Poll of the Day > Girlfriend moved in with me, bur averages spending 3.3 days a week over.

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blu 07/18/18 10:41:31 PM #1:	Kinda bugs me. Goal was for her to not hang around her abusive home, her mom makes her sleep in the same bed as her. But, I now am in an apartment twice as big in my old one that she mostly furnished and am spending $200 less a month than the old place, which was already inexpensive. Feel like Im a bad person, as I really dont need the money and she does, but its also her choice. She believes shes spending 5-6 days a week here. Im paying 5/8th of total expenses. <cite>blu posted [p:905329613] in Girlfriend... [t:76820671]...</cite> <quote>Kinda bugs me. Goal was for her to not hang around her abusive home, her mom makes her sleep in the same bed as her. But, I now am in an apartment twice as big in my old one that she mostly furnished and am spending $200 less a month than the old place, which was already inexpensive. Feel like Im a bad person, as I really dont need the money and she does, but its also her choice. She believes shes spending 5-6 days a week here. Im paying 5/8th of total expenses.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kyuubi4269 07/18/18 10:52:43 PM #2:	Sounds like your girlfriend already has a girlfriend. --- Scloud posted... Its like he wants two things at the same time. <cite>Kyuubi4269 posted [p:905330112] in Girlfriend... [t:76820671]...</cite> <quote>Sounds like your girlfriend already has a girlfriend.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 07/18/18 10:54:20 PM #3:	I remember you were saying how her mom was trying to keep her away from you or something. Especially during the wedding, which was probably a couple months ago, by now... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:905330201] in Girlfriend... [t:76820671]...</cite> <quote>I remember you were saying how her mom was trying to keep her away from you or something. Especially during the wedding, which was probably a couple months ago, by now...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Greenfox111 07/18/18 11:21:09 PM #4:	blu posted... her mom makes her sleep in the same bed as her. Wowww ok thats weird as hell --- Don't ask. <cite>Greenfox111 posted [p:905331368] in Girlfriend... [t:76820671]...</cite> <quote><cite>blu posted...</cite> <quote> her mom makes her sleep in the same bed as her. </quote> Wowww ok thats weird as hell</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SirPikachu 07/18/18 11:23:06 PM #5:	Wait, I'm confused, the bigger place is $200 LESS? And what part of the money do you feel bad about? And I also read this as "Garfield moved in with me" a couple times and was confused by that too --- 3DS FC: 4656 9282 1616 Everyone call me elf monster <cite>SirPikachu posted [p:905331460] in Girlfriend... [t:76820671]...</cite> <quote>Wait, I'm confused, the bigger place is $200 LESS? And what part of the money do you feel bad about? And I also read this as "Garfield moved in with me" a couple times and was confused by that too</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 07/18/18 11:31:59 PM #6:	Your GF moved in but doesn't live with you on most days? I don't think you know what moved in means. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:905331816] in Girlfriend... [t:76820671]...</cite> <quote>Your GF moved in but doesn't live with you on most days? I don't think you know what moved in means.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
blu 07/19/18 7:43:52 PM #7:	SirPikachu posted... Wait, I'm confused, the bigger place is $200 LESS? And what part of the money do you feel bad about? And I also read this as "Garfield moved in with me" a couple times and was confused by that too Because shes paying for 3/8th of the expenses. wwinterj25 posted... Your GF moved in but doesn't live with you on most days? I don't think you know what moved in means. I know what moved in means. She just doesnt. I tell her she is only living here on paper. I mean, the purpose of moving in was to escape her mom. She just feels bad leaving the narcissist, which will cause me to leave her in like a year (Im leaving the state in a year). Ive mentioned it already that I cant deal with her being as strong of a people pleaser as she is (or less nicely a doormat). Too many canceled events for silly reasons. <cite>blu posted [p:905379798] in Girlfriend... [t:76820671]...</cite> <quote><cite>SirPikachu posted...</cite> <quote>Wait, I'm confused, the bigger place is $200 LESS? And what part of the money do you feel bad about? And I also read this as "Garfield moved in with me" a couple times and was confused by that too</quote> Because shes paying for 3/8th of the expenses. <cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>Your GF moved in but doesn't live with you on most days? I don't think you know what moved in means.</quote> I know what moved in means. She just doesnt. I tell her she is only living here on paper. I mean, the purpose of moving in was to escape her mom. She just feels bad leaving the narcissist, which will cause me to leave her in like a year (Im leaving the state in a year). Ive mentioned it already that I cant deal with her being as strong of a people pleaser as she is (or less nicely a doormat). Too many canceled events for silly reasons.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blighboy 07/19/18 7:45:31 PM #8:	btw blu isn't real --- https://imgur.com/ymuEJsp <cite>Blighboy posted [p:905379891] in Girlfriend... [t:76820671]...</cite> <quote>btw blu isn't real</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
green dragon 07/19/18 7:57:30 PM #9:	Greenfox111 posted... blu posted... her mom makes her sleep in the same bed as her. Wowww ok thats weird as hell Or really hot Tc should ask to join in <cite>green dragon posted [p:905380582] in Girlfriend... [t:76820671]...</cite> <quote><cite>Greenfox111 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>blu posted...</cite> <quote> her mom makes her sleep in the same bed as her. </quote> Wowww ok thats weird as hell</quote> Or really hot Tc should ask to join in</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Moonjay 07/19/18 8:01:57 PM #10:	Greenfox111 posted... blu posted... her mom makes her sleep in the same bed as her. Wowww ok thats weird as hell I slept in the same bed with my mom until I was a teenager. There was no money for another bed. When I finally got a bed, it was still in the same room as my mom. It sucked. blu posted... SirPikachu posted... Wait, I'm confused, the bigger place is $200 LESS? And what part of the money do you feel bad about? And I also read this as "Garfield moved in with me" a couple times and was confused by that too Because shes paying for 3/8th of the expenses. wwinterj25 posted... Your GF moved in but doesn't live with you on most days? I don't think you know what moved in means. I know what moved in means. She just doesnt. I tell her she is only living here on paper. I mean, the purpose of moving in was to escape her mom. She just feels bad leaving the narcissist, which will cause me to leave her in like a year (Im leaving the state in a year). Ive mentioned it already that I cant deal with her being as strong of a people pleaser as she is (or less nicely a doormat). Too many canceled events for silly reasons. It's definitely the best choice to break up with someone who isn't ready to break up with or at least set strong boundaries with a narcissist parent. The inherent problems involved are endless. --- `Twas brillig, and the slithy toves did gyre and gimble in the wabe; All mimsy were the borogoves, and the mome raths outgrabe. <cite>Moonjay posted [p:905380789] in Girlfriend... [t:76820671]...</cite> <quote><cite>Greenfox111 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>blu posted...</cite> <quote> her mom makes her sleep in the same bed as her. </quote> Wowww ok thats weird as hell</quote> I slept in the same bed with my mom until I was a teenager. There was no money for another bed. When I finally got a bed, it was still in the same room as my mom. It sucked. <cite>blu posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SirPikachu posted...</cite> <quote>Wait, I'm confused, the bigger place is $200 LESS? And what part of the money do you feel bad about? And I also read this as "Garfield moved in with me" a couple times and was confused by that too</quote> Because shes paying for 3/8th of the expenses. <cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>Your GF moved in but doesn't live with you on most days? I don't think you know what moved in means.</quote> I know what moved in means. She just doesnt. I tell her she is only living here on paper. I mean, the purpose of moving in was to escape her mom. She just feels bad leaving the narcissist, which will cause me to leave her in like a year (Im leaving the state in a year). Ive mentioned it already that I cant deal with her being as strong of a people pleaser as she is (or less nicely a doormat). Too many canceled events for silly reasons.</quote> It's definitely the best choice to break up with someone who isn't ready to break up with or at least set strong boundaries with a narcissist parent. The inherent problems involved are endless.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PuddingBoy 07/19/18 8:03:38 PM #11:	Blighboy posted... btw blu isn't real Yup Might as well give it away when yo udon't respond to this: LinkPizza posted... I remember you were saying how her mom was trying to keep her away from you or something. Especially during the wedding, which was probably a couple months ago, by now... --- 3DS Friend Code: 3308-5843-0863 Town: Virginia <cite>PuddingBoy posted [p:905380876] in Girlfriend... [t:76820671]...</cite> <quote><cite>Blighboy posted...</cite> <quote>btw blu isn't real</quote> Yup Might as well give it away when yo udon't respond to this: <cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>I remember you were saying how her mom was trying to keep her away from you or something. Especially during the wedding, which was probably a couple months ago, by now...</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FridayHorse 07/24/18 7:34:58 PM #12:	You did??? --- What cowboy? https://imgur.com/NHC3zEx <cite>FridayHorse posted [p:905661305] in Girlfriend... [t:76820671]...</cite> <quote>You did???</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kyuubi4269 07/24/18 7:37:30 PM #13:	Moonjay posted... It's definitely the best choice to break up with someone who isn't ready to break up with or at least set strong boundaries with a narcissist parent. It's also best not to marry them, yet here we are. --- Scloud posted... Its like he wants two things at the same time. <cite>Kyuubi4269 posted [p:905661443] in Girlfriend... [t:76820671]...</cite> <quote><cite>Moonjay posted...</cite> <quote>It's definitely the best choice to break up with someone who isn't ready to break up with or at least set strong boundaries with a narcissist parent. </quote> It's also best not to marry them, yet here we are.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RoboXgp89 07/24/18 7:39:43 PM #14:	when you marry someone they move out of their parents house <cite>RoboXgp89 posted [p:905661558] in Girlfriend... [t:76820671]...</cite> <quote>when you marry someone they move out of their parents house</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
blu 07/27/18 5:27:24 PM #15:	LinkPizza posted... I remember you were saying how her mom was trying to keep her away from you or something. Especially during the wedding, which was probably a couple months ago, by now... People have issues with me not responding to this. But yeah, her sister was getting married and her mom wanted my gf to be around for every little thing, include pajama shopping and would make a big deal out of it. She missed pajama shopping to hang out with me and her mom made her cry and come home. <cite>blu posted [p:905826095] in Girlfriend... [t:76820671]...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>I remember you were saying how her mom was trying to keep her away from you or something. Especially during the wedding, which was probably a couple months ago, by now...</quote> People have issues with me not responding to this. But yeah, her sister was getting married and her mom wanted my gf to be around for every little thing, include pajama shopping and would make a big deal out of it. She missed pajama shopping to hang out with me and her mom made her cry and come home.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nichtcrawler X 07/27/18 5:29:37 PM #16:	RoboXgp89 posted... when you marry someone they move out of their parents house Sometimes yes, sometimes no. --- Official Teetotaller of PotD Dovie'andi se tovya sagain! <cite>Nichtcrawler X posted [p:905826204] in Girlfriend... [t:76820671]...</cite> <quote><cite>RoboXgp89 posted...</cite> <quote>when you marry someone they move out of their parents house</quote> Sometimes yes, sometimes no.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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