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CommunismFTW posted...

then why the hell are you still dating this person? they need therapist not a nice caring person who sells their souls, desires, ambitions and dreams in order to placate the fucked up state of their partner in order to play a heroes roll for an audience of two.

if you're not happy that they're depressed, that doesn't make you in the wrong. go get some beers, stack of hundreds and plow. have some fun. life is too short to try and play lincoln logs with the psyche of someone who needs professional help

That is kind of how I am beginning feel. I mean given we are moving soon I wouldnt do it now, but it is something to think about.
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frogman_295 posted...

Vermander posted...

Genocet_10-325 posted...

Having depression sucks more. If you aren't mature enough to recognize someone has a problem beyond their control perhaps you shouldn't be in a relationship

I dont pretend its her control, but it literally makes my life miserable, and I commonly ask myself as someone with a good job, who works out constantly, has good self confidence, and is only 26 why do I deal with it.

This is the kind of pressure my parents put on me when I was a teen. Not helpful. Severe mental illness is real shitty man. Pay for a good therapist for her with your job.

I could possibly do that.
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MysteryMan923 posted...

Vermander posted...

Genocet_10-325 posted...

Having depression sucks more. If you aren't mature enough to recognize someone has a problem beyond their control perhaps you shouldn't be in a relationship

I dont pretend its her control, but it literally makes my life miserable, and I commonly ask myself as someone with a good job, who works out constantly, has good self confidence, and is only 26 why do I deal with it.

Because you really really love her. Or you're just desperate to not be alone.

Of course I love her.
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Genocet_10-325 posted...

Having depression sucks more. If you aren't mature enough to recognize someone has a problem beyond their control perhaps you shouldn't be in a relationship

I dont pretend its her control, but it literally makes my life miserable, and I commonly ask myself as someone with a good job, who works out constantly, has good self confidence, and is only 26 why do I deal with it.
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Its great to be with someone who lies in bed all day, wont let you touch them, and cancels your entire upcoming summer vacation out of town, just because they arent feeling it.
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How
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I mean if he is looking at men like that he could honestly do much worse.
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510, 180. Bout 165-168 of that is lean body mass.
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this topic is cancer
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pinky0926 posted...

My manager brought in sugar frosted caramel donuts for everyone yesterday, unannounced. Easily 500+ calories of pure shit.

Nobody understood why I was remotely hesitant. Especially Michelle, who commented just a few weeks ago "You're lucky you have a fast metabolism".

The struggle is real.

Peer pressure is the worst.

And the alcohol ughhh
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Chicken posted...

Just say no thank you, Im not hungry

I should do this more.

Blitz4532 posted...

I know I'm never going to have that shredded look, so I don't bother. I have a slight gut, but I like to think my muscles are big enough to make it look proportional.

I mean I still look muscular. I just get irritated how my girlfriends eyes are turn to shrimp skinny dudes just because they have abs.
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I look like a real ass when someone offers me a homemade cookie and I tell them too many calories.
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Anyone own these to give me your opinion?

EDIT: title should say headphones*
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Conflict posted...

I see groups of people play Pokemon Go irl regularly

so this topic is dumb

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I had one once but she was a raging c***f**
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M_Live posted...

Chad

Cheed
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Nt
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The moons were then later destroyed
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I want to buy a nice pair of bluetooth headphones instead
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I got cold feet
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Ye
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Did you mean fat cocks?
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40
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Doom_Art posted...

Vaguebooking is the absolute worst

I delete people that do it. Its just attention seeking.
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Dude I pay $20 for my full gym.
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Bacon_Pancakes posted...

Please close this.

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I am going to listen to some of these.

BtBaM released the second half of their new album the other day and Ive been digging that.
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I know you often cant wash cast iron cookware because sometimes its made with special chemicals to prevent sticking and optimize heat distribution.
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I amazed he gets sleep at night.
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Johnny_Nutcase posted...

Casting a magic spell I suppose.

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Duncanwii posted...

When bees go extinct so do we. Do you really want that on your conscience?

Although this is hyperbolic, they are the reason a lot of our plants exist as they do.
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PC usually has better performance than console, and lools much better.

Though if you are only playing PC at 1080p then yeah its not a big jump
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-l___________l- posted...

Yeah, if I were active I wouldn't date someone who isn't. The reverse is true as well. I'm really out of shape and sedentary and there's no way I'd ever become involved with someone who's in shape -- would make me feel way too insecure.

I dont coerce her to change anything.

Ki_cat_ posted...

I don't care about levels of fitness but some decisions need to be made.

What's wrong with your food? There's lots of snacks to pick from. Does she not like anything? Fruits, nuts, precooked meat etc.

I eat mostly fresh meat (fish, steak chicken), eggs, veggies rice, fruit and water and juice. I also have nuts, and microwave meals, as well as lots of canned stuff.

DK9292 posted...

So basically someone needs to follow your lifestyle or fuck 'em?

Yeah, I think she's better off without you.

I dont care what she does, but if she does not like my food then she needs to speak up when I go grocery shopping. She always says You know what I like. >.>
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My girlfriend constantly complains about the food I make/cook because I am on a diet, and she isnt. She will tell me she doesnt like my food, but then complain that there is nothing in my house to eat and gets mad. I ask her every time I get groceries if there is something she would like me to buy for her and she always says no.

Ugh.
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Flockaveli posted...

Metalcore.

I listen to a lot of metalcore, but those vocals were just grating.
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Zikten posted...

God should not have made cancer in the first place. Cancer is basically a glitch or design error in our dna. Blame is on the engineer

I always found cancer to be proof a sentient god who cares about us isnt real.
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A lot of tinder I genuinely blame on it being a busted app. I swear after like 4 days of having an account all it shows me are bots/fake profiles of people who live 500 miles away.
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I mean that is a bot account so.
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InYourWalls1 posted...

Have you tried a variant like sumo DLs yet? Depending on your body proportions you might be more suited to that vs. conventional

I have really long legs so I find the lift-off with my chest out very awkward. Especially when I throw my straps on for heavier sets.
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A_Good_Boy posted...

Start doing those farmer's walks bro. You'll never be able to deadlift 315 until you're able to crush a basketball with your barehands.

I do farmers walks twice a week. Currently use 85 lb dumbbells
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AlabamaLove posted...

Do some core work

Any suggestions? I do weight crunches, RDLs, hanging leg raises, and planks at the end of my routIne.
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AssultTank posted...

Inconsistency tells me that you haven't properly developed the muscles in order to handle the weight you're using. Lifting for a year doesn't mean much if you're not doing it properly. Besides, it takes a long time to build strength past a certain point, and that point varies. I remember when I first started rock climbing, I wasn't able to handle a 5.6, within about 3 months I was up to 5.9, but going to 5.10 took another 6 months, and 5.11 took another year. Then I got hurt at work and was never able to climb again. :(

But the progression at the end was slow and hard. Just going from 5.10a to 5.10b, which is a smaller progression than 5.9 to 5.10 took almost as long as the jump from 5.9 to 5.10.

I seem to be consistently able to DL over 245 with good/decent form. There are stupid things sometimes like days Ill stall on pendlay rows, and days Ill power through them like nothing.
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Water is mostly just flavorless
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Remember I am not just throwing weight up I dont think I can handle. If I handled 295 last time, why would I hurt myself with 315.

I think what bothers me is the inconsistency. Save for my bench I have basically dropped weight on every excercise in my routine to work on form, and its made me realize I am a lot weaker than I think.
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Riosiogo posted...

Sounds like you have weak hamstring and glutes

Your squat doesnt do as much as you think it works for glutes/hams.

Idk, initially I had trouble pushing 315 off the ground which is all quad work.

To me it just doesnt make sense to have an RDL anywhere near my full DL. My squat would effect my pushoff.

After I lowered it to about 255 it wasnt too bad, my form seemed much better as long as I didnt lose focus.

I guess with me its just the fact I have been lifting a year and cant DL 315. Makes me feel like I am doing some very wrong.
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Sada_Pop posted...

Don't add so much

Yeah I may switch to intermediate progression now. The problen is I see all these dudes DLing/squatting 400+ lbs and feel weak.
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AsucaHayashi posted...

Record a video of yourself and ask people what youre doing wrong?

Or you know.. go down in weight

My second reset on deads now for form, I usually add 10 lbs every week, but I only do them every other Saturday so I add 20 lbs each time.
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