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TopicWoman blocks the path of an elderly lady trying to cross the street
NonDairyMiltank
09/30/19 9:35:53 PM
#9
Just another day for Antifa.

This is pathetic

all true
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Topic"Chicago gays are different than Bay Area ones, they're loyal"
NonDairyMiltank
09/29/19 7:14:55 AM
#2
no surprise

loyalty isn't a demographic
its the individual
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TopicIt shouldn't be considered "gay" to like trans women
NonDairyMiltank
09/28/19 4:45:15 AM
#32
no one's entitled to dates

your definition of sexually compatible might not match someone else's
and they're not immediately a villain if they disagree with your interpretation, especially when it concerns what THEY want in a partner
when it's about what THEY want, ONLY THEIR interpretation gets the final vote

if you don't match up to what they're actually looking for, thats life, look elsewhere
no one's obligated to facilitate yours or anyone else's dating needs
that part is and always was on YOU to make happen, no matter what your orientation is
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TopicPet peeve #33: when people list "wife/husband" as a hobby
NonDairyMiltank
09/25/19 12:00:43 PM
#2
No_U_L7 posted...
if someone asked me what I do with my free time....

we already know and all we ask is that you clean up before touching other people...thanks
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TopicTranswoman axed random men in 711 because she's angry no one is attracted to her
NonDairyMiltank
09/23/19 4:09:38 AM
#62
averagejoel posted...
interesting that such a small proportion of violent crimes are perpetrated by trans people, yet so many reports about violent crime that get posted to CE are perpetrated by trans people.

I wonder why that could be

don't care

axe bitch deserves to fry regardless of what "she" identifies as
"her" violent entitled tantrum that could have killed random people makes things worse for sane trans people
people are going to remember that psycho and stereotype all trans folk as dangerously unhinged

"she" deserves to be disowned by the community and worse
if that means not catering to "her" precious little feelings, oh the fuck well...

violent criminals shouldn't get that courtesy

you wanna defend the trans community, that's fine
but you're gonna make an exception for "her" worthless ass, as everyone should
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TopicWas lying in bed, something was crawling on my head. Slapped it. It was a spider
NonDairyMiltank
09/21/19 8:04:18 AM
#31
oh brother

just buy Lemon Pledge or a cheap knockoff
spiders hate the scent of it

housekeepers have known this for years
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TopicYour opinion on The Tick 90's animated series?
NonDairyMiltank
09/20/19 5:38:18 AM
#8
i liked American Maid
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Topichonestly one of the most interesting things about people who are anti-feminist
NonDairyMiltank
09/20/19 12:19:23 AM
#19
OldIronKing posted...
NonDairyMiltank posted...
Prestoff posted...
NonDairyMiltank posted...
the irony in your OP is that the average western woman still chooses to maintain traditional gender roles by continuing to have a standardized expectation and preference for the man paying (women okay with going dutch are still not a majority)

today most western women basically have the same earning opportunities now that are typically open to men, "the man should always pay" mindset no longer makes sense in an environment where gender equality is supposedly the goal and both demographics have generally the same earning opportunities as far as gender

there are some men who preach traditionalism, but they're not alone in practicing and enforcing those standards
theres no shortage of western women who identify as feminists, yet still hold a strong preference for traditional expectations in how men should operate

you can argue that some men want their cake and eat it too when it comes to gender norms in the modern era
just realize theres a sizable portion of women who do the exact same thing by preaching gender equality, but still expecting chivalry etc...

as a woman myself i know why the average western woman (regardless of political leaning) still does this
men and women on average hold different orders of priorities when seeking relationship partners, they critique each other differently
they can have the same priorities, but it's very common for there to be a difference in the order of what they value most
and i don't see any reason to be dodging what most people already know: most women care about their partner's status and monetary utility
and the level of urgency this has for most women is similar to how much guys care about how good a woman looks

both are very traditional, not progressive
it's not progressive if it's a motion to keep things the same

again i don't got a problem with how men and women wanna date each other
but be honest and call it what it really is


In another post you were claiming to be a black man, now you are a woman?

no i never made a post here claiming to be a man, although plenty of CE posters make the assumption
it typically blows their mind that a cis-gendered lesbian isn't automatically far left in ideology
thats stereotypes for you...

i am a black woman living in the US

if you disagree, please show us all this supposed post where i said i was a man

you definitely have an atypical viewpoint. sometimes that is needed in an age of mass conformity.

being a lesbian is often atypical in itself when you think about it
most of us start out from environments where we are told to conform and punished if we don't
so being concerned about "sheep-think" is inherently a trait for some of us

like i share certain common opinions with other homosexual women, but i still hold my own veto on how i make my decisions and what to invest in
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Topichonestly one of the most interesting things about people who are anti-feminist
NonDairyMiltank
09/20/19 12:09:59 AM
#17
Prestoff posted...
NonDairyMiltank posted...
the irony in your OP is that the average western woman still chooses to maintain traditional gender roles by continuing to have a standardized expectation and preference for the man paying (women okay with going dutch are still not a majority)

today most western women basically have the same earning opportunities now that are typically open to men, "the man should always pay" mindset no longer makes sense in an environment where gender equality is supposedly the goal and both demographics have generally the same earning opportunities as far as gender

there are some men who preach traditionalism, but they're not alone in practicing and enforcing those standards
theres no shortage of western women who identify as feminists, yet still hold a strong preference for traditional expectations in how men should operate

you can argue that some men want their cake and eat it too when it comes to gender norms in the modern era
just realize theres a sizable portion of women who do the exact same thing by preaching gender equality, but still expecting chivalry etc...

as a woman myself i know why the average western woman (regardless of political leaning) still does this
men and women on average hold different orders of priorities when seeking relationship partners, they critique each other differently
they can have the same priorities, but it's very common for there to be a difference in the order of what they value most
and i don't see any reason to be dodging what most people already know: most women care about their partner's status and monetary utility
and the level of urgency this has for most women is similar to how much guys care about how good a woman looks

both are very traditional, not progressive
it's not progressive if it's a motion to keep things the same

again i don't got a problem with how men and women wanna date each other
but be honest and call it what it really is


In another post you were claiming to be a black man, now you are a woman?

no i never made a post here claiming to be a man, although plenty of CE posters make the assumption
it typically blows their mind that a cis-gendered lesbian isn't automatically far left in ideology
thats stereotypes for you...

i am a black woman living in the US

if you disagree, please show us all this supposed post where i said i was a man
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Topichonestly one of the most interesting things about people who are anti-feminist
NonDairyMiltank
09/19/19 11:48:07 PM
#10
the irony in your OP is that the average western woman still chooses to maintain traditional gender roles by continuing to have a standardized expectation and preference for the man paying (women okay with going dutch are still not a majority)

today most western women basically have the same earning opportunities now that are typically open to men, "the man should always pay" mindset no longer makes sense in an environment where gender equality is supposedly the goal and both demographics have generally the same earning opportunities as far as gender

there are some men who preach traditionalism, but they're not alone in practicing and enforcing those standards
theres no shortage of western women who identify as feminists, yet still hold a strong preference for traditional expectations in how men should operate

you can argue that some men want their cake and eat it too when it comes to gender norms in the modern era
just realize theres a sizable portion of women who do the exact same thing by preaching gender equality, but still expecting chivalry etc...

as a woman myself i know why the average western woman (regardless of political leaning) still does this
men and women on average hold different orders of priorities when seeking relationship partners, they critique each other differently
they can have the same priorities, but it's very common for there to be a difference in the order of what they value most
and i don't see any reason to be dodging what most people already know: most women care about their partner's status and monetary utility
and the level of urgency this has for most women is similar to how much guys care about how good a woman looks

both are very traditional, not progressive
it's not progressive if it's a motion to keep things the same

again i don't got a problem with how men and women wanna date each other
but be honest and call it what it really is
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TopicPeople who go on dates so the guy can pay for everything?
NonDairyMiltank
09/19/19 9:18:21 PM
#36
YookaLaylee posted...
Austin_Era_II posted...
First date should be a simple coffee date.
That doesn't sound like a date

to many underprivileged people trying to make ends meet, it is a date
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Topic"Work for free for someone you want to be like."
NonDairyMiltank
09/19/19 12:13:51 PM
#7
what if the people you want to be like definitely don't work for free.....?
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TopicI wanna wreck him.
NonDairyMiltank
09/19/19 4:32:42 AM
#49
looks like the fence post is going up his ass...
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TopicThis poster about female empowerment at my college was interesting
NonDairyMiltank
09/19/19 1:29:31 AM
#5
Highwind07 posted...
I am so confused...

i know

in an age of handheld mass media, why didn't TC post a pic of said poster that supposedly exists...?
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Topicwhich CEman are the best debaters?
NonDairyMiltank
09/18/19 8:18:52 PM
#6
most of the best debaters this forum ever had have already left
they didn't even bother to fake leaving and jump to alts, they just straight up ditched this place and you can easily tell

askin who the best debaters here are NOW is kind of pointless by comparison, since it's a pathetically low bar...
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TopicIs this American work culture everywhere, or is it time to look for a new job?
NonDairyMiltank
09/18/19 8:10:57 PM
#16
pogo_rabid posted...
bluezero posted...
1. Demand the impossible
2. Expect perfection
3. Don't reward success, instead move the goalposts

Generally this is just a middle manager fucking over their department so they can look good for their bosses. Toxic environments should be avoided.

underrated post

this is typically whats REALLY going on in these work environments
too many manipulative ass kissers screwing over people below to earn points with or stave off the big boss

because they know they have the big boss's ear and their opinions carry more weight, while lower people don't have that privilege

and it doesn't stop there, most big bosses have to answer to and look good for higher management as well,
blood-sucking, greedy, "bottom line is all that matters", cooperate higher management...
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TopicSo homophobic men tend to be closeted gay. Are homophobic women closeted lesbien
NonDairyMiltank
09/18/19 4:07:18 AM
#2
So homophobic men tend to be closeted gay.

statistically false

there are cases of internalized homophobia, but the majority of anti-gay haters are not homosexual...
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TopicDo you sometimes wish you had better LOOKING FRIENDS?
NonDairyMiltank
09/12/19 10:28:05 PM
#2
SaccharineSmile posted...
or am I a shit person for thinking this

if your topics could be summarized in one phrase....
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TopicWhy do people care about animals? I don't.
NonDairyMiltank
09/07/19 9:29:39 PM
#5
Austin_Era_II posted...
Survival of the fittest.

that would leave you out
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TopicI got drunk and called a guy an incel.
NonDairyMiltank
09/05/19 5:18:33 AM
#9
Orlando_Jordan posted...
I got drunk and called a guy an incel.

stop verbally harassing your mirror
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TopicHow do you feel about girls into astrology?
NonDairyMiltank
09/01/19 5:03:26 PM
#2
nothin wrong with people havin beliefs of divinity
but count me out when they want to make dramatic life changing decisions based on it
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Topicokay. this week i gotta ask my gf's dad for his ''blessing'' to marry her
NonDairyMiltank
09/01/19 3:40:51 PM
#5
_BIueMonk posted...
obviously, its 2019 and its not necessary, but she told me she'd like me to do it, and and not "permission" its more of a heads up of me joining their family.

anyway i plan to ask her to marry me this coming saturday on our trip.

not sure what to do.

CE tell me what to do

she already told u what to do

if you don't have the guts to go through with it, she's investing in the wrong man
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Topic'Will & Grace' actors want to dox, blacklist Beverly Hills Trump supporters.
NonDairyMiltank
09/01/19 1:44:53 PM
#41
privileged white people should not be telling black people how to vote...

https://popculture.com/celebrity/2019/09/01/debra-messing-approves-sign-president-donald-trump-supporters-mentally-ill/
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TopicAttracted to one of my coworkers, ugh
NonDairyMiltank
08/31/19 8:05:48 PM
#8
i say this as a feminist and someone who's strictly anti-harassment when it comes to the workplace:

dating coworkers is not a new thing and its how plenty of people were born who are alive today
people spend 8+ hour shifts cooped up in the same environment and their sexual instincts don't magically shut off just because they're clocked in
despite social controversy, many men AND women are still open to dating a coworker they find attractive
its not a weird thing to do, its actually pretty common

im not saying that just because its common, all stories have a happy ending
no there's still a lot of workplace dating attempts that end in arguments, accusations, fights and even job loss
but there's a lot of cases where it worked out in success and people are literally walkin around today as born proof

what i am sayin is you only have one life to live and only so many chances to find romance and write your own love stories

as long as you understand and respect the differences between a flirty proposal and vulgar harassment why would you completely block yourself from attempting to find a relationship in an environment you regularly meet someone you're interested in?

it would be wrong of me, or anyone for that matter, to tell you don't even try when we're turning to dust right now...might as well make the best of the time you got left, whether thats alone or together with someone

care about the comfort of others, but don't forget your own
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TopicWhy was the straight pride parade allowed to happen?
NonDairyMiltank
08/31/19 6:31:54 PM
#20
Why was the straight pride parade allowed to happen?

because i as a female homosexual minority don't give a shit if it was

its just a fuckin parade lol
and we know theyre trollin, why the fuck bite...? why you losin sleep over nothin?
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TopicLmao FF8 got censored
NonDairyMiltank
08/31/19 2:07:05 PM
#44
bush...?

i thought it was feathers
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TopicTarget sues men who jumped in to stop knife-wielding man
NonDairyMiltank
08/31/19 12:33:54 PM
#18
pikachupwnage posted...
gunplagirl posted...
It makes sense why she's suing Target, they have an obligation to protect people inside of their property and all things considered she wasn't behaving recklessly.


Only so far as things like not stocking shelves in ways where heavy objects will likely fall on people, having the building follow fire safety codes/etc. posting signs to make people aware of wet floors when cleaning is being done, calling 911 if there is a medical emergency and the like.

They are under no obligation to ensure anyone who enters doesnt get stabbed by a random lunatic, or hurt in a natural disaster.


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TopicDo you believe all women hate each other
NonDairyMiltank
08/30/19 11:21:32 AM
#6
coh posted...
Woman's worst enemy is woman. Sisterhood is a myth

its why i as a woman laugh whenever a wannabe radfem preaches about gettin rid of men entirely and embracing a female-only utopia
we would still be flippin shit at each other with or without men lol and its poven in female-dominated spaces
queen bees don't get along with each other, they all want the throne

women get along when our goals coordinate with each other, but we turn into angry badgers when we disagree
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TopicWhy are the hottest and best women to be around always married
NonDairyMiltank
08/29/19 4:22:35 PM
#4
Why are the hottest and best women to be around always married

the brightest lights attract the most moths

don't be surprise when a moth found one before you
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Topic"If you're sick of using GameFAQs..."
NonDairyMiltank
08/29/19 3:04:47 PM
#4
don't worry about it

you're not noteworthy enough for anyone to care about closing your account lol
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Topic98% of men are unwilling to date Trans Women because of Hatred
NonDairyMiltank
08/28/19 5:14:32 PM
#75
PleaseClap posted...
Interesting picture, I wonder where it's from

https://imgur.com/zyTR3T0

ah

even if its just a meme, its equally ridiculous for both where it came from and what it says
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TopicWhat's your favorite cool color?
NonDairyMiltank
08/27/19 5:39:58 PM
#3
these sound like soda flavors
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TopicThose with kids, convince me to have kids.
NonDairyMiltank
08/27/19 5:38:18 PM
#17
you either want to have kids already or you don't
you need to come to terms with that decision on your own

having us convince you is basically us making the decision for you, which sets a terrible precedent

its one of those things where "if you have to ask if you want it", you're not ready

asking people with experience what its like is a different ballgame and can give you valuable insight
but other people should never be in charge of "convincing" you to become a parent

its a life choice that dramatically impacts other people's lives
if you were legit about this, you wouldn't be asking a dusty old message board wtf to do...
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TopicDo you personally know anyone who is against people of different races marrying?
NonDairyMiltank
08/27/19 1:27:38 PM
#14
Do you personally know anyone who is against people of different races marrying?

yes

and the trend is not confined to any one racial demographic, they pretty much all demonstrate it to some degree
its actually not uncommon behind closed doors...

family tribalistic disapproval with the race of who you date is one of the number ways multi-racial people are discriminated against today
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TopicFemale privilege is knowing you'll get married some day
NonDairyMiltank
08/27/19 4:04:09 AM
#47
Prestoff posted...
No_U_L7 posted...
And the perfect girl doesnt poop


:o

okay for anyone else who wasn't aware yet...this is an obvious gimmick topic

ffs check TC's post history
and for that matter check Pepys, they're usually the same thing...
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Topicthe closest thing to immortality I can think of currently
NonDairyMiltank
08/27/19 3:57:18 AM
#40
Trickfinger posted...
NonDairyMiltank posted...
copied =/= immortality

you want the prime version of you to live forever? think preservation, not duplication
figure out how to prevent the NATURALLY OCCURRING cell degradation in the human body and apply it
because your network of memories (the actual YOU) is stored and interconnected on biological material that degrades over time
once that goes, the prime version of you goes

the old scifi cliche of "downloading" your mind into another brain wouldn't even work as far as immortality, because what would be deposited in the new host would still just be a copy
if I die but I'm still around, I still exist

thats the point

it ain't you
its just a copy of you, not the original

its basically your offspring that continues on after you're dead
YOU would still experience death even though you gotta clone runnin around
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Topicthe closest thing to immortality I can think of currently
NonDairyMiltank
08/26/19 11:50:46 PM
#22
Trickfinger posted...
if we find out a way to digitize the electrical signals from the brain

if we figured out the trick to creating "copies" of a person's consciousness, then even once the physical body dies the consciousness can be uploaded into another body. or maybe it's stored on some type of server.

would you have your consciousness copied? discuss

copied =/= immortality

you want the prime version of you to live forever? think preservation, not duplication
figure out how to prevent the NATURALLY OCCURRING cell degradation in the human body and apply it
because your network of memories (the actual YOU) is stored and interconnected on biological material that degrades over time
once that goes, the prime version of you goes

the old scifi cliche of "downloading" your mind into another brain wouldn't even work as far as immortality, because what would be deposited in the new host would still just be a copy
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Topicmale (late 20s) UNIVERSITY student "hanging out" with 20year old girls
NonDairyMiltank
08/26/19 11:30:42 PM
#19
LadyVyxx posted...
SaccharineSmile posted...
Conflict posted...
Is it acceptable for someone in their 20s to hang out with girls in their 20s?

Gee, I don't know.


Its like a 10 year gap


10 year gap
Both in 20s

yea

TC's gimmick is showing again...
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TopicTransgender celebrity agrees that not wanting to date trans people isn't...
NonDairyMiltank
08/24/19 1:33:00 PM
#281
averagejoel posted...
NonDairyMiltank posted...
the line i don't like you crossing is trying to imply other people need to change their dating/sexual preferences as a social justice issue

your entire line of thought is coming from this, and the premise it is based on is false. I am not implying that people need to change their preferences as a social justice issue. I am saying that people's preferences are informed by a system that does not like trans people.

okay.....?

you're not implying that people who avoid dating trans folk should change their preferences?
but you're also bothering to point out to them that those preferences are potentially discriminatory towards trans people?

that doesn't add up
why would you bother doing the latter if you didn't want people to change their preferences?

a cis gay guy doesn't want to date trans men (surprise surprise)
are you going to bother lecturing him on how his dating preferences for cis penis is discriminatory towards other people?

no?
then why bring it up at all? for the virtuous thrill of the guilt trip?
cause you're probably not goin to sell most gay men on dating trans men...
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TopicTransgender celebrity agrees that not wanting to date trans people isn't...
NonDairyMiltank
08/24/19 12:31:17 PM
#253
averagejoel posted...
NonDairyMiltank posted...
why would they need to defend that choice?

because they want to ignore the idea that they might not be the perfect allies they think they are

i'm not talking about people who are striving to be perfect allies

i'm talking about the average person
as annoying as it might be to you, most people are moderates, not far left

admittedly i'm a leftist and its not surprising considering my bio
i'm black, lesbian, college student, feminist, and a rights activist
i'm not tryin to be a perfect ally either lol

the line i don't like you crossing is trying to imply other people need to change their dating/sexual preferences as a social justice issue
whether you realize it or not, thats takin your rhetoric too far...

implying that "you're either okay with dating this or you're [....]-phobic" infringes on the concept of people's consent
you're basically sending the message that they need to change their dating preferences to include a certain group or they're terrible people
"you want to avoid being called [....]-phobic? then you NEED to be open to dating this demographic"

no one is entitled to having more success or support in the dating game, not even if theyre struggling
thats not a right, and i say that as one of the underdogs

take the gay communities for example (cis gays)
you're going to have a hard time convincing those not down with dating trans folk that they need to
i know damn well you ain't gonna have much luck tellin cis lesbians that we need to date more trans women

trans women can date and live their lives
but dont be tellin my girls they need to date trans partners to appease your kangaroo court
they ain't gonna lose any sleep continuing to say no and thats their right
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TopicTransgender celebrity agrees that not wanting to date trans people isn't...
NonDairyMiltank
08/24/19 11:48:41 AM
#185
ImmatureContent posted...
shockthemonkey posted...
People seem obsessed with announcing and justifying why theyd never date a trans person.

Its suspect at best.

Definitely this. People rarely get so defensive

why would they need to defend that choice?

there's trans people who refuse to date cis people, other trans folk, certain genders, races, sexual orientations, fem/masculine presenters, etc
the demographic has its own share of prejudices and discriminatory habits
are you going to criticize them too and claim they need to be open to dating outside their preferences?

i doubt it
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TopicTransgender celebrity agrees that not wanting to date trans people isn't...
NonDairyMiltank
08/24/19 11:38:13 AM
#174
averagejoel posted...
NonDairyMiltank posted...
averagejoel posted...
NonDairyMiltank posted...
well no shit

welcome to the world of modern dating
its casually loaded with prejudice and discrimination
thats a commonly practiced natural aspect of it
theres even mainstream dating apps crafted to filter certain people out
anyone whos a minority knows this, because we feel the brunt of it...

if you dont match what someone else wants, all you can do is toughen up buttercup and try elsewhere

you think thats wrong and the world needs to change? okay
tell us your plan for convincing most people to accept dating trans people
because right now most people don't

people thinking about their preferences and recognizing that their preferences are informed by a societal system that fundamentally does not respect trans people as human beings would be a decent start

okay, you convinced a bunch of people that their sexual/dating preferences are influenced by a "systemic whatever" and accept that
unshockingly most of them are still not interested in changing their dating habits, shrug and just continue with their familiar preferences after the guilt trip

what now?
how do you proceed to convince them to accept dating trans people?

you have to have more to your little campaign than "just so know that's bad and here's why"
you said making people more aware was a start...okay, how are you convincing people to care about your message?
whats their incentive?

if guilt is all you're really selling, don't be shocked if the average person
browbeating turns away more audiences than attracts...especially when you're trying to convince them to like something

we were talking ideas before. this is moving into the "action" area. they are separate conversations, and I am not willing to have the latter conversation with someone who does not already accept the ideas I brought up for the former.

translation: cop out
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TopicTransgender celebrity agrees that not wanting to date trans people isn't...
NonDairyMiltank
08/24/19 11:31:12 AM
#166
averagejoel posted...
NonDairyMiltank posted...
well no shit

welcome to the world of modern dating
its casually loaded with prejudice and discrimination
thats a commonly practiced natural aspect of it
theres even mainstream dating apps crafted to filter certain people out
anyone whos a minority knows this, because we feel the brunt of it...

if you dont match what someone else wants, all you can do is toughen up buttercup and try elsewhere

you think thats wrong and the world needs to change? okay
tell us your plan for convincing most people to accept dating trans people
because right now most people don't

people thinking about their preferences and recognizing that their preferences are informed by a societal system that fundamentally does not respect trans people as human beings would be a decent start

okay, you convinced a bunch of people that their sexual/dating preferences are influenced by a "systemic whatever" and accept that
unshockingly most of them are still not interested in changing their dating habits, shrug and just continue with their familiar preferences after the guilt trip

what now?
how do you proceed to convince them to accept dating trans people?

you have to have more to your little campaign than "just so know that's bad and here's why"
you said making people more aware was a start...okay, how are you convincing people to care about your message?
whats their incentive?

if guilt is all you're really selling, don't be shocked if the average person loses interest
browbeating turns away more audiences than attracts...especially when you're trying to convince them to like something
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TopicTransgender celebrity agrees that not wanting to date trans people isn't...
NonDairyMiltank
08/24/19 11:03:21 AM
#133
averagejoel posted...
NonDairyMiltank posted...
ImmatureContent posted...
NonDairyMiltank posted...
whether or not you agree with Blaire White, you're not going to get very far tryin to socially strongarm people into dating partners they ain't into

"oh but you wanted me before you knew i was trans" =/= actually attracted to you

it means they were attracted to what they THOUGHT you were
BIG difference...

if you wanna identify as a different gender than what you were born as, more power to you
just remember that not everyone you try to date is gonna agree with your assessment and thats just how it has to be

This is complete bullshit. If you attracted to someone, you are attracted to them.

they're attracted to what they THINK the person is, the whole package

if evidence shows what they thought doesn't match with what they presumed the person was, don't be shocked that the attraction suddenly takes a nosedive

i got nothin personally against trans folk, but i'm never surprised when someone exclusively lookin for cis partners says nope to dating trans (because thats the preference of most people in the world)

I don't think anyone here is surprised by that. we're saying that it's discriminatory against trans people

well no shit

welcome to the world of modern dating
its casually loaded with prejudice and discrimination
thats a commonly practiced natural aspect of it
theres even mainstream dating apps crafted to filter certain people out
anyone whos a minority knows this, because we feel the brunt of it...

if you dont match what someone else wants, all you can do is toughen up buttercup and try elsewhere

you think thats wrong and the world needs to change? okay
tell us your plan for convincing most people to accept dating trans people
because right now most people don't

i mean if youre just triggered by someone stating they don't want to date <insert demographic>, i don't know what to tell you, thats not an uncommon thing

and if you think people not wanting to date a trans person is transphobia, well good luck, because that would mean MOST people have transphobic views when it comes to dating....
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TopicTransgender celebrity agrees that not wanting to date trans people isn't...
NonDairyMiltank
08/24/19 10:45:12 AM
#113
ImmatureContent posted...
NonDairyMiltank posted...
whether or not you agree with Blaire White, you're not going to get very far tryin to socially strongarm people into dating partners they ain't into

"oh but you wanted me before you knew i was trans" =/= actually attracted to you

it means they were attracted to what they THOUGHT you were
BIG difference...

if you wanna identify as a different gender than what you were born as, more power to you
just remember that not everyone you try to date is gonna agree with your assessment and thats just how it has to be

This is complete bullshit. If you attracted to someone, you are attracted to them.

they're attracted to what they THINK the person is, the whole package

if evidence shows what they thought doesn't match with what they presumed the person was, don't be shocked that the attraction suddenly takes a nosedive

i got nothin personally against trans folk, but i'm never surprised when someone exclusively lookin for cis partners says nope to dating trans (because thats the preference of most people in the world)
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TopicTransgender celebrity agrees that not wanting to date trans people isn't...
NonDairyMiltank
08/24/19 10:14:10 AM
#107
whether or not you agree with Blaire White, you're not going to get very far tryin to socially strongarm people into dating partners they ain't into

"oh but you wanted me before you knew i was trans" =/= actually attracted to you

it means they were attracted to what they THOUGHT you were
BIG difference...

if you wanna identify as a different gender than what you were born as, more power to you
just remember that not everyone you try to date is gonna agree with your assessment and thats just how it has to be
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TopicGay porn star fired for not wanting to work with HIV-positive performers.
NonDairyMiltank
08/24/19 9:52:47 AM
#34
ButteryMales posted...
Doesn't PREP make it impossible to be transmitted? Or is like 99+% effective?

99% effective =/= impossible

THAT'S the real controversy
no one wants to lose that lottery...

especially since HIV treatment still costs considerable $$$ which is really bad in areas like the US with over-commercialized medicine
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