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TopicWhat made you lose complete sympathy/respect for a friend?
MICHALECOLE
02/08/22 12:15:22 PM
#34
Boy oh boy did drunk me say a lot last night!

Im impressed that my grammar and spelling didnt seem to suffer though
TopicWhat made you lose complete sympathy/respect for a friend?
MICHALECOLE
02/08/22 5:57:43 AM
#32
[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

I dont even fault the boyfriend. I am promiscuous, I am sexually open and I am very confident. I dont get jealous, but I understand it.

but he was a reasonable guy. I truly feel a simple discussion and it could have easily been smoothed over. I would have understood if our friendship wavered over time and we drifted. That would have felt natural, nothing can last forever. I get that. But there was no discussion. No fighting for our friendship, no second thoughts on her end. She was so easily willing to throw it all away just to please him without even a simple talk.

it showed me where I stood. I was a therapist. I was an escape. I wasnt the friend that I thought I was. And she definitely didnt hold me in the regard that I held her.

and thats fine. Thats all fine. You do you. You make your decisions. You do what you think is right.

but when your decisions hurt people, you have to live with those repercussions for the rest of your life, and I hope its worth it. I hope her decision was worth it. I hope she is happy. But im not going to be a part of it ever again.
TopicWhat made you lose complete sympathy/respect for a friend?
MICHALECOLE
02/08/22 5:49:32 AM
#31
DocDelicious posted...
While I did read the whole thing, and can understand why you're upset, I just wanted to say that I personally expect that sort of behavior when someone enters a relationship. Time that was spent on friendships is now spent on the relationship, and opposite sex friendships have to fall by the wayside.

And honestly, for me, your reaction to her dropping you for her boyfriend just confirms that you had feelings for her above and beyond the friendship. The only acceptable reaction is being happy they've found someone they want to be with. If they're not right for eachother you're free to voice your opinion, but that's where your responsibility/entitlement ends, just like with my roommate.
Feelings for her above and beyond friendship.. I mean, I guess? Like what is above and beyond friendship that isnt family or romance? We werent family and there was no romance. We each were the person that the other would come to for comfort, advice, humor, or just basic company. I know it went both ways. The things we had experienced together, or helped eachother through, were things that I thought bonded people together forever.

I am always thrilled when people are happy. I believe in doing whatever you want that makes you happy. And if dropping your friends is what makes you happy, then by all means you do you. That doesnt negate the feelings of the people that have been dropped though.

when their relationship started, I was thrilled! I thought he was great for her, and I fully supported everything.

and it all flipped so quickly. Communication went from daily to every three days, to no talking for a week. And I was fine with that, focus on what makes you happy. Im there if you need me.

but when I needed her, as I had been there for her every time when she needed me, I was met with I cant help you and we cant be friends anymore. I expressed how much I needed her to help me get through what I was going through, just mentally be there for me, and she wasnt willing to offer that because of this brand new relationship. What I had been going through had lasted longer than she even knew the guy, and it was at the very peak of pain for me, and when I reached out for help it was rebuffed so.. coldly. So matter of fact. So unemotional. After all the emotions we had been through together.

I wasnt trying to fuck his girl, I just wanted my friend.

and two months later when their relationship ends, I could have forgiven and forgotten I guess, but I could tell it was too late. It felt worse than a partner cheating on me. It felt like.. I meant nothing unless I was useful.
TopicI just lost so much money in poker
MICHALECOLE
02/08/22 5:20:24 AM
#3
Sega_System posted...
Jerry Lawler might give you a lift.
Hes the one who hit the straight

truly the king
TopicWhat made you lose complete sympathy/respect for a friend?
MICHALECOLE
02/08/22 5:18:03 AM
#25
[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

More nuance to the story: I am a very accepting and fluid person. I am not a jealous person, I have a partner and we have a semi open relationship. We do not believe in jealousy.

My partner was jealous of my friendship with this girl. For the first time ever. It took a little bit, but I explained that this friendship meant a lot to me, and it was a very important part of my life. If given an ultimatum, I would choose my friendship over my partner. Not because I cared about them more or less, just because I am not willing to compromise what is important to me, and the commitments I have made to others.

I had been there for her through a lot. a lot of shit. I wasnt going to turn my back on her for anybody.

After discussion, my partner understood and we remained friends. We remained people who (I thought) could rely on eachother no matter what.

I was having an incredibly rough time, the stress of my job felt crushing, and I was fading as a person. When I needed my friend the most was when she decided to choose sides and turn her back on me. No fight, no discussion, no nothing. Just chose the side of some guy over the person who had been there for her through some fucked up shit that she never would have shared with him.

Ill admit that the entire situation has hardened me quite a bit. Im less trusting. Im less open. I do not want to have another friend like that because I do not want to be hurt like that again.

I need a partner. I need love, sex, somebody to come home to. Some people dont need that, but I do.

I do not need a friend to share everything with. I can keep things to myself. I probably will forever keep it that way now. It was nice to have that person, but I can live without it.

Im drunk, Im not even sure if any of this makes sense.
TopicWe got mentioned in an article!
MICHALECOLE
02/08/22 5:02:01 AM
#3
Remember gamespot users?

what a fucking joke
TopicWhat made you lose complete sympathy/respect for a friend?
MICHALECOLE
02/08/22 4:59:09 AM
#21
One time I was friends with a girl. We were very good friends. I had essentially shared everything about myself with her, and vice versa. She had told me things that nobody else knew.

Then she got a boyfriend, and after two weeks of dating him he said he wasnt comfortable with our relationship and she told me we couldnt be friends anymore.

I was hurt. I felt like nothing. I felt like our friendship was a sham.

after three months total, they broke up. She tried to apologize, and I told her I wasnt a rent a friend who was there when she needed me. I havent spoken to her since.


TopicHow come South Park hasn't made fun of Joe Rogan yet?
MICHALECOLE
02/08/22 4:53:42 AM
#10
I would be incredibly disheartened and surprised if I found out either Matt or trey are antivax.

usually their satire boils down to okay, lets pretend that the oppositions opinion is correct, and explain to them how ludicrous theyre actually being by showing them how ridiculous it would be if they were correct

but theyve been millionaires for over 20 years so I assume just like all millionaires theyve lost touch with what got them there, so who the fuck knows these days
TopicI just lost so much money in poker
MICHALECOLE
02/08/22 4:29:14 AM
#1
straight On the river

haha

Im drunk whos driving me home
TopicDid you see Sing 2? How about ghostbusters afterlife?
MICHALECOLE
02/08/22 1:21:04 AM
#6
I saw ghostbusters. Wasnt a fan, but my partner enjoyed it

ParanoidObsessive posted...
All of the stars will burn out and everything will turn to dust before I hate myself enough to watch Sing 2.
Lmao
TopicVice City had the best soundtrack.
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 10:06:54 PM
#14
Tony hawks games for me
TopicCop arrests guys tinder date when she was on her way to his house, good guy cop
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 9:59:43 PM
#2
You know, like the cop that delivered the doordash
TopicTattoo'd peeps of CE: Do/Did you have a tattoo you regret?
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 7:29:32 PM
#11
pogo_rabid posted...
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/2/6/8/AAd2inAAC5nM.png
uh oh I have a degenerate cringe tattoo
TopicJoe Rogan loved the covid vaccine 2 years ago
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 5:51:46 PM
#17
Those last 30 seconds are very

I used to love listening to rogan. I wish he hadnt gone so crazy.
TopicIs it a giant red flag if a man knows pornstars by name?
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 5:26:15 PM
#43
cardgum posted...
Alex Harper is my favorite porn star. So beautiful. She actually looks similar to the actress Eva Green.

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/1/4/3/AAfM3BAAC5lP.jpg
Nice tits, horse face
TopicWould you pay about $5000 for nosebleeds at a Super Bowl game?
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 3:35:43 PM
#52
Revelation34 posted...
They should have.
For what? The lawsuit for the rams was because of the stadium that was built with taxpayer money because of the revenue having an nfl team would bring in, and now its just a closed stadium and the taxpayers still have to pay whats owed.
TopicI really like the FF7 Remake BUT...
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 3:04:32 PM
#14
s0nicfan posted...
The real kick in the dick is going to be if they announce part 2 and your part 1 progress doesn't carry over 1:1, meaning you could have skipped all the sidequests and still ended up at the same place as everyone else.
Nah they have to let you keep your level and shit. They fucking better.
TopicI really like the FF7 Remake BUT...
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 2:58:54 PM
#13
I think the worst part of the game is them by reusing maps for different parts of the game. Like they sent me to the sewers and I do all the gamer shit youre supposed to do, inspect every crevice and shit and find all the treasures, then they send me back there and I do it all over again just to find a bunch of already opened treasures.

and everything looks so generic down there that I get turned around a lot and run the wrong way a bunch of times
TopicCop arrests guys tinder date when she was on her way to his house, good guy cop
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 2:26:42 PM
#1
Goes to the house and fucks guy anyway.

boys in blue really give it their all
TopicI really like the FF7 Remake BUT...
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 2:25:26 PM
#6
I realized too late that I could go to the quest page and see how many quests were per chapter so I skipped a bunch of shut
TopicWould you pay about $5000 for nosebleeds at a Super Bowl game?
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 12:49:45 PM
#49
Revelation34 posted...
The Chargers leaving was worse.
Well San Diego didnt sue the chargers and the nfl after they left, so Im inclined to disagree
TopicWould you pay about $5000 for nosebleeds at a Super Bowl game?
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 9:11:23 AM
#46
No, they can like whoever they want, but the way the rams left st Louis left a sour taste in a lot of peoples mouths there, so I assume they lost most of their St. Louis fans
TopicWhat's a good book about a guy's relationship with his dog...
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 6:22:55 AM
#3
That one movie where the dog keeps dying and coming back to life and the one guy gets the same dog soul from when he was a kid
TopicIs it a giant red flag if a man knows pornstars by name?
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 6:22:09 AM
#24
Guide posted...
y'aint processed that right at all fam
Yaint fam indeed mhm mhm
Topicmy tinder babe wasn't impressed with clarissa explains it all
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 6:00:37 AM
#4
Mensis posted...
Remember that episode where she dressed all goth punk? That awakened something inside my young self.
damn, I fuckin love nofx
TopicSo what did Vegy get banned for?
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 5:58:34 AM
#3
Went on a racist tirade
TopicIs it a giant red flag if a man knows pornstars by name?
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 5:57:32 AM
#13
MrMallard posted...
Solid proof that the answer is "yes".

On one hand, if you know one porn star that you're interested in and you keep your simping to yourself, that's one thing. We all have types, we all find horny things that appeal to us specifically.

But the further out you branch with it - liking/replying to their tweets, making threads about individual actresses and how attractive they are to you, listing off like twelve like it's a badge of honour - the weirder it gets. Like if your idea of sane public discourse is to go "there's a JAV actress named Yuma Asami who graduated from being a gravure idol in 2020, she did a 15 man gangbang where they all had phimosis", that definitely singles you out as a weird person.

Like by all means be into that shit and make friends who share your tastes. I'm in like 5 Discord chatrooms with dedicated NSFW channels, people talk porn and bond over their mutual weird interests all the time. And I'm certainly not above any of this. The crux of what makes it a red flag is both how open you are about it in public situations, and how proud/defensive you are when you're called on it. Let's face it, talking about sex stuff unrestrained in public spaces makes you look like a weirdo. The difference between it being a red flag and not being an issue at all is who and where you bring it up.

Knowing the names and keeping track of them is one thing that some may deem to be weird, but it's literally a non-issue if you keep it to yourself. The more you advertise your extensive knowledge of pornography that caters specifically to your niche to a wider audience, the weirder it is.
Im okay with how weird I am, any more than that is too much for me to handle
TopicIs it a giant red flag if a man knows pornstars by name?
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 5:29:27 AM
#11
Johnny Sins and Jmac

fuckin monsters
Topiccan you put a freshwater crab in the ocean?
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 4:39:10 AM
#3
Yeah, you can boil them in either
TopicHow can one man fuck all these women
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 4:38:49 AM
#9
Pretty sure you have to have a huge wiener to be a celebrity. The dude in Kims porn video had a monster, so I assume both Kanye and Pete have monsters too
TopicI feel like every highschool ever played Romeo Juliet (1968) and Osmosis Jones
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 4:37:11 AM
#26
Sexypwnstar posted...
Supersize Me
watched that one too
TopicWould you pay about $5000 for nosebleeds at a Super Bowl game?
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 4:35:18 AM
#44
Oh.. well they were in LA before that. And all the real rams fans were still fans when they went to St. Louis..

I assume the rams fans they gained while in St. Louis probably hate them now though
TopicI need to apologize to sex workers...
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 4:33:23 AM
#5
in your life, how many toes have you sucked?
TopicI feel like every highschool ever played Romeo Juliet (1968) and Osmosis Jones
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 4:01:32 AM
#20
SydneySweenHero posted...
lol my teacher was like "okay class, this film has a nude scene and I expect you all to be mature adults about it."

and when the nude scene came on, everyone cheered and howled and someone said "Nice jugs!". The teacher got mad but kept the movie going lol
The teacher always says that, and its a self fulfilling prophecy. There is literally one second of boobies and its easy to miss. If the teacher says nothing the kids say nothing.

but the teacher always says something
TopicIf you could have 1 dragon shout which would you pick?
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 3:35:15 AM
#5
Yell at dragons
TopicI feel like every highschool ever played Romeo Juliet (1968) and Osmosis Jones
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 3:31:20 AM
#5
Definitely saw both those movies in school.

them boobies in Romeo and Juliet were nice. When I was young. Cant say that now. Because she was like 16 when they filmed that. I think:
TopicDoes anyone remember FUN.
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 3:29:34 AM
#10
Their two albums are two of my favorite albums ever and then.. that was it.

a lot of my favorite bands only had one or two albums. Kind of a blessing and a curse. Not enough songs, but didnt make music long enough to get shitty.

operation ivy, the postal service, the unicorns, fun, sublime (for reasons different than the other bands), boxcar racer (though that one is obviously kinda cheating), the Sex Pistols
TopicNurse who refused vaccine for herself and her kids gets COVID for a second time
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 3:24:05 AM
#19
gunplagirl posted...
Remember that neurosurgeon who thought pyramids were used to store grain?
That doesnt sound stupid, just ignorant
TopicHow many hypnoxes did you do this week
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 1:38:37 AM
#6
CoorsLight posted...
Weren't you the guy who used to brag about watching porn but not touching yourself

Please tell me you don't still do that, it's very weird
Idk how people do that shit Im horny 95% of the time.
TopicWhat gaming chair do you have? Looking to buy one
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 1:09:18 AM
#17
Axiom posted...
None. Mesh office chair or gtfo. Gaming chairs are pieces of shit
A chair snob. Thats a new one
TopicWhat gaming chair do you have? Looking to buy one
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 12:23:15 AM
#12
I stand when I play video games. Is that weird?
TopicAnyone else hate the phrase "they're playing 3D/4D/5D chess"?
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 12:20:37 AM
#3
I think its usually used satirically nowadays
TopicHow many hypnoxes did you do this week
MICHALECOLE
02/07/22 12:08:49 AM
#3
In the last seven days.. idk, 10? 12? Something like that
TopicIf I bowl 21 games in 2 hours, how many frames per minute did I bowl?
MICHALECOLE
02/06/22 11:25:02 PM
#3
Norman_Smiley posted...
1.75 frames per minute
You didnt show your work. C-
TopicWould you be willing to take a pay cut to bring up lower paid people?
MICHALECOLE
02/06/22 11:20:50 PM
#36
[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

I was the restaurant manager of a sizzler, and repeatedly attempted to get my cooks a raise when minimum wage went up because some of them were now making the same as the servers, and was repeatedly told no. At the start of 2021 I was given a raise without being told it was going to happen.

I went to corporate and asked them why they had money to give me a raise but no money to give my cooks a raise, and they said they had to keep the most important part of their restaurants happy. In a time when we couldnt get any cook positions filled even though we were in DESPERATE need (as most restaurants are/were). I then asked if I could have the raise I was given removed, and the money given to my cooks instead. I was told no.

I put in my two weeks right then and there.
TopicAndrew Yang has a curious definition of racism
MICHALECOLE
02/06/22 11:17:08 PM
#57
lolife67 posted...
You're under the incorrect assumption they think they would/could ever say something dumb. They think that what they're posting is actually intelligent/good.
I mean.. not really. Or else they would never delete tweets
TopicIf I bowl 21 games in 2 hours, how many frames per minute did I bowl?
MICHALECOLE
02/06/22 11:14:55 PM
#1
pop quiz
TopicNurse who refused vaccine for herself and her kids gets COVID for a second time
MICHALECOLE
02/06/22 10:02:30 PM
#3
People think that because some nurses wont take the vaccine proves the vaccine is bad.

the real truth is its not that hard to become a nurse

theyre doing great things and helping people out, but its not hard to do.

find me the percentage of doctors and nurse practitioners who wont take the vaccine and I guarantee you itll be less than 1%

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