Lurker > SlamVook

Will be 30 this november, born in 1988.

My luck with women was always somehow limited, yet ok, but since the age of 25 It improved so much that its been a huge while since the last time i spent more than 2 weeks single or without somebody to hang out with, just as a reference.

Im average looking, but i have a pretty strong/deep voice and im pretty confident, along with the fact that i kinda sorted out my life in a good way and i kinda look younger than my actual age, so that kinda allowed me to be able to date girls who are noticeably younger than me. As an example, my current girlfriend became 21 just two weeks ago.

I work at my city's state University/College (Not as a teacher tho) so you can pretty much guess i get to meet or at least be friend/acquaintances with girls from a few faculties ad such. I have a few female friends/acquaintances who are even younger than my girlfriend.

The "youngest" girl i ever made out and had sex with was one born in 1998. She was kinda open minded and didnt mind doing it despite just being friends. We never did it again but we are still acquaintances. I have one or two that were born in 1999 and even one that i met this year who was born in 2000 (Shes 18 already tho) and I kinda felt the curiosity about trying my luck with a few of them.

So yeah my life went from basically having 1 girlfriend every 2 years at best (I only had 1 girlfriend between 2010 and 2013, as a reference) to being kinda able to choose the age of the girl i want to date or have sex with. My relationship with my current gf is pretty nice, yet i feel the urge to plow someone even younger than her (Nobody under 18 tho)

Would you find this weird? or is it understandable to feel this way after my luck with women improved vastly?
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Cant say shes hot but i dont think she is ugly at all.
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

Thanks a lot for the input, people.

I tried reading about the Bipolar Disorder for the last 2 hours and i was shocked to see it is a serious issue indeed! I absolutely understimated how severe this was!

I guess i will try to hang out with her once or twice more, but if i see a similar reaction both from her and my lack of patience, i guess i will just break up with her.
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Im 29, shes 21. We get along nicely most of the time despite the age difference and i think she is a rather interesting, but her mood changes are absolutely annoying. I guess its not for everyone.

We have been together for less than a month so i feel it might be too soon to give up but at the same time i wouldnt want to waste my time assuming this will just end bad, no matter what...
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

Met a girl back in mid May and we started dating since June 1st. The day i started dating her she mentioned something like "I can be a bit bipolar sometimes so i hope you can have some patience with me" but i didnt really pay attention to it or thought she was just kidding.

Now that i started dating her i noticed she does indeed has some noticeable mood changes. We went to eat and we were chilling perfectly during the night, making out and stuff, when she suddenly changed her mood from one second to other and she was pretty stern and cold from that moment, which lasted for the rest of the night, for no absolute reason and even told me "Leave me alone, i dont want anything" from one second to another. This has happened twice already in the last 2 dates we had. She was pretty fine after we saw each other.

She mentioned she went to the Psychologist a few weeks ago, so that might mean she is in some sort or treatment or such.

Should i even bother dating a girl like her? Even if it is too soon to ask myself that question i feel like i totally understimated what she told me when we started dating and i honestly noticed dont have as much patience to deal with stuff like this.
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

Since the past year i have been improving my wardrobe and clothes in general, but never really did that with my underwear.

I use common/generic trunks and they do the job for me, however Calvin Klein undies caught my interest.

Are they really worth the price? Or are they just more expensive because of the brand/name?

I heard they kinda give you a boost in your sexual appeal. Right now im dating 1 girl and i keep another one as friends with benefits (Yeah i know cheating is bad, but lets leave that for another day) so perhaps it would be a good investment since i currently have someone to show em off to? Or shouldinjust stick to generic undies?
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

6 exact inches, cant complain. I mean an extra inch or 2 would have been awesome but im ok with it
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

Digimon world 3 for PSX
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

17 and half for me, during my first year in college. But it was only twice. Had to wait until the age of 19 to have sex with another girl.
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

Usually somewhere to eat so we can talk, meet each other and break the ice.

Watching a movie (Unless its at home) as a first date is a TERRIBLE IDEA. You will akwardly sit in the dark for 2 hours, barely talking at all. Of course, if you decide to grab something to eat or do something else afterwards it it could be better, but if you are both going your ways right after the movie, then it was a major waste of time.
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

It's kind of an unexpected, yet interesting situation. I knew the first girl since some months ago, just an ocassional aquaintance, but the last time we saw each other we ended up making out (Not sex yet tho). We kinda agreed to hang out as friends with benefits. I once asked her if she kissed a girl and she said she didnt but wouldnt mind.

The second girl is a girl i saw twice before. Not dating material but we ended up making out the second time i saw her. She once told me she is a bit curious about girls.

I talked to each girl about the other one and they agreed that we 3 should go out this week, being wednesday the day.

So i got 2 girls who i made out with before, both know that and they dont mind, in fact in expecting to make out with both during that date and see them do the same thing (The second girl is pretty shy tho).

Assuming we all 3 get along somehow, should i try going to a threesome right away or sleep with at least one of them before? I do fine with sex and hooking up but i honestly never had the chance to go for a threesome before.

And for those wonderings, i have a girlfriend right now, so my game is active and ok but since this is something rather new, im trying to see whether i should hurry or take things slowly.
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2005
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

I was exactly in this situation just a few days ago! Im 29 and the girl in question became 18 five months ago. We saw each other twice

I never "had" a problem as long as the girl was legal (My last 2 girlfriends were 22 and 21) but i can tell you that 18 is a little TOO YOUNG for a 29 years old.

Technically there was nothing wrong, but a few details just didnt click between each other. Im pretty cool myself and not really a serious person despite being close to be 30, but she was a bit too childish sometimes.

She introduced me to her parents in the SECOND time we saw each other! (Took me to her home with the excuse of picking up something she forgot when we saw each other, we went somewhere else tho)

She was also taking pictures of us and sharing it in her whatsapp status, which honestly kinda scared me away. I just wasnt ready for someone so clingy and rather needy.

Of course, your friend might have better luck with the girl, depending on how she is, but i can tell you the difference will be vastly noticeable.
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No, my girlfriend doesnt know. This girl didnt know that i had a girlfriend either.

They are not related to each other in anyway so im safe in that sense. I still feel very awkward about how things ended tho... i honestly didnt expect her to be into me that much and that soon. There was no way i was gonna try something with this girl. Had i been found later on, it would have been a HUGE mess.
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Ok i just saw her today and i had to be clear with her that while i liked her and stuff, it wasnt as the same level as her and well, as expected, she started crying and stuff.

I still feel kinda bad for her, i tried to comfort her and stuff, but there was no avail, girl was really into me just after 4 days of knowing each other.

It was very awkward but i think i dodged a bullet there. Had i gotten into a relationship with her, things would have gotten way too uncomfortable had i been found or anything.

Im definitely not trying my luck with girls under 20 (18 or 19) anytime soon again, even thought they are legal, i think nothing would have gone right due to the age difference. Guess ill just stick to girls between 21 and 22 (The usuall i get to date somehow)
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

What should I do?

To make things clear and understandable.

Im 29, my current girlfriend (Who i started dating around 3 weeks ago) is 22 and this new girl became 18 five months ago (She is a freshman in her college)

I came out from a one year-relationship last january and well, after 1 month, i tried my luck again with women. It turned better than expected since i got a new girlfriend 1 month and half after the break up and i was even be able to keep in touch with a second one.

I met this girl last friday and well, i can tell she really liked me (Not exactly sure but i seem to be her type). She didnt mind the age difference to meet either way.

She grabbed my arm and stood very close to me during that day. I was like "Ok thats cute i guess) but then we hanged out yesterday and went for some ice cream and she suddenly said "Hey we should take a picture together" to which i said "Sure". It was just a simple selfie of both next to each other sitting. However, after some minutes i decided to check my whatsapp for a bit and noticed she uploaded the picture in her stories, followed with both ^_^ and heart emojis. She then said "Hey, a few friends of mine are already bombing me with questions about you xD"

From what she told me its been a while since she hanged out or meet with somebody.

I dont know if this is a good or bad thing, but i didnt mention having a girlfriend to her, just the part that i came off that relationship in january. The girl seems to be into me, however, there is no way i could date both, and judging from her actions and way of acting, she seems to be the type of girl who actually liked to get very commited with someone. While im not an alpha male or anything close to it, i like to be a bit more "free" or not really thaat commited on them.

Should i be clear with her before she gets the wrong message? Unless she already got it. I wouldnt mind dating her, but of course, since i am already dating the other girl, there is no way i could do both.

The girl looks pretty caring and everything, so im more than sure it would end in a heartbreak for her and i dont really want to do that.

What should i do at this point?
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

2 weeks ago, a friend with benefits.
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

Im just a plain Catholic person, i probably go to church like once or twice a year if anything.

The girl seems to be fine, however, she once mentioned being mormon and told me she attends church every sunday. She seems to be into me since i was able to kiss her from the second date and a few things we have in common.

However, from the very little i know from Mormons, i know they kinda want to turn people into their religion. Will that be my case as well? I mean as i said im just a plain Catholic person, but i dont see myself becoming into a member of another religion, besides if this matter gets into the relationship, it may cause some confusion.

Its been barely a week since we started dating, however i have a bit of doubts. Should i give the relationship a chance or am i wasting my time here?
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

Thanks a lot for the messages, guys. As soon as i came back i literally pulled my dick out and got the hardon within seconds.. almost face palmed myself.

Maybe i rushed things a bit indeed, also the fact i wasnt used to have sex with a time limit.

Well I guess stuff like this happen, but at least i will be able to sleep tonight. Thanks a lot, fellow CEmen.
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

My tool i mean.

I came out from a 1-year relationship where sex was steady (usually 2 times per week) bit we broke off due to her going overseas.

That was 1 month ago. Today i felt curiosity about having a hooker and everything started greatly, some nice foreplay and a pleasurable BJ but when i actually had to put my thing in, i lost my hard-on and couldnt wke it up anymore!

I had to pay for the 30 minutes in advance so i had to spend the rest of the time talking to her.. i was just unable to get it up anymore.

I feel kinda pathethic now.. how is that possible after having regular sex for like 1 straight year? It was my very first time hiring someone so perhaps not being used to have sex with a countdown made me feel that way? In any case, i feel kinda pathetic and my self esteem was gone to the floor.

Anybody who went throught the very same thing? I cant still believe this actually happened.. you are free to laugh of courses lol but a few pats in the back would be nice as well!
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

You had sex at the end, so thats cool.

Her not allowing you to look at her and not getting completely naked is not normal tho. But hey, it could have been worse. At least you know what to expect on your next times.
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

I went out with an acquaintance today and we grabbed some food, nothing out of the ordinary.

During the chatter, she told me she noticed im kinda blunt and not quite a gentleman with girls.

As a few example: I usually walk fast sometimes, so i tend to leave them behind. I dont open doors for them, and i usually walk next to the wall on the streets while they have to do it closer to the street (The typical situation where a girl would be more prone to get mugged due to being closer to the road)

Is this actually good or bad? I do fine with women, not superb but i get to have decent luck with them, so by not being kinda a gentleman means i will most likely have a higher chance to avoid the "being a nice guy" zone, right?

I didnt really give much importance to it, but it kinda left me thinking for a bit..
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!

For those wondering, yes, i did get to smash her. The sex was ok and she later started talking about her past relationship and crap, i did avoid being an emotional tampon tho.

But hey, it was free sex that come from nowwhere so i cant complain, thanks a lot guys..
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I think that dude was a dude, dude!