flags replaced with the flags for trans and intersex people and people of colour.

https://www.thepinknews.com/2023/01/16/newcastle-let-women-speak-rally-adolt-hitler-trans-speech/
A so-called gender critical activist has been caught on camera quoting Adolf Hitlers Mein Kampf in a speech against trans rights at an anti-trans rally in Newcastle.

During the event, one gender critical speaker who has been identified as UK Guild of Hypnosis Practitioners (UKGH) chair Lisa Morgan quoted Adolf Hitlers 1925 manifesto Mein Kampf.

Addressing the crowd, the hypnosis practitioner of 30 years said: I know about language, and I know that this [gestures to counter-protesters] is based on something that we call the big lie.

Do you know the big lie? The big lie was first described by Adolf Hitler in Mein Kampf.
The big lie is such a big lie that ordinary people like us think, Well, that cant be a lie because I would never tell such a big lie as that. We only lie in small ways.
The big lie, well there is one big lie going on, and it was begun by men in the early part of the 20th century. It began when they had an erotic fantasy and they decided they were going to sell us the big lie and what is the big lie?
The big lie is that trans women are women. But theyre not are they? Theyre men and we know that.
The term big lie was coined by Hitler in Mein Kampf and was used by the German leader as a technique to describe the behaviour of Jewish people. Specifically, he accused Jews of using the big lie to discredit Germanys efforts in World War I and blame the countrys loss on general Erich Ludendorff.
It is widely believed this technique was used by the Nazis as part of their extensive propaganda to turn the German people against the Jews and justify the Holocaust.

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TopicSo I finally had a proper watch of Beetlejuice last night.
CSCA33
10/31/23 12:52:05 PM
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Classic film

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TopicHe's so dumb he doesn't know "cis" has nothing to do with sexuality
CSCA33
10/31/23 11:49:02 AM
#111
Are you assuming Im not a minority btw?
Are you trying to claim you are trans now? That's the context of this discussion and who we're talking about wrt the minority group in question.

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TopicHe's so dumb he doesn't know "cis" has nothing to do with sexuality
CSCA33
10/31/23 11:44:58 AM
#107
They want to be oppressed so bad and cry victim.

How tone deaf can you be? Read the room.

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TopicHe's so dumb he doesn't know "cis" has nothing to do with sexuality
CSCA33
10/31/23 11:41:43 AM
#104
I see you want to continue down the ill-advised path of appropriation of minority struggles and oppression.

Cis is not a slur.

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TopicHe's so dumb he doesn't know "cis" has nothing to do with sexuality
CSCA33
10/31/23 11:28:11 AM
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But thats just it. Cis is not a slur and yall argue it is, depending on how its used, with disingenuous comparisons to slurs used against gay people. Its appropriation of minority struggles and oppression, tone deaf and offensive, and transphobic.

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TopicHe's so dumb he doesn't know "cis" has nothing to do with sexuality
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10/31/23 11:24:03 AM
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cuttin_in_farm posted...
I dunno why yall have such a large issue with his posts.
Yall carrying water for transphobia could be a factor.

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TopicHe's so dumb he doesn't know "cis" has nothing to do with sexuality
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10/31/23 11:19:43 AM
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They want to be oppressed so bad. Its not fair! they cry from their high horses.

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TopicHe's so dumb he doesn't know "cis" has nothing to do with sexuality
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10/31/23 11:15:09 AM
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cuttin_in_farm posted...
Is the use of homo always a slur when used?
This is entirely disingenuous to imply referring to cisgender people as cis is a slur, as opposed to using it in chemistry.

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TopicHe's so dumb he doesn't know "cis" has nothing to do with sexuality
CSCA33
10/31/23 11:10:54 AM
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CSCA33 posted...
Im sure youll come up with something that completely ignores relevant context of oppressors and the oppressed.


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