Lurker > Finally_Im_Back

Nothing ti lost

Full Pet Services 2222 Ave X. That's the name of the Vet/Grooming place. Looking at the reviews they sound pretty scummy.

RedWhiteBlue posted...

Um that sounds shady as fuck and illegal

Literally holding an animal hostage

What can they do? They called the police and they said there is nothing they can do.

So a friend of mine who I work with had the dog run out when his daughter accidently left the door open. Someone found the dog and brought the dog to a vet to hold for the time being. We posted on social media if anyone had found the dog and someone reached out and said they saw the dogs on a lost and found page on Facebook. Once he arrives to the vet they tell him they won't let the 2 dogs go unless he pays $250 each for vaccines. They are fully vaccinated and up to date. They said they already gave them the vaccines and if he doesn't pay they will put the dog to sleep. Is that normal or shady bussiness.

bob742omb posted...

how long has this thought been in your head? i want you to keep in mind that marriage isn't going to suddenly change your thoughts on this and make it all better, nor will having a kid. if you've really been feeling strongly about this for the past few months, or years, i'd really consider your options going forward...

As I said, it's been more recently. Family members around me have started having kids, and as of late, she's been having one of her mood swings where she's been really down on herself. It's always been something I had no issue dealing with together with her. Obviously sometimes it's a bit more difficult since we don't live together yet and there are times I'm at work so I can't always be right there for her. I have no issue working with her together to help her get through it. My only concern is my kids. Maybe seeing everyone around me starting to have kids have really put this thought into my head more .

DiegoSanchez206 posted...

Do you think she would have the potential to harm your kids with her depression and tendencies?

Harm my kids never. She actually babysits her sisters kids 4 days week and is great with them. That's something that hasn't ever crossed my mind or ever been an issue. I'm more concerned with her hurting herself.

GunmaN1905 posted...

Finally_Im_Back posted...

But she struggles with depression which I constantly try and help her get through it.

Yeah, can't get cold feet now, she'd probably become suicidal if you left her.

Why is she depressed? People get depressed for various reasons.

At times I ask her and she tells me just everything bothers her. She feels like she didn't accomplish enough in her life. She feels worthless. She gets anxiety sometimes just leaving the house. There are things she wants to do but feels like the anxiety holds her back and then gets even more depressed over that.

Romulox28 posted...

marriage is a partnership, so do you feel like this is something you'd be able to work on together? or do you feel like the depression will end up being something that she experiences and you will have to deal with on a daily basis and work around? this is a major question you need to ask yourself openly & honestly before you go through with marriage.

As I said, it's not something that bothers me at all. I've been with her for 10 years no problem. It's never been an issue of working on it together. As I said, I'm more concerned with my future kids, how does it affect them. I worry every day that she might do something to hurt herself, but she always assures me she never would. For the most part she lives a normal life, but does go through episodes at a time where she gets really down on herself.

I love my fiance to death, we've been together 10 years already. But she struggles with depression which I constantly try and help her get through it. The biggest issue I'm having is thinking further down the line when we have kids. Is this something my kids will inherit. How will it affect them. How will she be able to handle the stress of having kids. It's something that has been on my mind a lot more as we get closer and closer to this wedding. Anyone who does struggle with depression have any advice or suggestions on how i can make it easier for her so she's not as stressed.

I'm currently working at a pizzeria as I type this

Okay now hear me up before I start getting bashed. We can all agree, what they are doing is morally wrong, but a lot of these people are kidnapped or trained at such a young age to hate, they truly believe what they are doing is right and for the good of humanity. It's different growing up in a normal society and yet still causing crimes and violence, but when this is all you know, how can you actually blame someone.

Fuego, Xtra Hot, or Zombie

I bought 8 TVs from them for my new house, 3 of them got black lines that run thru them within 3 years. My last 2 phones from them, the one I have now, s7 edge, got a green line down it. My last phone before this the screen completely went dead. I've never had any other problems with electronics, I've even had to original Xbox that never had the RROD. Only these damn Samsung's which I am officially done with.