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| Topic | 26% of Americans 18+ DIDN'T HAVE SEX in the last YEAR!! Are you in this group? |
| Chesh 02/14/22 7:46:12 PM #18 | [LFAQs-redacted-quote] what??? LMFAO --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | Things have changed so much for me (blogfaqs) |
| Chesh 01/28/22 9:25:24 PM #1 | It's so easy for me to make friends now, despite me still being a massive weirdo. IRL it's a bit harder than online, but I can still make friends way easier than before and actually have a few people in my life who seem to want me around (before, it was zero). Online, I'm way more included in things than I used to be and I can integrate with people way better. I take things way less personally too, I used to be hyper-sensitive. I never thought I'd see the day I changed so much, but it's obvious looking back on it that it's already occurred. I've come so far from where I was and I'm only in my mid 20s. It's so exciting to see what the rest of my life brings. --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | Do you have all you natural teeth still? |
| Chesh 01/19/22 9:02:06 PM #10 | catboy2 posted... Yes. I don't count wisdom teeth. --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | Should i shave, or use my week off as an excuse to grow a beard? |
| Chesh 01/17/22 9:42:20 AM #6 | Beards are sexy --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | I went through ego death... |
| Chesh 01/15/22 7:17:30 PM #8 | Gobstoppers12 posted... It's hard to describe to people who haven't gone through abuse and the like, but there really can come a point where a small realization changes your entire outlook on life.That's great. Sorry you were abused, though. [LFAQs-redacted-quote] Lol what do you mean? Alteres posted... Feeling tends to go away in a week or two imo, depending on how much stressful shit I have to deal with. My friend who has also gone through ego death said it only lasted a few days for him. :( I want this to last forever though, I feel so different --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | I went through ego death... |
| Chesh 01/15/22 5:53:19 PM #1 | I won't give too many details because of the ToS, but I feel like a different person now. It was like having months of seriously painful therapy sessions all at once, and I truly had to accept death at the end. I had lots of flashbacks to when I was mistreated as a child and realized that exactly zero of those experiences were really my fault. I had to look at everything I feared and hated directly in the face, which was terrifying, but I survived it. Through it, I was able to separate the shame I felt about myself from my true self, and I feel so much better about myself now. I was even able to stand up to someone who did something negative to me today, which I never could have done before (I had almost no confidence). Incredibly odd. Very powerful experience though. I'm going through a pretty negative life event right now, and the experience actually gives me some hope for the rest of my life. --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | Have you ever been fired? (Be honest!) |
| Chesh 01/08/22 3:07:16 PM #17 | I stopped showing up to a job once because the supervisor treated me like shit (made fun of me, used to grope me as some kind of power move, talked shit about me to other people, etc.) so I got "fired" for that, but I was never coming back anyway. Does that count? --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | LMFAO! My girl Desiree just started an account on "That site"! |
| Chesh 01/07/22 1:13:21 PM #3 | this gimmick is so weird lol Also, by "that site" I thought you meant the gamefaqs logging/archive site for a sec --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | Is it true that men peak in their 30s? |
| Chesh 01/07/22 12:22:29 PM #2 | I'd say so. Their looks are usually still intact (or they're getting better), they're usually more mature, they usually have assets by then and have moved up in their career, etc. --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | Will you get an inheritance and do you factor that into your retirement? |
| Chesh 01/02/22 9:24:52 AM #8 | Nope. Zero. My parents were in their 50s when they conceived me too, so one is already dead and the other will die soon. -_- --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | Getting into a romantic relationship was my biggest regret of 2021 |
| Chesh 12/31/21 10:30:28 PM #1 | I'm 24 and had never been in one, just hookups and fwb type relationships. Someone dragged me into one in September, but I had to break up because I was acting so fucking pathetic and kept trying to change myself for him. It only lasted about 2 months but I felt like a 13 year old the entire time, probably because I never had such intense feelings for someone before. I didn't think I was capable of it, and I felt lucky that I would never have to deal with relationship drama and heartbreak. I used to be content with solitude, but now I feel so alone in the world without a partner. It fucking sucks, if I could go back in time and make that experience never happen, I probably would at this point. I'm alone on NYE like I am every year, but this time it stings so much and I never cared before. --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | When I made plans when I was younger -- were they the right ones? |
| Chesh 12/27/21 11:32:48 PM #1 | Do I regret growing up where I did? Sure, but it was a wise choice. Operating with an altered mindset can be quite strange sometimes. Show no concern. --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | You ever play a game that you know was bad, but did everything in anyway? |
| Chesh 12/27/21 9:14:18 PM #7 | sonic 06 as a kid lol --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | Be honest, are you miserable? |
| Chesh 12/22/21 12:13:13 AM #31 | No, but it seems like my friends are all doing better than me lately. I have a pretty decent life, so for some reason, I just have friends with great lives. It makes me jealous lol --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | Does your job make you wear a mask? |
| Chesh 12/18/21 1:35:35 PM #11 | We have to wear them in hallways, etc. but not in our offices. So I tend to stay in my office most of the time lol --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | this is so sad, testimonies of men who got circumcised later in life. |
| Chesh 12/18/21 12:45:17 PM #17 | That's pretty crazy. I'm partially cut but usually when I'm soft the foreskin covers the head, so I wonder if I have this loss of sensitivity too or not --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | I am a shut-in. Ask me anything. |
| Chesh 12/18/21 12:23:51 PM #7 | Do you think you will ever stop being one? Also, how often do you get lonely and what do you do about it? I am feeling kind of lonely today, I get jealous when people talk about having tons of friends, but then when I have opportunities to make friends, I just feel annoyed and don't actually want to talk to most people. It's an unfortunate paradox. One of my friends who basically was a shut-in seems to have gotten rid of his shame about himself, and now has lots of friends. I wish I could feel the same -- it just seems like there wouldn't be many people on this planet who would tolerate me. --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | is the clclclcl CE meme going to dethrone manfan as the best CE meme |
| Chesh 12/18/21 12:22:33 PM #10 | I don't even know what clclcl is --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | Using exercise instead of substances to feel good... |
| Chesh 12/09/21 11:25:29 AM #5 | I get highs like that from weightlifting, but not cardio. idk --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | PSN VP caught by Pedophile Hunting group for trying meet w 15 YO |
| Chesh 12/04/21 4:46:29 PM #7 | DeadBankerDream posted... To Catch a Predator was gross and these youtube pedophile hunters who sprung up in its wake are absolutely vile.? Would you rather the predators just go unpunished? Lol --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | What is your job, do you like it, and how much do you make? |
| Chesh 11/30/21 9:02:30 PM #12 | sutree posted... I have been interested in software dev, but have no programming/math experience. Do you have any recommendations for a pathway into a career?Most places will want a degree in computer science / IT / MIS / whatever else, but if that is not possible, I'd say to start learning programming via codecademy.com or any other free resources to see if you like it / are a good fit, then move up to figuring out what type of programming you'd like (web programming, devops, backend, database dev, etc.) and then if you're really good, try doing leetcode so that you can do well in technical interviews. It is a hard path without a degree though. I've heard of coding bootcamps working as well if you want to try those --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | What is your job, do you like it, and how much do you make? |
| Chesh 11/28/21 7:58:22 PM #2 | Software developer for small government agency I like it, I barely do anything at all and can browse the internet all day $80k --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | What is your age and how much money do you have in savings? |
| Chesh 11/26/21 9:53:05 PM #17 | 24 $10k investments $10k 401k meh --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | CE - How much money do you make per year? |
| Chesh 11/21/21 7:20:54 PM #29 | 100k is the most common? Interesting. I would say I don't believe it, but most people here are in their 30s-40s and work in tech. I make around 80k but I'm right out of college and live in a MCOL area. --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | are you a virgin? |
| Chesh 11/21/21 7:07:16 PM #18 | LeoRavus posted... I can relate, probably longer. I've had plenty of advances but I'm way too picky. Not like I need a model but certain criteria have to be met or I'm turned completely off. lolI actually just finally got laid again last night but... it was terrible and I kind of regret it lol. At the very least, I found out my sex skills didn't get worse even though I thought I'd forget how to do it after all this time. The other person was really pleased, but I wasn't and didn't like them :/ --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | are you a virgin? |
| Chesh 11/20/21 3:17:45 PM #12 | LeoRavus posted... No but it's been so long at this point my body has returned to virgin state.This lol. I'm 24 but the last time, I was 22. I did make out with someone last month though <_< --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | I can't tell if I'm being played or tested |
| Chesh 11/17/21 8:44:27 PM #56 | Master Kazuya posted... 2nd Update: I am beginning to learn that establishing boundaries is a process, not just one and done.If you're having a hard time letting go of having feelings for her it may be best to talk to her less at least for a little while. Or just think about the fact that she has a bf and it would be shady for you guys to see each other (she would cheat on you too). I was seeing someone who was in a relationship very briefly before I realized it was a bad idea (they were definitely purposely trying to get me attached to them), and I started calling them "Shade" in my head and saved them as "Shade " in my phone. It worked after seeing that every time they texted me lmao --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | I can't tell if I'm being played or tested |
| Chesh 11/15/21 7:48:10 PM #4 | Master Kazuya posted... I just don't get why she wouldn't be stopping my attention or working that hard to get it when I don't give it.She could be narcissistic. Narcissists love attention and will do whatever they can to get it, especially from certain people that they like to prey on. You have to be careful. --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | The age difference of this couple is 17 years. |
| Chesh 11/14/21 11:02:03 AM #43 | I was seeing a 43 year old guy just last month and I'm 24 lol --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | Are gay incels a thing |
| Chesh 10/30/21 7:05:42 PM #10 | RedWhiteBlue posted... Most complaints I hear from gay guys is that they can't find a relationship, just meaningless sex with no affection. If it helps anyone reading this, inceldom isn't exclusively about lack of sex, although at it's core consistent sex is an issue. A relationship deals with most of the natural issues incels have. The longer inceldom persists, the deeper the problems become, and the more likely they'll need therapy on themselves to make a relationship work in the first place.This 100%. I feel kind of like an incel in that way lol, only ever had two affectionate guys, and got huge crushes on both of them so I had to stop seeing them because it was an fwb situation. Sucks :/ --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | I don't have any friends but am getting sick of it |
| Chesh 10/23/21 7:06:58 PM #1 | As a kid I grew up in pretty bad poverty, at least for US standards (moldy trailer with holes and the power would go out at least 1/3 of the time), so I worked a lot and had a lot of worries up until recently, and I was always too stressed and busy to care about having friends (even though I did have some friends I didn't actually care for, just to avoid being alone and standing out), but now I'm out of poverty (woo computer science major) and starting to prioritize it more and would like to find genuine friends that I can be myself around. But I am awkward af and most people I am around have way different life experiences than me, so I find it really hard to relate to people to make friends. I can make friends online because it is easier in general, and it's easier to find people with similar experiences to mine because I can just search for it, but IRL it is hard. What do i do --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | At this rate we're going to be back to Trump in 2025... |
| Chesh 10/17/21 11:29:30 AM #3 | At this point it would probably be better if he resigned and Kamala became pres --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | Are you hot? |
| Chesh 10/15/21 11:10:46 PM #27 | No, I'm not. However, I used to be nearly 500 pounds and I'm like 280 now with muscle (still losing), so I feel really "hot" compared to how I was before, which is nice I guess. --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | $2000 to lick the handle of this grocery store cart. |
| Chesh 10/13/21 7:27:13 PM #15 | Do I have to swallow? lol --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | Wow. Have I really been on here for 15 years? |
| Chesh 10/10/21 9:51:05 AM #19 | CEchat / tinychat was funny lol. I was a huge troll back then and everyone hated me --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | Cuddling > sex |
| Chesh 10/03/21 9:51:51 AM #18 | I kind of agree. I never used to enjoy it but am seeing someone who I cuddle with a lot, and it's pretty amazing. So relaxing and validating --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | 1. What year did you make your account? 2. When did you start coming to CE? |
| Chesh 09/26/21 2:59:39 PM #27 | My first account was 2006. I was only 9 years old lol I actually first started browsing CE 2 years later, in 2008, so I was 11. I started posting regularly when I was 12, and everyone on here hated me lol. I was quite infamous back then, though I have a different account name now --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | Where are people going for their porn needs now that the hub is ruined? |
| Chesh 09/26/21 1:55:35 PM #37 | I like videos with an ecks in front of them --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | Whats gonna happen to all the money young people pay into social security? |
| Chesh 09/25/21 2:10:15 PM #2 | solosnake posted... Do they all just lose that money when the system goes bankrupt and crashes?Yep. --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | I got rejected - the emptiness feels all-consuming (you will hate me lol) |
| Chesh 09/25/21 1:49:40 PM #4 | Jerry_Hellyeah posted... Oh wow, an FWB situation didnt work out well? Oh wow, banging someone in a relationship didnt work out well?I've had -many- fwb relationships before... None ended like this --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | I got rejected - the emptiness feels all-consuming (you will hate me lol) |
| Chesh 09/25/21 1:36:13 PM #1 | Started seeing a guy on a FWB basis, he was in an "open relationship" with a woman (I kind of doubt that was actually true, I think he was cheating but not 100% sure), things were good and then he suddenly started acting really romantic towards me during our meetings. I caught feelings fast, probably to a mentally ill level if I'm being honest, but I didn't tell him that (although I may have inadvertently hinted that I had feelings a bit) and started feeling very hesitant to meet him again because I knew it would just end badly. I stopped texting him and only responded to his texts, and I did meet him a few more times but it was awkward because I was trying to play it cool and so I acted distant. He started acting flaky, making plans to meet but not following through, and it just kind of fizzled out -- there wasn't an official rejection, but it's done because I can't take being involved with this person anymore. I'm just ignoring communications from him from now on, if he even does try to talk to me again. I guess I made a mistake by engaging with this person at all... I never thought that I would develop feelings like that, it usually takes me months or years to even start liking someone really. I just feel so empty now, and all the progress I've made in my mental health has taken a step back -- I recently relapsed on a bad habit I've been fighting hard to overcome (not drugs lol), I can't bring myself to exercise, and I just feel so depressed. I've certainly learned my lesson. I am *never* engaging with people who are already in ANY kind of relationship again, and I honestly think that even if they aren't in one, I'm not ready to have feelings for someone because I haven't completed the work on myself necessary to be around other people. It's too intense. tldr: If you are anything like me, avoid ANY emotion around a fwb... Just be a robot or you'll regret it --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | AMA and I'll respond via vocaroo for a while |
| Chesh 09/24/21 9:40:58 PM #3 | Simp posted... What's your favorite song and would you sing a few bars of it for me?https://voca.ro/19hu9ohR6kHZ --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | AMA and I'll respond via vocaroo for a while |
| Chesh 09/24/21 9:13:19 PM #1 | Do you like 1, 2, or 3 better?
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I got a new mic because I'm starting to talk on voice calls more and am bored Feel free to critique my voice and tell me how gay I sound, I barely talked IRL before a few months ago lol --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | Im ready to casually "come out" to my coworkers. |
| Chesh 09/24/21 10:00:41 AM #4 | That's good for you. I hope I can do the same (I'm also gay and into much older men) but I'm too afraid of it getting around and me getting fired, etc. It just feels freeing to live authentically, though. --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | C/D your life has already peaked |
| Chesh 09/23/21 6:27:31 PM #5 | Funny how this is a C/D topic but no one actually responded with C or D. --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | C/D your life has already peaked |
| Chesh 09/23/21 8:31:51 AM #3 | I don't think it has. My childhood was shit and I had a lot of issues in my early adulthood/college years bc of it, but I'm finally starting to overcome all of the issues. I think I'll be a lot happier in the future, but you never know. --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | You don't know about the shit I go through |
| Chesh 09/19/21 9:31:20 AM #41 | ImAMarvel posted... But yes, I agree that love and sex are probably two of the most nourishing things that a person can experience, for a variety of different psychological and physiological reasons, and the vast majority of those who don't receive either probably aren't in the best mental state. People say they aren't necessary to live a happy, fulfilling life, but imagine a hypothetical situation where someone went their entire life without ever been given a hug from the opposite sex, let alone a kiss or sex. I'd imagine that person would be very sad, lonely, maybe angry and resentful and who could blame them? Ordinary people who have sex regularly frequently complain about going 3 months without it during a short dry spell. Now, if they'd only put themselves into the shoes of the people who've reached their 20's and 30's without it and that seems pretty trivial.I went 2 years without it from 2019 to 2021 and it was fine, I didn't care. Not everyone is the same, but I guess the people who don't feel as much of a "need" for this stuff aren't the ones who complain about it --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | What are the most surefire way to get a head in life? |
| Chesh 09/18/21 5:17:21 PM #18 | Erectum posted... Regardless, it's possible over time which was the fucking pint.I don't think it's a good "pint" if the millionaire status isn't even possible until like age 70, which by the way, $1 million won't even be very much money by then -- the average house might cost more than that --- We shall begin anew. |
| Topic | You don't know about the shit I go through |
| Chesh 09/18/21 5:14:02 PM #10 | I'm not sure if this is a troll, but it really doesn't matter that much. I can get sex but can't get anyone to be in a relationship with me, which sucks but that's life. Just focus on other things. --- We shall begin anew. |
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