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| Topic | anyone that prefers being alone entirely? |
| RJP_X 05/09/18 9:30:40 PM #4 | looking for some advice, i think i'm going to say tonight i prefer being alone. :c --- ''Never lenient... On your zenith.'' -Cam'ron PSN: RJP_X |
| Topic | anyone that prefers being alone entirely? |
| RJP_X 05/08/18 9:50:32 PM #1 | no friendships or relationships? i feel like i've always gotten a long with pet companions over people, i do have asperger's so maybe that's why. sometimes i get my downs from life of loneliness and look around dating sites, well recently started talking to a guy that is surprisingly relateable to me in a lot of ways, but i think my problem is i think i prefer my alone time to much as i've always been use it, i like to focus on my hobbies with all my free time and put as much time in them as i can. well the difference is, he longs for contact and talking as much as possible. which i use to be that way at a point, but haven't been that way for years because i've mostly given up on even bothering with people. idk a part of me i think seeks contact with people, but once i actually participate i feel burnt out and miserable where i'd much rather be indulged in my alone time, rather than seek others. i guess i'm just not sure what to do, its someone i found that is very relateable with me, and i haven't had anyone to discuss this with, so wanted to make a topic and get some thoughts. i think if i just said that i'd rather be alone, that i've lost my first relateable contact with me in years and lost my chance, but maybe i'm safer and happier alone. i'm pretty confused since my thoughts are pretty conflicted, but i honestly don't have much people experience so i am unsure of these back and forth thoughts. --- ''Never lenient... On your zenith.'' -Cam'ron PSN: RJP_X |
| Topic | Someone stole my yahoo email AND my youtube and DELETED ALL of my VIDEOS!!! |
| RJP_X 05/06/18 3:49:38 AM #18 | yeah, i tried signing on my yahoo email a few months ago and it was stolen. i hadn't used it for a very long time prior so not sure exactly when it happened. i knew it was hacked when the password wouldn't work, and the security questions were changed, actually don't think i had security questions set up for that account. thankfully i don't think i had much important on it, but i do get nervous time to time because my main email was linked to that account. made sure to unlink it right away after that. --- ''Never lenient... On your zenith.'' -Cam'ron PSN: RJP_X |
| Topic | have you ever had to put a pet down? |
| RJP_X 02/22/18 2:13:59 AM #17 | Kyuubi4269 posted... Get another cat first for support. as much as it feels like a betrayal, this is what i'm in the process of trying to do. i just worry if the next cat will be as good as her. as strange as that sounds, but like my moms cat hes not the loveable type, i love him too, but i prefer the type of cats that are affectionate. my mom is trying to get a kitten, she said she called a lady and usually kittens start becoming available the end of march as that's when they are born usually. :/ not sure if its like that everywhere or just them. --- ''Never lenient... On your zenith.'' -Cam'ron PSN: RJP_X |
| Topic | have you ever had to put a pet down? |
| RJP_X 02/22/18 2:06:19 AM #15 | Rasmoh posted... My cat, Ebby, had a stroke about 2 years ago and I had to put him down. It was really tough due to how sudden it was and because he was my buddy, meaning that despite belonging to my wife and I, he clearly preferred me. We even had a nighttime routine because he didn't care much for cuddles during the day. Even now, it hurts to think about but I do take solace knowing that I did the right thing and prevented him from prolonged suffering before his death. It's really hard, but I consider it one the ultimate acts of love for your pet. You are essentially choosing to suffer a great, lingering pain yourself to spare your animal from suffering. i know what you mean, i think i made myself worst by creating this topic. i've gotten very emotional through it, i almost lost it again reading your post. i had to regain my composure to read it properly. sick of all the tears already. :c i feel what you mean about everything, like my cat, lulu is her name. she is really only friendly to me, she runs from my younger siblings and my mom, and my moms cat she always growls at. but with me she always wants to be close and affectionate. my moms cat, i do love him too, but hes not always friendly. hes more playful. i told myself when i was a kid, maybe naming her lulu wasn't the best idea however. i named her lulu based off the final fantasy 10 character named lulu, because she wore all black, and my cat lulu is an all black cat. lol... but the reason why as a kid i told myself it wasn't the best idea is because she wont live forever, and i might want to play that game again someday. which, i was planning on getting the remastered edition of the game within the next year or two since i haven't played it since PS2 days. but idk if i can play it normal and look past her name came from it. that is one thing i can say is something i'm very unsure of if i can do, is be there... i'm a very weak person, if i was there to watch idk what would happen, i know i wouldn't react well. i don't know how i'm going to react when even sending her. i think about both scenarios and they're incredibly painful, and they will be much worst when it happens. no worries i make long posts too as you can see, and i'm thankful you shared your story, as hard it was, and i'm really sorry i had you revisit it, that wasn't my intention, i didn't think of that when making this topic how it can bring on some tough memories. you did help though, thank you. and i hope you find happiness with the rest of your night or day. --- ''Never lenient... On your zenith.'' -Cam'ron PSN: RJP_X |
| Topic | have you ever had to put a pet down? |
| RJP_X 02/22/18 12:48:07 AM #12 | rjsilverthorn posted... I had to do it last week for one of my cats. Even knowing it was the right thing for her, it was still hard as hell to do and rough to deal with after the fact. i'm really sorry, this was a very difficult read for me. cats and animals in general are so good to us, i can only imagine your pains after going through with it, and how you feel since. i'm hurting through the process where you began, and once again i'm really sorry. :'c --- ''Never lenient... On your zenith.'' -Cam'ron PSN: RJP_X |
| Topic | have you ever had to put a pet down? |
| RJP_X 02/22/18 12:41:25 AM #9 | Cruddy_horse posted... It's hard I know, but sometimes you just need to know when to let go, putting pets down can be far better than letting them suffer with a disease that will eventually kill them. you're absolutely right. i wish there were another option, its been hard and stressful this year. the vet basically said though, nothing more to do, before the last surgery they said the next option would be removing the ear canal. however after the surgery they said her cancer was widespread so there'd be no point. --- ''Never lenient... On your zenith.'' -Cam'ron PSN: RJP_X |
| Topic | have you ever had to put a pet down? |
| RJP_X 02/22/18 12:33:46 AM #7 | LinkPizza posted... I never have. And I know I couldn't. And like Dan O'Brien said, I just assume my dogs will never die. i felt the same way about her too, just assumed she'd be fine, shes been healthy for years and never needed to go to the vet for being sick, until her cancer. when something happens, that bliss feeling of thinking nothing will happen gets you sadly. :c i've always had that mind set of telling myself that everything will be fine, but i think that's human nature i guess. it don't feel well telling yourself that the inevitable will happen. which i have a habit of worrying all the time lol. --- ''Never lenient... On your zenith.'' -Cam'ron PSN: RJP_X |
| Topic | have you ever had to put a pet down? |
| RJP_X 02/22/18 12:27:31 AM #5 | Zikten posted... dude......I get it. I have aspergers too actually. and I have a cat. and he has helped me through some tough times. I have lost lots of pets in my life. It never is easy no matter how many times you do it seems like a lot of aspies have a type of animal they really like, seems cats are more popular. yeah, i hate being so emotional, i've always felt emotions way to high, mostly on the sad and stress level and way to easy daily. glad there's video games to numb your mind a bit. --- ''Never lenient... On your zenith.'' -Cam'ron PSN: RJP_X |
| Topic | have you ever had to put a pet down? |
| RJP_X 02/22/18 12:14:54 AM #1 | my cat is 13, since early last year shes had a tumor removed from her ear two times. first early in the year, the last time was late november. they said she has wide spread cancer, and that the tumor will likely return within a month. sure enough it came back toward the end of last month. its gotten me really down and stressed, i have aspergers and shes all i've had for a friend for years, i'm not a fan of people, i really love cats though and shes always been really loveable to me. my mom keeps saying its getting to the point where she needs to be put down, idk if i have the strength. knowing i'd be taking her life, its a devastating feeling. she acts happy and loveable, but her ear really bothers her, everyday i have to scrub and clean up blood everywhere in my room. that's what makes it hard too, me and her are always together in my room, i don't go anywhere really, so its hard to think of her in this way without breaking down. this is actually my first time posting about this on the internet, i don't talk to people on a personal level to vent outside my home, but i actually kinda wanted to gather what other people thought on this subject. --- ''Never lenient... On your zenith.'' -Cam'ron PSN: RJP_X |
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