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TopicWhat's the worst thing a significant other has said/done to you?
EnvyFox
10/11/18 12:21:21 AM
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Being cheated on takes the cake for me personally. One of my then-girlfriend's friends felt really sorry for me and let me know about what was going on behind my back. Only pleasure I got out of that was confronting her while she was out with the other guy, finding out that other guy had no idea she was already with someone and having us both dump her right then and there in public. Oh she tried to say sorry and "it won't happen again I promise!" Yeah you bet your ass it won't happen again because I wasn't going to give her the opportunity.

So yeah that felt kind of good but, ultimately, she was the true winner. Being cheated on damaged me. Left me with some pretty huge trust issues (y'know... on top of the ones I already had) and, to this day, I'm hesitant to date people because "what if it happens again?" and all that. The whole situation also left me feeling like the biggest idiot and that lead to a period where I was taking my anger out on anyone who was just trying to help which lead to me losing a couple of good friends (and I don't blame them one bit for wanting nothing to do with me after the things I said). Meanwhile, she's probably long moved on by now. Maybe has a new guy to cheat on and make look like a fool. I doubt she even remembers my name.

In my eyes, cheaters are some of the most disgusting people on the planet. Right down there with murderers, rapists, child abusers and telemarketers. This, of course, doesn't extend to people in open relationships. If you two agreed to sleep with other people than while together then that's all good.
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