Current Events > my mom is apparently taking me to get a pedicure. my brother: what is he, a girl

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Well! I'm sorry to hear it didn't go so well though :(

I hope she comes around.
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Congrats KM, that must have taken some serious guts. Hope she just needs some time to think about it and will fully support you.
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Did you get an impression as to whether shell be positive about it when she realizes youre serious?

Hopefully youre glad to have gotten it off your chest and get to revisit it soon.
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Maybe if you werent such a smartass, she would have believed you.
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southcoast09 posted...

Maybe if you werent such a smartass, she would have believed you.

what

0AbsoluteZero0 posted...

Did you get an impression as to whether shell be positive about it when she realizes youre serious?

Hopefully youre glad to have gotten it off your chest and get to revisit it soon.

she basically just said she doesnt believe me and explained why
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i came out to her as trans and she didnt believe me
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Kaname_Madoka posted...

she basically just said she doesnt believe me and explained why

What she say?

That is, if you don't mind sharing. Don't have to if would rather not!
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@southcoast09 literally trolling a kid who just worked up the courage to come out as trans to their mom. Stay classy, lolcoast
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Funkydog posted...

Kaname_Madoka posted...

she basically just said she doesnt believe me and explained why

What she say?

That is, if you don't mind sharing. Don't have to if would rather not!

im masculine and stuff idk
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0AbsoluteZero0 posted...

@southcoast09 literally trolling a kid who just worked up the courage to come out as trans to his mom. Stay classy, lolcoast

I just dont comprehend how you could make that transition without your parents... noticing. There are surgeries involved with the process. Nobodys trolling anybody.
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i havent physically transitioned
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Aww man. Well, it might just be something that takes a while anyways. My parents didn't actually believe me when they first found proof the first time either. Just give it a bit, but you can probably slip stuff out and maybe convince her indirectly when directly didn't work.
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hair highlights, most make up is fine but pedicures stepping way out of line, thats red lipstick levels of not manly.

FluttershyPony posted...

hair highlights, most make up is fine but pedicures stepping way out of line, thats red lipstick levels of not manly.

dont worry because i have red lipstick
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Sylph posted...

Aww man. Well, it might just be something that takes a while anyways. My parents didn't actually believe me when they first found proof the first time either. Just give it a bit, but you can probably slip stuff out and maybe convince her indirectly when directly didn't work.

ok
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TC is a welcher.
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southcoast09 posted...

0AbsoluteZero0 posted...

southcoast09 literally trolling a kid who just worked up the courage to come out as trans to his mom. Stay classy, lolcoast

I just dont comprehend how you could make that transition without your parents... noticing. There are surgeries involved with the process. Nobodys trolling anybody.

I don't think you really understood what tc was saying
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Kaname_Madoka posted...

i havent physically transitioned

On the next exciting episode of Dragon Ball Z...

@OrangeCrush980 posted...

TC is a welcher.

i came out to her, shut the fuck up

TheGrindery posted...

Kaname_Madoka posted...

i havent physically transitioned

On the next exciting episode of Dragon Ball Z...

AND THIS IS TO GO EVEN FURTHER BEYOND
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its snowing outside

i hope it sticks

i dont want to go to school :P
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broke: im trans
woke: wow i wish i was trans so i could become a girl, sadly im not trans so i cant become a girl
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so apparently that fucking madoka psychology project i spent hours working on wont be presented in class

fucking hell
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i tore off the shitty capsule corp logo i super glued on to my future trunks cosplay jacket

its comfy, warm and looks great
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Sorry your mom shut you down, but it's hard to mentally accept something like this right off the bat. Don't try to beat her over the head with it, just be yourself and hopefully she'll get it eventually
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yeah thats the plan
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is she on the phone telling all of your relatives yet
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probably not

i mean shes fine with me wearing lipstick
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my friend apparently thinks my face looks like cardi b
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she probably just thought you were gay tbqh

your kid telling your they're the opposite gender would be kinda hard to believe unless you went to like counseling or got tested for dysmorphia (can you even test for that? honest question)
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WizardPowers posted...

she probably just thought you were gay tbqh

your kid telling your they're the opposite gender would be kinda hard to believe unless you went to like counseling or got tested for dysmorphia (can you even test for that? honest question)

yeah i think so
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so i had a package come in the mail while i was gone

it was my skirt i ordered

my mom thought it was for her so she opened it by mistake

shes completely cool with me having it. she even gave me advice about womens sizes and said she thinks it may be too big for me

so shes fine with me being a sissy but not a girl apparently

but fr tho that was cool of her
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Okay I know I'm pretty weird.

So I know what I'm saying when I say your mom is weird.
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i dont blame her

clothing gender is arbitrary and im pretty manly

watch dbz. play baseball. work out. like to fish. listen to rap.
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Kaname_Madoka posted...

so i had a package come in the mail while i was gone

it was my skirt i ordered

my mom thought it was for her so she opened it by mistake

shes completely cool with me having it. she even gave me advice about womens sizes and said she thinks it may be too big for me

so shes fine with me being a sissy but not a girl apparently

but fr tho that was cool of her

To be honest, this is probably her way of reaching towards it in a way she can accept. As long as the ball keeps slowly inching towards it, one day she will probably just click it to the other way. She couldn't take the leap, but if you move it to be close it will just snap there one day. So basically, consider it progress.

Probably being more open with her would help in a general way. Ask her with help with various things. Ask her to show you things you are interested in learning. I would kill to have had a parental figure of any use to ask these things of, instead I've had to learn almost everything the hard way on my own.
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true. thanks sylph
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FluttershyPony posted...

hair highlights, most make up is fine but pedicures stepping way out of line, thats red lipstick levels of not manly.

You do realize that your name is that of a cartoon pony from a cartoon meant for pre-teen girls right?

Fucking nu-males
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im not a nu-male, though.
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Kaname_Madoka posted...

Girl, you thicker than a bowl of oatmeal
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That looks more like calf muscle. Probably fairly athletic in some way. There are alot of guys that actually find muscular calves sexy cause it means the girl works out and stays in shape.
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fire_bolt posted...

Kaname_Madoka posted...

Girl, you thicker than a bowl of oatmeal

Thanks UwU

Sylph posted...

That looks more like calf muscle. Probably fairly athletic in some way. There are alot of guys that actually find muscular calves sexy cause it means the girl works out and stays in shape.

I play baseball which I find gives that special juicy blend of fat and muscle
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I don't know how it bodes for me, but I am getting pretty into martial arts. We'll see how that turns me out, but I was always pretty toned, but surprisingly curvy as well. I've already noticed myself becoming all sorts of more flexible and coordinated since I started three months ago, and I can only imagine it improving.
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Sylph posted...

I don't know how it bodes for me, but I am getting pretty into martial arts. We'll see how that turns me out, but I was always pretty toned, but surprisingly curvy as well. I've already noticed myself becoming all sorts of more flexible and coordinated since I started three months ago, and I can only imagine it improving.

Oh yeah I also do karate

What kind are you doing
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A style called Wu Chan, which is a combination of basic Kung Fu moves, Baringin Sakti, Kali, and Wing Chun. I also take Thai Kickboxing from the same instructor, who teaches it as a separate but complementary discipline with its own belt system as well. Students can do either, or both systems. I happen to be doing both, and getting like 12-14 classes in a week, at about an hour a pop.
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Sounds really fun

Hopefully you enjoy it
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So far I have loved it. I go into class every day and feel like I am learning something new, and expanding what I can do. I'm not sure I've ever actually felt like that for so long in my life.
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Saving bump

Gonna wear eyeliner to school I think
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What is TC, a girl?
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OrangeCrush980 posted...

What is TC, a girl?

Yes, she is.
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