Board 8 > Update on my girlfriend's pregnancy

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Mershaaay
07/27/11 9:29:00 AM
#1:


Went to the doctor, who checked her out. Based on her current medical conditions, the doctor said that she won't be able to carry the child without undergoing excruciating pain for 9 months-- and the pain is already begun. To put it in perspective, when she tried using an IUD she was incapacitated for 2 weeks and had to go to the ER to have it removed. A baby is a lot bigger than an IUD.

So I am taking her for the abortion on Friday. I still feel horrible about this whole situation, and I am thinking that I don't deserve to ever be a father, but the fact that this is medically necessary (or at least, medically advised) is helping me sleep better at night-- maybe not better, but in the very least I am not thinking about killing myself anymore.


Oh, and my aunt has about a year to live.

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PrivateBiscuit1
07/27/11 9:31:00 AM
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Mershaaay posted...
but in the very least I am not thinking about killing myself anymore.

wut?

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ExThaNemesis
07/27/11 9:32:00 AM
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From: PrivateBiscuit1 | #002
Mershaaay posted...
but in the very least I am not thinking about killing myself anymore.

wut?


He's very anti-abortion so the thought of having his child aborted is tearing him up pretty good.

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GaryOak151
07/27/11 9:33:00 AM
#4:


Shouldn't have been having unmarried sex/should have used a condom.

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PrivateBiscuit1
07/27/11 9:34:00 AM
#5:


No, I get that.

But really? Suicide over it? Come on now.

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_MSS_
07/27/11 9:37:00 AM
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It's not that good of a situation to be in Sephy.

I know we are basically enemies, but I had to get my girlfriend one a few months ago. Was not proud of it. The important thing you need to do is be there for your girl and take the lumps on your own. If you are scared, she is at least 1000 times more scared and needs you more than ever.

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facepaImer
07/27/11 9:39:00 AM
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goddamn it sephg

nobody deserves all these kinds of things happening to them at the same time

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Mershaaay
07/27/11 9:40:00 AM
#8:


GaryOak151 posted...
Shouldn't have been having unmarried sex/should have used a condom.

We were too drunk to care, then she refused Plan B the next day

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GaryOak151
07/27/11 9:42:00 AM
#9:


Don't date pro-life women

problem solved

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ExThaNemesis
07/27/11 9:43:00 AM
#10:


some republican you are

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facepaImer
07/27/11 9:44:00 AM
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though if she didn't have the condition that made sex and pregnancy extremely painful you guys would keep the child correct?

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Liquid Wind
07/27/11 9:45:00 AM
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GaryOak151 posted...
Shouldn't have been having unmarried sex/should have used a condom.
ExThaNemesis posted...
some republican you are
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TimJab
07/27/11 9:49:00 AM
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Why would you consider killing yourself 6 months before the Jets win the Super Bowl and achieve 19-0?

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Vlado
07/27/11 9:50:00 AM
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Best of luck, man!

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SlymDayspring
07/27/11 9:56:00 AM
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I am disappointed to hear this update.

The part about you changing your mind, I mean.

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Mershaaay
07/27/11 9:57:00 AM
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facepaImer posted...
though if she didn't have the condition that made sex and pregnancy extremely painful you guys would keep the child correct?

I wanted to, but she didn't. And as much as I am opposed to abortion, it's not like I can force her not to have one. So I settled on just being there for her through this process.

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Mershaaay
07/27/11 9:58:00 AM
#17:


ExThaNemesis posted...
some republican you are

I may be conservative, but I am totally pro-premarital sex!

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SBell0105
07/27/11 10:10:00 AM
#18:


From: Mershaaay | #008
We were too drunk to care, then she refused Plan B the next day




and clearly god is punishing you for your irresponsibility.

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Mershaaay
07/27/11 10:22:00 AM
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SBell
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Thank you for filling your niche

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Theon_Greyjoy
07/27/11 10:35:00 AM
#20:


Topic doesn't make sense coming from mer.

I thought mer was a virgin.

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Jeff Zero
07/27/11 10:36:00 AM
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Theon_Greyjoy posted...
Topic doesn't make sense coming from mer.

I thought mer was a virgin.


It isn't mer.

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Biolizard28
07/27/11 10:50:00 AM
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I don't understand why you have no issues with Plan B but are vehemently against abortion.

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SBell0105
07/27/11 10:55:00 AM
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From: Biolizard28 | #022
I don't understand why you have no issues with Plan B but are vehemently against abortion.




duhh, you have a 24 hour grace period before glob of cells = LIFE

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Theon_Greyjoy
07/27/11 10:56:00 AM
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Biolizard28 posted...
I don't understand why you have no issues with Plan B but are vehemently against abortion.

Plan B prevents the pregnancy from happening in the first place.

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foolm0ron
07/27/11 11:01:00 AM
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I was going to make a post that would have unquestionably led to a ban concerning sephyg not thinking about killing himself anymore, but I resisted.

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Biolizard28
07/27/11 11:02:00 AM
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SBell0105 posted...
duhh, you have a 24 hour grace period before glob of cells = LIFE

Cells are life.

They're the smallest division of life.

I don't really see the difference.

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PrivateBiscuit1
07/27/11 11:03:00 AM
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Bio is as good at biology as I am at hating black people.

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Biolizard28
07/27/11 11:03:00 AM
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So very good at it?

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Mershaaay
07/27/11 11:10:00 AM
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Biolizard28 posted...
I don't understand why you have no issues with Plan B but are vehemently against abortion.

Because Plan B prevents conception ie life

If I consider what happens before Plan B life, then I might as well shed a tear everytime I use a condom.

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Biolizard28
07/27/11 11:10:00 AM
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PrivateBiscuit1
07/27/11 11:12:00 AM
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Bio pulling an Ulti. lolz

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Mershaaay
07/27/11 11:13:00 AM
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Mershaaay posted...
Biolizard28 posted...
I don't understand why you have no issues with Plan B but are vehemently against abortion.

Because Plan B prevents conception ie life

If I consider what happens before Plan B life, then I might as well shed a tear everytime I use a condom.


or every time a girl has her period

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BIGPUN9999
07/27/11 11:13:00 AM
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"lol"

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ExThaNemesis
07/27/11 11:19:00 AM
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From: Mershaaay | #019
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for reference, the first post was me, the second post was Swift.

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Mershaaay
07/27/11 11:25:00 AM
#36:


UltimaterializerX posted...
I'm really disappointed people are trolling such a serious topic. Grow up, the lot of you children.

And yeah, if her health is in danger then I can agree with the decision. It's obviously not something you guys reached lightly, and sorry to hear about your aunt :(


This board seriously needs more people like Ulti-- users who can goof off in less serious topics / obvious troll topics, but who can be really kind and respectful when the time is right.



I'll still never be able to forgive myself for doing this-- because her life isn't actually in danger per se. But no situation is black and white, and I am feeling better knowing that we aren't doing this out of purely self-serving aims.

Hopefully whatever karma I just earned will transfer to my aunt's health.

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foolm0ron
07/27/11 11:32:00 AM
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From: Mershaaay | #032
or every time a girl has her period


Or every hour or so if you include every time bio "spills his seed"

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Liquid Wind
07/27/11 11:44:00 AM
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UltimaterializerX posted...
I'm really disappointed people are trolling such a serious topic. Grow up, the lot of you children.

this coming from the dude that trolled the topic about 70 something people being gunned down -_-
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SlymDayspring
07/27/11 11:48:00 AM
#39:


jesus christ your girlfriend got pregnant because you did something foolish and you are getting an abortion, do you really expect anyone to feel sorry for you for that? takes some responsibility.

she deserves our pity for having such a crappy boyfriend who probably makes her feel like an awful person by disapproving of her decision to get an abortion. you go around talking about how "hur im an ivy league grad with the best life ever" and then you expect everyone to not only not laugh, but feel sorry for you? get real. man up, do what needs to be done.

the most pathetic part of all is that you literally said you can only talk about this with the board. that, i think, shows just how sad of a person you are.

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Vlado
07/27/11 11:50:00 AM
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Cyclo, I don't think it's humanly possible for a worse post to be made. Good job, man.

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SBell0105
07/27/11 11:57:00 AM
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Cyclo, being too drunk to care about putting on a condom is more than foolish. It's downright irresponsible and stupid.

Other than that I fully agree with your post.

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edwardsdv
07/27/11 11:57:00 AM
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for some reason i thought this was a rusty alt and was confused.

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PurpleMonkDish
07/27/11 11:58:00 AM
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While I don't agree with your political views, you have my best wishes in this matter. My prayers are also with your aunt.

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Vlado
07/27/11 12:03:00 PM
#44:


PurpleMonkDish posted...
While I don't agree with your political views, you have my best wishes in this matter. My prayers are also with your aunt.

See, this is what a normal person who doesn't like SephirothG's activities here should say.

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Theon_Greyjoy
07/27/11 12:04:00 PM
#45:


wow lots of fail getting thrown around in this topic.

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edwardsdv
07/27/11 12:09:00 PM
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anyway, while id have beeen shocked anf felt legitimately terrible for rusty, this still knda sucks.

enjoy your aunt while you can and try not to be so bitter about this that you drive your girl away.

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ExThaNemesis
07/27/11 12:11:00 PM
#48:


do you guys really think sephy should've expected sympathy from Cyclo? really?

Anyways my condolences about your aunt, but I just don't see abortion as that big of a deal so I don't feel like it should bother you as much as it seems to be. You'll get through it.

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LOLContests
07/27/11 12:14:00 PM
#49:


While I don't agree with the harshness of what cyclo is saying, SephG has said pretty nasty things to cyclo, and I've never seen anyone speak up and call out SephG (or maybe it was sess) for what they are saying. Either you guys are hypocrites or homophobes.


Not that I can ever believe anything that SephG says is true anyway since he trolls so much. "The Boy who Cried Wolf" so to speak.

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Theon_Greyjoy
07/27/11 12:16:00 PM
#50:


I'm pretty sure SephG's "lol i'm an ivy league grad and better than all of you" is a fake internet persona. Sort of like I doubt Ulti really looks down on everyone as much as he pretends to.

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