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J03can posted...

I called a few lawyers on friday and left messages. I hope i will hear from at least one of them on monday. As for the house, we will be selling it, neither of us could afford to buy it out from the other, or continue to make payments on our own.
Right now it looks like i will stay in the house, she will rent someplace and we will both continue to pay for both until we put the house on the market. We live in a very sought after neighborhood so we will make a consiserable amount of money off the house which we will split down the middle (hopefully)

Ok, I believe that will will work out for the best, for both of you. Definitely get that legal counsel, so you can at least get some good, legitimate advice from people who deal with these situations all the time. From my experience, don't be intimidated and do not put this off. Talk to a lawyer as soon as you can. Don't think of it as giving up on the marriage either. Maybe your relationship will mend itself over time, but at least you will be approaching it with a level-headed view and not setting yourself up for extra harm. Things are already rough enough as it is.

Good luck, dude.

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