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ClarkDuke posted...

are you doing alright, jazz?

Thank you for asking, Clark. Its been one rollercoaster of a week. The wife Im fucking husbands legal issues are beginning to mount up to the point where he has gone running off into hiding and hasnt been seen for the past several days. On top of the aforementioned issue, and unfortunately I cant go into too much detail due to multiple NDAs, it was discovered he made grossly offensive comments along the lines of grooming underage individuals towards a coworkers daughter at his Little Caesars job. It was quite appalling and Im not surprised he hasnt shown his face again after that, but his wife is in shambles. Its just a matter of time before he shows up black out drunk, belligerent, and defecating all over himself again, but Im helping the wife Im plowing move into a different apartment away from him. Those comments were really the last straw, and Im glad the child is going to be born away from him. Hope everything is going well for you too, Clark. Youve been a great inspiration through all of this, and Im truly thankful for your undying support during these very trying times.

ClarkDuke posted...

jazz, how are things going on your end, better i hope, ok?

Its been a pretty rough week so far, Clark, but thank you for asking. The girl Im plowing husband might be facing some legal trouble. Apparently hes being accused of stealing some type of skin from a lab that he use to work at. I dont know too many details but I do remember him drunkenly ramble about something from this lab giving him superpowers if he consumed it, so I think that there might be some merit to these accusations.

Other than that just hanging in there and doing what I can for this future child. Hope everything is going well with you, and Ill keep you updated.

ClarkDuke posted...

one puzzling detail, was on his release from the hospital, they mentioned he also showed notable signs of rectal trauma, ok?

Its funny that you mention that because the husband of the wife Im fucking has also shown some of these signs. He often spews rather homophobic nonsense, but Ive always felt hes been rather closeted. Him living a secret homosexual lifestyle would really make a lot of sense.

ClarkDuke posted...

jazz, that sounds simply unbearable, and you are a saint for standing by her in times where her husband is failing, ok?

Thank you, Clark. Honestly through everything you have been my inspiration to persevere. I know youre going through an extremely difficult situation and youre angelic approach to everything has been soul-stirring.

ClarkDuke posted...

so what occurred at dennys, i would imagine as long as he used plenty of salt hed have a job, ok?

unf I cant go into too much detail due to an NDA but his primary job was cracking the eggs used for omelets and he was caught using an unconventional method to do so. He liked clapping his cheeks with the eggs if you know what I mean.

ClarkDuke posted...

so does he have any plans to pay for his hospital bills, because i doubt he had insurance, ok?

Honestly I think his plan is to completely skip out on them. He refuses to get proper health insurance because he disagrees with his morbid obesity categorization but unfortunately hes just living in denial.

ClarkDuke posted...

and what are the odds, the girl i impregnated, her husband was also found heavily intoxicated, bottomless and dehydrated behind a failing pizza place, ok?

Its absolutely crazy, Clark how many of these people are running around out there. Just goes to show how prevalent drug and alcohol abuse is in our society.

ClarkDuke posted...

thank you for the kind words jazz, sadly he was recently hospitalized due to his chronic drinking and unchecked diabetic issues, ok?

Anytime, Clark. With the whole situation youre going through youve gone above and beyond what most people would do when dealing with a scumbag of a husband like this. Sorry to hear about his hospitalization but that really is the chronic plight of someone as unhealthy as him.

My girl that Im fucking husband just got fired from his Dennys job and went on a complete bender. Passed out behind some dumpy pizza place and got sent to the hospital. Thankfully didnt get arrested but now got shes got a huge hospital bill from him. Unfortunately since his BMI puts him in the morbidly obese category, its been difficult to get good health insurance for him. Just feel bad for her having to deal with this so late in her pregnancy.

Took the guys wife out for Mothers Day brunch because he was passed out from staying up all night drinking. Went to this incredibly fancy restaurant, and really wanted to treat her to a nice meal with everything she has been going through. Well apparently he found out and became infuriated that she would dare eat out at a nice restaurant. He has this delusion that he is some type of great chef, but the guy cant even make a bowl of cereal. So when I dropped her off apparently he had two burnt to a crisp chuck eye steaks covered in ketchup and A1 sauce that he demanded that she eat. Just really sad that he had to ruin her first Mothers Day with his abusive behavior.

ClarkDuke posted...

first let me say, per usual i am impressed by you. you are a true gentleman, taking on the familial responsibilities from a man, who will not step up, ok?

his wife is blessed to have your passion and support by her side in a time of need, ok?

Thank you so much, Clark. Its been tough in these trying times, but I keep pushing through to help her and our unborn child because I know he will just continue to drag her down.

ClarkDuke posted...

thank you for your kind words, but he again refused getting the assistance. along with swearing up and down he was fine, despite having gone a full week without a shower and reeking of urine, vomit and cheap alcohol.

Anytime, Clark. You really have been a saint through this entire ordeal and deserve to be acknowledged for the amazing person that you are. Its incredibly frustrating to see someone continue to spiral out of control due to their addiction and paranoia. Hang in there and just continue to push for him to go to rehab, but definitely get that paternity test.

Got a lot of paranoid posters here that are really reaching with some of their theories. No point in responding to their trollish posts because its been said several times this topic isnt about anyone on this site.

Anyways just getting back from vacation and boy was the last day I mess. Her husband got ridiculously drunk the last day at the park and ended up shitting himself on one of the rides. Ended up being a huge mess and they both got kicked out because he started getting belligerent and smearing stuff everywhere. I just feel so bad that she had to put up with that and be embarrassed by him once again.

ClarkDuke posted...

he hasnt responded yet, but we can only hope he agrees to rehabilitation and can make some positive steps forward, ok?

Sometimes people just have to hit rock bottom before they start pulling themselves out. I just want to commend you for how honorable it is that you continue to stick by her side through all this. Plus with how youve been trying to get him help, even though he refuses, is tremendous and speaks so much of your character. Truly a class act. One day when/if he sobers up, I think he will finally thank you for everything that you have done.

ClarkDuke posted...

too true, i wanted to help him. but sadly, i was reminded you cant help someone who isnt open to accepting it, ok?

still i offered to pay for his rehabilitation, if he makes a sincere gesture to better his life, ok?

my lawyer has written up a contract for him, otherwise theres a high risk he will end up trying to cash out and spending the money on cheap ipas, ok?

You are wise beyond your years, Clark, and absolutely right. Unfortunately when dealing with someone like chronic alcoholic you have to protect yourself and your loved ones from their spontaneous violent outburst. Hopefully hes able to realize he needs to enter rehab and get the help he desperately needs.

ClarkDuke posted...

aside from her husband passing out in public, it sounds like the two of you will have plenty of opportunities for fun activities, ok?

and I have to say, she is fortunate to have someone reliable and stable, such as yourself to lean on, ok?

so where are the three of you vacationing?

Its been quite an interesting vacation. Weve made love several times while hes been passed out, but unfortunately I cant go into too much detail. His alcoholism has made him extremely paranoid and unfortunately that has resulted in her wanting non disclosure acts signed in order to protect herself from his abuse. All Im allowed to say is we are visiting some theme park areas and the whole experience has been magical.

ClarkDuke posted...

life is going to be even more difficult for her around the end of the month, as shes going to have him served with the papers, ok?

one can only presume his behavior will grow noticeably more unstable for everyone he interacts with, ok?

Definitely for the best, Clark. As his alcohol induced psychosis continues to worsen, its best for your child not to be in that situation.

Im currently on vacation with the girl Im seeing and her husband, but he doesnt know it. She wanted me to tag along so when he passes our drunk in the middle of the day she has someone to spend time with. Its been a really nice trip so far I will have to say.

Clark, I just want to say that you are a saint for going through everything that you have been with this women and her sorry excuse for a husband. Being there for her as both her lover and her emotional rock while shes dealing with an abusive alcoholic really has to means a lot to her.

ClarkDuke posted...

well, it seems her husband was heavily intoxicated and celebrating some holiday yesterday, the poor thing, ok?

Funny thing is that the girl Im seeing husband must have been celebrating the same weird holiday. Went over to her house last night to find him passed out on the couch surround by beer bottles and a greasy slice of pizza resting on his fat hairy belly. Thats a pretty regular occurrence for him but it looked like he hit the bottle extra hard last night.

ClarkDuke posted...

wow, i normally refrain from saying something so critical, but his life sounds like a pathetic farce, ok?

and who was he trying to impress with these outlandish machinations, was it himself or his wife?

No need to feel bad for being critical, Clark, because you are absolutely right. His life really is a joke. I think he just lies to himself to try and escape how much of a failure he really is.

ClarkDuke posted...

thank you so much for the support, jazz. i just want our baby to have an honest chance at a normal life with a father figure they can look up too, ok?

one where they dont have to worry if their father drowned in his own vomit while in school, ok?

Youre going to be a great father, Clark. That child is lucky to have you in his life. The guy Ive been cucking has several health issues due to his chronic alcoholism as well as type two diabetes from his incredibly unhealthy eating habits. On top of sucking down a 12 pack of IPAs a night, apparently he likes to chug milkshakes and eat these cheap artisanal pizzas that look worse than Totinos all day everyday. Really sad how hes destroying his body.

ClarkDuke posted...

i feel bad for her, but her husband has amassed a rather large sum of money in obvious scams like, reputation defender, as seen on television, ok?

The girl Ive been seeings husband use to be a sleazy insurance salesman. Apparently he use to make outrageous claims like how he was going to be making over $100k a year. He ended up hardly making anything and just blowing all his money on booze. Really sad.

ClarkDuke posted...

ive told her she must proceed with getting a divorce so she can avoid taking on anymore of his debt. she also needs to pretend everything is copacetic, as shes concerned he might have one of his regular violent outbursts, ok?

Youre doing the right thing, Clark. Thats got to be a scary situation for her, but shes got to be strong and escape that abusive relationship.

ClarkDuke posted...

shes sending me some really provocative nude pictures, ok?

Her husband is probably too busy getting drunk and wasting time on the internet to give her attention. At least you are there for her, Clark.

In my current situation, I believe the married women Ive been seeing has actually been seeing a lot of different guys and not just me. I guess shes been screwing around on him even before their marriage with numerous individuals and has even mentioned group sex parties without her husband. Im a pretty open minded guy, so Im just going to let her do her thing but definitely getting that paternity test.

ClarkDuke posted...

you could be right, hes seen me naked and i felt extremely uncomfortable, ok?

Ive read somewhere that often in cuckold relationships, the guy getting cucked often forms a sexual attraction to the bull. Seems like this is happening in your case. I would assume its because youre everything that he wishes to be.

ClarkDuke posted...

it does, but he's under a bizarre belief that this entire topic is all about him. until then, his arrogance will keep him from joining the rest of us in the rational world, ok?

His real life relationship with his wife must be terrible if he keeps assuming this topic is about him when hes been told repeatedly that it has nothing to do with him. Like this stuff must actually be happening to him to keep assuming.

UnknownNobody posted...

Adulterers are the worst people.

I think people who are controlling and abusive to their significant other are way worse than someone cheating in an attempt to escape an abusive and unhappy relationship.

ClarkDuke posted...

quick update for those interested, she's talking about leaving her husband if he doesn't sober up, ok?

Thats good to hear, Clark, and shes lucky to have someone like you in her life. Escaping an abusive alcoholic has to be hard for her, but its for the best not to have someone in the childs life who has no respect for women or themselves.

Revelation34 posted...

I'm not going to trust a "news" site that calls itself chinchilla.

I know youre often paranoid and a little clueless about some things so heres an article from Vice saying the same thing.
https://www.vice.com/en/article/bmpbm8/ipas-are-giving-you-man-boobs?utm_source=munchiesfbus

ClarkDuke posted...

first let me say, fantastic detective work jazz, simply amazing, ok?

while i hope her husband is capable of supporting our child, i feel like it's simply wishful thinking on my part, ok?

shockingly she's the current provider for their entire family, as his job pays him in ipa beer, an issue i feel should be illegal in the united states, ok?

Alcoholics unfortunately are rather selfish in their behavior and often are only concerned about getting their next fix. I know the guy whos wife Ive been seeing is far too gone, but I posted that article in hope that others here might read it and begin to realize what theyre doing to themselves. I know that there is a certain narcissistic alcoholic who posts here that could benefit from reading it and maybe begin to get the help that he needs.

ClarkDuke posted...

i wonder if it's addictive qualities are to blame for the rampant weight gain, and erectile problems many on the ipa scene face, ok?

You nailed it once again, Clark. Experts have stated that the constant over consumption of IPAs can lead to erectile dysfunction and man boobs.
https://www.chinchillanews.com.au/news/disturbing-side-effect-drinking-craft-beer/3221743/

The hoppy ales contain phytoestrogens, which are compounds that naturally occur in plants.
However they also contribute to man boobs and what's known as "brewer's droop." This refers to the erectile dysfunction many men experience after drinking too much.
In his 1998 book, Sacred and Herbal Healing Beers, herbalist Stephen Harrod Buhner notes that hops found in IPAs can lead to man boobs.
And they contribute to brewer's droop too: "[From] long-term exposure to the estrogenic properties of hops, [they] eventually have difficulty sustaining erection," Buhner says.

Pretty sad that a lot of these guys are drinking themselves to this state and are in complete denial about it.

ClarkDuke posted...

i wonder if there's a connection with the craft beer scene, ok?

I think youre absolutely right with that hypothesis, Clark. It cant just be a coincidence that a lot of individuals who do nothing but drink local IPAs are rather greasy and have terrible back acne.

Wow that is actually really similar to the tattoo of the guy who I cucked. He got drunk and had his tattoo artist play connect the dots with his back acne.

Glad the mods are cracking down on Sunnys abusive behavior and warned him again. After reading through this topic it really makes me feel bad for his wife. Do what makes you feel happy Jen.

wwinterj25 posted...

This topic said nothing about your wife Sunny.

It really goes to show how narcissistic and self centered he can be. Clark and I were just sharing some very personal things going on in our lives that has absolutely nothing to do with him, and then he tries to make it all about himself. Maybe its his own insecurities in his relationship that drive this type of behavior, but its sad to see someone who is nearly 50 years old act this way.

ClarkDuke posted...

like you, i will surely try to be the best father i can, ok?

but i am sure it's mine, as her husband has long since been impotent due to alcoholism. sadly our situations being so similar, exemplifies the sad fact that most antivaxxer's neglect their spouses needs over their own addictions, ok?

You are absolutely right, like always, Clark. Definitely highlights the selfishness and egotistical behavior a lot of these anti vaxxers project. I know that she wants to get the child vaccinated, but this guy wants complete control over not just her body but also the unborn child who has no say in the matter. Thankfully we already talked this over and going to have the child vaccinated despite him.

ClarkDuke posted...

thank you so much jazz, and i wish only the best for you and your coming child.

but wow, what a stressful situation, though you're such a giving individual that it isn't surprising you would wish to be there to protect her and the child, ok?

Thank you, Clark. I know youre going to be an amazing dad yourself if the child ends up being yours.

I just felt like I had to be there for her even with how stressful the situation was. He was creating a scene while stinking like he just swam in a pool of IPAs. Also think theres some abuse going on at least on the mental side. Very controlling and believes in a lot of anti vaxx and anti mask rhetoric. Going to hang in there though and do what I can for this child.

Good luck, Clark. Im actually in a similar situation myself and havent been able to post as much. Actually just got back from the ultrasound and it was a pretty crazy situation. Apparently she lied to her husband that he wasnt allowed in for the appointment, but wanted me to be there. I had to sneak in while this guy was making a huge scene and stomping around outside the medical building. The guy reeked like alcohol so Im not surprised she didnt want him there but stressful stuff.

You can always tell when Sunny has been drinking. I feel bad for his wife having to live with a greasy abusive alcoholic like that.

The only thing I remember Melon saying about his wife was that she was Asian. No idea where hes pulling the pornstar thing from. Not too surprised hes making stuff up when hes already been showed lying and making false transphobic comments in just this topic.

All I know is when Im hungry, horny, and in Philly, I know where to go.

Wow. So Ohhhja is trying to pretend he isnt natemac while also making transphobic comments and trying to insult both Clark and Kana? What a fucking clown.

Thats always scary, Clark. Hope Chandler is still doing alright and hopefully you dont get it too. On the positive at least youre in good physical shape to take on the virus unlike that one really fat poster here who pretends hes immune to the coronavirus.

He called out the mods for defending our resident alt-righter and they silenced him. Honestly Im disgusted by the whole turn of events.

ClarkDuke posted...

agreed, i was recently moderated for calling zeus out. yet i received no response, it's really sad.

the degree of cowardice coming from the mods as of late, well is simply a troubling sign for the entirety of this site.

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You always have the most well thought out moderation disputes and hit the nail right on the head with everything you said. If they dont overturn that moderation, then it really says a lot about this site.

JigsawTDC posted...

Lol, this is obviously racist. Can't wait to see how some of our professional spinsters paint it the other way though!

@Aaantlion

Thats a well shaved scrotum I tell you what. God speed, Schmen.

ClarkDuke posted...

i hate to say it, but i wholeheartedly agree. especially after seeing smt, talk about preparing to join a militia, in the election topic, ok?

Its pretty scary. The amount of delusion some of these posters here have make them a ticking time bomb thats just waiting to blow. Wouldnt be surprised if some of them are already on watchlists.

All I know is Im glad I blocked Sunny so I dont have to see his hateful and abusive posts.

Wouldnt be surprised if some of these guys are joining up with some right wing militias. They just cant accept that their savior Trump legitimately lost and are going crazy.

Metalsonic66 posted...

I have a butterfly tramp stamp

Theres this fat greasy guy who posted here whos back pimples looked like a dick tattoo. I forgot about him because I blocked him awhile ago but that dude was gross.

Aculo posted...

he's supposed to use the money to live off of, but since he lives with his parents, and they pay for all of his living expenses, he uses it to pay for all his toys, ok?

Been going to work everyday during the pandemic to help him pay for his PS5. I just hope he says thank you.

AWinterJ posted...

True. It seems like he's a animal abuser too. I also fear for his dog.

That dog look legitimately scared in that photo he posted. Scary.

JigsawTDC posted...

Same. I never saw any domestic abuse posts or anything that would indicate it, and I also think most the posters leading the lynch mob against him are also odd in their own right. I get the concern over domestic abuse, but there's been no real claim of it by his wife that I can find. Until someone provides the posts by her, I'm pretty skeptical about any extreme claims made about him, especially from a certain lynch mob.

Did you ever consider that maybe she was forced to take down some of her social media posts?

Dodgers shit the bed that last inning.

Oh look its Sunny being aggressive and condescending towards a women. What a surprise.

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Whats really sad is how Sunny is using an alt to get around being blocked by several people. Instead of apologizing to us, his wife, and promising to seek help, he doubles down on his alcohol fueled reality and pretends hes the victim. Im just praying I dont see any pictures of bruises on my Facebook feed this morning.

Revelation34 posted...

Nobody posted it on here so there's nothing to search for.

Nobody has posted it because we are trying to protect her and her privacy. Its no coincidence that some of her social media posts about this issue come after Sunny has a meltdown on this board. His aggression has gotten out of control lately here and Im afraid of whats happening at home.

Aculo posted...

so after much consideration, i've decided to block sunny, finally. it was all good and fun, until the situation with him mistreating his wife started becoming more and more clear. i always like a good laugh, and playful ribbing, but this has just gone entirely too far, ok?

it was fun, and good natured until it wasn't, and now i legit feel for her safety. i sincerely hope sunny can get the help he needs. until then, i can't contribute to the pain and suffering of someone who doesn't even post on this board, ok?

Very well said, and I absolutely agree that Sunny has crossed the line with his abusive behavior. I come to this board to relax and talk about games and a variety of things with other people, but having an abusive alcoholic just being allowed to spread his negativity and homophobia here really takes the fun out of this board. Ive tried to help Sunny multiple times, but its become rather clear that he doesnt want the help he desperately needs. Sometimes for people like him they have to hit rock bottom before possibly getting better. I just hope his rock bottom isnt the death of an innocent women.

AWinterJ posted...

Looks as scared as your wife. If you know you know, if you don't then don't be worried about it.

The dog does look scared and possibly has been abused. Given his violent history, Im praying this isnt the case.

SunWuKung420 posted...

That's the best you can do. Isn't that the food you prefer, jazzy? That shitty garbage tier food.

Nah. Thats why I wouldnt eat your food. I do like stuffing a good pierogie though.

Everyday he reminds me more and more of Trump. The alcohol abuse definitely plays a huge role in a lot of this but that absolutely shouldnt excuse his constant homophobic remarks towards you TC. Hopefully he sobers up and apologizes to you.

Youre the same tier chef as someone working at Dennys and Dominos.

wwinterj25 posted...

You mean like I lied about you right? Yet you've provided no evidence of this or said how I've lied. I really hope you're telling the truth about your wife man because I can not stand abusers.

To Sunny, everyone else is a liar but him. When faced with the reality he has created, he likes to pretend it doesnt exist and everyone else is just making stuff up. Dissociation due to alcohol and substance abuse is a real thing, as we can see, and hopefully he gets help one day. I know Ill be rooting for him when he finally checks into rehab.