Poll of the Day > My friend told a woman, "fuck her and her ugly ass children."

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Kyuubi4269
07/19/18 5:40:18 PM
#52:


darkknight109 posted...
So basically you're saying that A is allowed to say something that B doesn't want to hear, but B isn't allowed to say something that A doesn't want to hear.

Go back through that slowly... you sure you don't see any logical inconsistencies in there somewhere? Not even a teeny tiny one?

See above.

darkknight109 posted...
No, he got tossed for swearing at her and insulting her kids (who, it should be noted, did absolutely nothing to deserve that kind of treatment from a grown-ass man).

Now where did I condone that? Perhaps you need to go back through that carefully.

darkknight109 posted...
Right, "stand up for yourself" and "don't swear in public like a troglodyte" are horrible lessons to teach kids. Goodness knows I want my kids to know that if they behave badly everyone will give them wide berth and not raise a whisper of objection.

The lesson taught was if you go bothering strangers on their morals, even if you're right, you'll both not solve the problem and get insults hurled your way. Is it really so hard to just leave people alone?

darkknight109 posted...
Random aside, but you're not one of those people who thinks the kids of this generation are being too spoiled and mollycoddled, are you?

They are, and every generation proceeding does as laws get tighter and tighter and people grow less and less tolerant.

darkknight109 posted...
Also, apparently "be nice to people" and "make the world a better place" are SJW things now. Damn this PC culture, amirite? Everyone should do their best to make people miserable and tell it like it is-

Nah, turning everything in to black and white and attacking strawmen like the brave paladin you are. Live and let live man, ain't no one else's shit your business.

kangolcone posted...
How soft of a person are you when her phrase starting with "excuse me" counts as "chastising"?

Politeness is often used as a guise to mask inappropriate action, in this case bothering a stranger over petty stupid shit instead of focusing on dealing with her own life.
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Kyuubi4269
07/19/18 5:47:27 PM
#53:


_AdjI_ posted...
Sure she was. You don't have to know somebody personally to have a better grasp of manners than they do.

You do have to be in a position of authority to modify another's behaviour. Being a fucking stranger, she was in no position to demand anything of him and had no reason to believe she held such authority. It is appropriate to challenge a stranger who thinks they're above you.

Bugmeat posted...
Maybe she should have just ignored him. But that doesn't even matter. All she said was "excuse me, there are children around you" his reaction was to tell her to fuck off and insult her kids. That's how trashy people behave. Seriously low class.

So? He overreacted but she gave something to legitimately react to. Everybody's wrong but at the very least he was right to respond, which certainly suits the criteria for the poll.
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OhhhJa
07/19/18 5:49:07 PM
#54:


Kyuubi4269 posted...
So? He overreacted but she gave something to legitimately react to. Everybody's wrong but at the very least he was right to respond, which certainly suits the criteria for the poll.

He reacted like a wannabe badass teenager regardless. He should be embarrassed
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jerky_666
07/19/18 5:55:08 PM
#55:


Your friend was absolutely in the wrong.

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InfestedAdam
07/19/18 5:55:24 PM
#56:


No for the first outburst, yes to the second. Some of us curse without thinking so I wouldn't fault said friend for the first outburst but he coulda just ignored that women instead of reacting to her statement.
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Super_Thug44
07/19/18 6:06:30 PM
#57:


Bugmeat posted...
That sort of response from your friend was completely out of line. He sounds like a real shit bag.

Maybe she should have just ignored him. But that doesn't even matter. All she said was "excuse me, there are children around you" his reaction was to tell her to fuck off and insult her kids. That's how trashy people behave. Seriously low class. Anyone that feels his response was appropriate falls into that same category.

Her comment deserved nothing more than an eye roll or a dismissive "whatever".


this is all that needs to be said in this topic. if people are seriously saying it's okay for a random person to say "fuck your ugly kids" in front of said kids when they didn't even do anything, they're literal trash.
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wwinterj25
07/19/18 6:15:52 PM
#58:


Super_Thug44 posted...
this is all that needs to be said in this topic. if people are seriously saying it's okay for a random person to say "fuck your ugly kids" in front of said kids when they didn't even do anything, they're literal trash.


However it's perfectly find for the kid to see it's parents get into a argument in a store. The fact of the matter is if the woman said nothing then this whole thing could be avoided. Does she say this to everyone everytime little Jimmy hear swearing? Doubtful.
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Super_Thug44
07/19/18 6:26:16 PM
#59:


wwinterj25 posted...
Super_Thug44 posted...
this is all that needs to be said in this topic. if people are seriously saying it's okay for a random person to say "fuck your ugly kids" in front of said kids when they didn't even do anything, they're literal trash.


However it's perfectly find for the kid to see it's parents get into a argument in a store. The fact of the matter is if the woman said nothing then this whole thing could be avoided. Does she say this to everyone everytime little Jimmy hear swearing? Doubtful.


lol if you think a lady saying something while walking past (not even directly confronting the guy) without being rude is getting into an argument you're a dolt
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wwinterj25
07/19/18 6:30:30 PM
#60:


Super_Thug44 posted...
lol if you think a lady saying something while walking past (not even directly confronting the guy) without being rude is getting into an argument you're a dolt


What she said while walking past started said argument and she continued it. As I said if she kept her gob shut it wouldn't have happened. You say something to someone and funny enough they will say something back in most cases. Even more so when said person is in pain. I'd have though someone with the username Super Thug would understand that.
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Super_Thug44
07/19/18 6:40:34 PM
#61:


wwinterj25 posted...
What she said while walking past started said argument and she continued it.


again what argument? how is anything of what she said enough to trigger someone to lash out like that? No one is really defending the mom for what she said, but the friend's response was completely unwarranted.
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Kyuubi4269
07/19/18 6:40:35 PM
#62:


Super_Thug44 posted...
(not even directly confronting the guy)

It was said directly to him confronting his conduct. Do you even English?
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Super_Thug44
07/19/18 6:41:58 PM
#63:


Kyuubi4269 posted...
Super_Thug44 posted...
(not even directly confronting the guy)

It was said directly to him confronting his conduct. Do you even English?


walking past someone and saying something without stopping is directly confronting someone now? lmao do you people go outside?
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Kyuubi4269
07/19/18 6:43:05 PM
#64:


Super_Thug44 posted...
but the friend's response was completely unwarranted.

lolno. She made a comment against him on behalf of her children so he made a remark stating no fucks given to her or her children, the response was warranted, it just wasn't appropriate.
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Kyuubi4269
07/19/18 6:45:20 PM
#65:


Super_Thug44 posted...
walking past someone and saying something without stopping is directly confronting someone now? lmao do you people go outside?

confront
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verb

face up to and deal with (a problem or difficulty).
"we knew we couldn't ignore the race issue and decided we'd confront it head on"


Talk shit, get shit.
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wwinterj25
07/19/18 6:52:12 PM
#66:


Super_Thug44 posted...
again what argument?


SonnerAnarchy posted...
The husband got involved, long story short, it escalated and we got kicked out of the store


If there was no argument why would the husband get involved?

Super_Thug44 posted...
how is anything of what she said enough to trigger someone to lash out like that?


The guy was in pain and irritated no doubt. She made matters worse for no reason other than "think of the children!".

Super_Thug44 posted...
No one is really defending the mom for what she said, but the friend's response was completely unwarranted.


At the end of the day if you stick your nose where it doesn't belong you deserve any response you get. She brought her kids into the situation. A situation that was none of her business.
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Super_Thug44
07/19/18 7:01:35 PM
#67:


wwinterj25 posted...
If there was no argument why would the husband get involved?


lmao yeah AFTER the friend said "fuck your kids" jesus christ. after that I don't think any parent would keep their cool. the mom didn't start an argument with the friend

wwinterj25 posted...
At the end of the day if you stick your nose where it doesn't belong you deserve any response you get. She brought her kids into the situation. A situation that was none of her business.


she didn't bring her kids into the situation. this was just him and her. she could have kept her mouth shut, but she didn't say anything grossly inappropriate. however, the friend escalated and took it to another level.

i don't know why i'm surprised by how low the social intelligence on this board is.
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InhumaneRaider
07/19/18 7:01:50 PM
#68:


This woman literally tried to police the friend's language, after he made a simple offhand comment. It's not like he was cursing up a storm, all he said was, "aw fuck", in reaction to his back being strained. That's pretty normal.

Her confronting him over that language is her literally being confrontational. She was looking for an argument. Who is she to put someone in check? No one is arguing that the friend's response was appropriate, however, she should've expected some reaction. I hate when parents try to tell me to watch my language, like, who are you?
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InhumaneRaider
07/19/18 7:02:43 PM
#69:


Super_Thug44 posted...
wwinterj25 posted...
If there was no argument why would the husband get involved?


lmao yeah AFTER the friend said "fuck your kids" jesus christ. after that I don't think any parent would keep their cool. the mom didn't start an argument with the friend

wwinterj25 posted...
At the end of the day if you stick your nose where it doesn't belong you deserve any response you get. She brought her kids into the situation. A situation that was none of her business.


she didn't bring her kids into the situation. this was just him and her. she could have kept her mouth shut, but she didn't say anything grossly inappropriate. however, the friend escalated and took it to another level.

i don't know why i'm surprised by how low the social intelligence on this board is.


"Excuse me, there are children around you..."

Are you not even trying...? How can you have a name like "Super_Thug" and then act so sensitive.
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Super_Thug44
07/19/18 7:03:45 PM
#70:


InhumaneRaider posted...
Super_Thug44 posted...
wwinterj25 posted...
If there was no argument why would the husband get involved?


lmao yeah AFTER the friend said "fuck your kids" jesus christ. after that I don't think any parent would keep their cool. the mom didn't start an argument with the friend

wwinterj25 posted...
At the end of the day if you stick your nose where it doesn't belong you deserve any response you get. She brought her kids into the situation. A situation that was none of her business.


she didn't bring her kids into the situation. this was just him and her. she could have kept her mouth shut, but she didn't say anything grossly inappropriate. however, the friend escalated and took it to another level.

i don't know why i'm surprised by how low the social intelligence on this board is.


"Excuse me, there are children around you..."

Are you not even trying...?


so because she mentions them they get to be insulted like that? jesus christ you people are psycho
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InhumaneRaider
07/19/18 7:04:47 PM
#71:


Super_Thug44 posted...
InhumaneRaider posted...
Super_Thug44 posted...
wwinterj25 posted...
If there was no argument why would the husband get involved?


lmao yeah AFTER the friend said "fuck your kids" jesus christ. after that I don't think any parent would keep their cool. the mom didn't start an argument with the friend

wwinterj25 posted...
At the end of the day if you stick your nose where it doesn't belong you deserve any response you get. She brought her kids into the situation. A situation that was none of her business.


she didn't bring her kids into the situation. this was just him and her. she could have kept her mouth shut, but she didn't say anything grossly inappropriate. however, the friend escalated and took it to another level.

i don't know why i'm surprised by how low the social intelligence on this board is.


"Excuse me, there are children around you..."

Are you not even trying...?


so because she mentions them they get to be insulted like that? jesus christ you people are psycho

I never said it was appropiate, however, why risk someone snapping on you like that for trying to police their language, when all she had to do was shut up and tell her child to not use that sort of language.
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wwinterj25
07/19/18 7:24:08 PM
#72:


Super_Thug44 posted...
lmao yeah AFTER the friend said "fuck your kids" jesus christ. after that I don't think any parent would keep their cool. the mom didn't start an argument with the friend


So there was a argument. A argument that started due to her comment. Glad that's sorted.

Super_Thug44 posted...
she didn't bring her kids into the situation


Actually she did as she said to not swear because children are present. Had she had not said anything about her children the guy would not have said "fuck your kids".

Super_Thug44 posted...
i don't know why i'm surprised by how low the social intelligence on this board is.


I don't know why you think you can make comments towards someone and not get a retaliation.
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PuddingBoy
07/19/18 8:54:10 PM
#73:


Super_Thug44 posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
Super_Thug44 posted...
(not even directly confronting the guy)

It was said directly to him confronting his conduct. Do you even English?


walking past someone and saying something without stopping is directly confronting someone now? lmao do you people go outside?

They don't.
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darkknight109
07/20/18 12:07:22 AM
#74:


GenericGuy posted...
_AdjI_ posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
darkknight109 posted...
Yes, he was wrong.

Generally it's considered bad manners to swear around kids (yes, even in a public space). All she was asking for was for him to mind his manners and he followed it up with an insult.

She was in no position to challenge his behaviour as a stranger.


Sure she was. You don't have to know somebody personally to have a better grasp of manners than they do.

Imagine being this much of a white knight.

How far humanity has fallen...

"How far humanity has fallen"? Really?

You don't know how swearing used to be treated, do you? Here, I'll give you an idea - when he was a young man my grandfather used to haul off and punch people if they had the audacity to swear in front of women or children, and that response was considered completely acceptable, if a bit heavy-handed. Back then, swears were literal "fighting words" and using them in public was an open invitation for a beating.
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darkknight109
07/20/18 12:25:04 AM
#75:


Kyuubi4269 posted...
The lesson taught was if you go bothering strangers on their morals, even if you're right, you'll both not solve the problem and get insults hurled your way. Is it really so hard to just leave people alone?

Kyuubi4269 posted...
They are, and every generation proceeding does as laws get tighter and tighter and people grow less and less tolerant.

So if I square these two statements, you're basically saying that kids are spoiled and less tolerant of dissent and therefore we should teach them that bad behaviour is not challenged in the adult world and they are free to say and do what they please?

Because that's one fucked up lesson right there.

Kyuubi4269 posted...
Live and let live man, ain't no one else's shit your business.

True in private, not in public.

I mean, if I cut in front of you in line at the market, you have good reason to call me an asshole and take me to task for my behaviour. I may not have done anything to physically harm you, nor have I broken any laws, but I'm still behaving badly and most people would recognize that and respond, not roll over and take it.

Kyuubi4269 posted...
You do have to be in a position of authority to modify another's behaviour. Being a fucking stranger, she was in no position to demand anything of him and had no reason to believe she held such authority.

She didn't "demand" anything; all she said was "Excuse me, there are children here." That's, at most, a polite request for him to change his language. If she'd demanded he apologize to her and her kids, I could understand the hostility (though attacking the kids, who did nothing, is still being a raging jackass), but that was not the language she used.

wwinterj25 posted...
The guy was in pain and irritated no doubt.

My uncle quit smoking a few years ago and, like most addicts going through withdrawl, was crankier than a sleep-deprived grizzly; he wound up going to a bar, said the wrong thing to the wrong people, and got a black eye for his troubles. In the months after that happened, he looked back on the whole ordeal (and the bar incident in particular) as rather enlightening. He was fond of saying afterwards, "No one knows the shit you're going through and much less do they care."

No one is responsible for your bad day except you. You are not owed any preferential treatment or consideration because something shitty has happened to you. Yeah, the guy's back was strained and he was in pain... and maybe the mother hadn't got any sleep last night because one of her kids was up all night puking. Doesn't make a difference - at the end of the day, don't be an asshole and we'll all be better off.
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InhumaneRaider
07/20/18 12:53:18 AM
#76:


darkknight109 posted...
GenericGuy posted...
_AdjI_ posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
darkknight109 posted...
Yes, he was wrong.

Generally it's considered bad manners to swear around kids (yes, even in a public space). All she was asking for was for him to mind his manners and he followed it up with an insult.

She was in no position to challenge his behaviour as a stranger.


Sure she was. You don't have to know somebody personally to have a better grasp of manners than they do.

Imagine being this much of a white knight.

How far humanity has fallen...

"How far humanity has fallen"? Really?

You don't know how swearing used to be treated, do you? Here, I'll give you an idea - when he was a young man my grandfather used to haul off and punch people if they had the audacity to swear in front of women or children, and that response was considered completely acceptable, if a bit heavy-handed. Back then, swears were literal "fighting words" and using them in public was an open invitation for a beating.

LMAO, Jesus fucking christ, all the friend did was say, "aw fuck" in response to his back being strained, if she had kept her mouth shut and later told her kids, "that language is not acceptable", it'd never have escalated.

He just strained his back, couple that with some random ass stranger telling you to, "mind your language," I'd tell her off as well. Fuck off with that, "back in the day", bullshit. If your granddad was punching people for using swear words, he's the one with the problem.
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Rad_Chad
07/20/18 12:56:15 AM
#77:


if the kids are ugly they are ugly. it isnt his fault. i know a couple with kids who look like fucking neanderthals from a natural history museum or something. fucking HIDEOUS. if it was them, fair
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wwinterj25
07/20/18 1:02:58 AM
#78:


darkknight109 posted...
at the end of the day, don't be an asshole and we'll all be better off.


I agree. The mum sticking her nose in where it wasn't wanted was arsehole move. She deserved all she got after that.
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BADoglick
07/20/18 1:27:12 AM
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I'm going to side with your friend here.
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darkknight109
07/20/18 2:49:04 AM
#80:


InhumaneRaider posted...
He just strained his back, couple that with some random ass stranger telling you to, "mind your language," I'd tell her off as well.

Except she didn't say that.

She just said there were children present.

Which is about as mild a "rebuke" as I can think of.

InhumaneRaider posted...
Fuck off with that, "back in the day", bullshit. If your granddad was punching people for using swear words, he's the one with the problem.

Take it up with GenericGuy, he's the one who was talking about "how humanity is falling". The only reason I brought up that point at all was as a reminder of what exactly "the glory days" actually looked like.

wwinterj25 posted...
I agree. The mum sticking her nose in where it wasn't wanted was arsehole move. She deserved all she got after that.

And the kids? What exactly did they do that warranted getting shouted at by a grown-ass man with anger issues?
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Kyuubi4269
07/20/18 3:00:00 AM
#81:


darkknight109 posted...
Except she didn't say that.

She just said there were children present.

Which is about as mild a "rebuke" as I can think of.

lol wording doesn't matter, intent does. She intended to police a stranger's language and he didn't appreciate her thinking she has any right to police him.
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OhhhJa
07/20/18 3:09:13 AM
#82:


Kyuubi4269 posted...
darkknight109 posted...
Except she didn't say that.

She just said there were children present.

Which is about as mild a "rebuke" as I can think of.

lol wording doesn't matter, intent does. She intended to police a stranger's language and he didn't appreciate her thinking she has any right to police him.

You also have total control over how angry some dumb trivial shit like that makes you. You're an idiot if you cause a scene because a lady tells you not to swear in front of her kids
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Golden Road
07/20/18 4:15:17 AM
#83:


Do you curse in front of your boss? Nieces and nephews? The police? Most people tend to be pretty good at not cursing at certain times, and realize that sometimes it's less appropriate than other times. Your friend is probably good at it, too, but doesn't see Target as a place he needs to restrain himself.
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InhumaneRaider
07/20/18 4:19:44 AM
#84:


Golden Road posted...
Do you curse in front of your boss? Nieces and nephews? The police? Most people tend to be pretty good at not cursing at certain times, and realize that sometimes it's less appropriate than other times. Your friend is probably good at it, too, but doesn't see Target as a place he needs to restrain himself.

My thing is though, it was more of a reaction rather than just stating it plainly. Why didn't she just leave it alone?
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Zeus
07/20/18 4:28:17 AM
#85:


Kyuubi4269 posted...
darkknight109 posted...
Yes, he was wrong.

Generally it's considered bad manners to swear around kids (yes, even in a public space). All she was asking for was for him to mind his manners and he followed it up with an insult.

She was in no position to challenge his behaviour as a stranger.


Sure as shit she was, because the stranger was being a real fuckwit and she had to act the bitch to put him in his place.
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Kyuubi4269
07/20/18 4:42:40 AM
#86:


OhhhJa posted...
You also have total control over how angry some dumb trivial shit like that makes you.

That's not really how emotions work.

OhhhJa posted...
You're an idiot if you cause a scene because a lady tells you not to swear in front of her kids

She caused a scene by talking to him at all, so 1-1.

Golden Road posted...
Do you curse in front of your boss? Nieces and nephews? The police?

I have English and Irish blood so yes, I do swear in front of all of them and it's a non-issue.

Zeus posted...
Sure as shit she was, because the stranger was being a real fuckwit and she had to act the bitch to put him in his place.

Let me know how it goes when you call out a blood for talking shit.
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Super_Thug44
07/20/18 8:11:15 AM
#87:


it's truly astonishing how many people here think the man's words are justified because of a passing remark by a random lady with kids. Who in the world would actually think it's okay to yell at a woman (or man, sex doesn't really matter in this case) for something so trivial in front of her kids?

No one in this topic is saying the lady is right for speaking up. People like me are astounded that there are others who think it's okay for a grown-ass adult to lose his cool over something so petty and also make a scene enough to get kicked out. If I had said "shit" (which I occasionally do under my breath), but maybe said it a bit louder than normal to where a woman and her kids could hear, I'd feel kind of embarrassed. If said lady made the same comment to me I wouldn't be too happy about it either because yeah, it's not really a big deal. But I wouldn't berate her and insult her kids enough to get fucking kicked out a store.

Again, should this lady have spoken out? Probably not. But she did, and the opposing reaction was extremely unnecessary and overblown. There are good ways and bad ways for someone to handle a situation and be the bigger person. This dude did it the bad way and became the lesser person. That's literally all that needs to be said of this topic.
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Kyuubi4269
07/20/18 8:15:32 AM
#88:


Super_Thug44 posted...
People like me are astounded that there are others who think it's okay for a grown-ass adult to lose his cool over something so petty and also make a scene enough to get kicked out.

Nobody said it was okay, but it was expected. This may surprise you, but it doesn't matter if you're right or wrong morally, just don't cause trouble and don't be surprised if you get shit back when you do.
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kangolcone
07/20/18 8:16:25 AM
#89:


I also have English and Irish blood. I'm actually first generation on my Mother's side. I don't swear in front of those groups.

Don't blame your idiocy and poor upbringing on "your blood."
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kangolcone
07/20/18 8:17:51 AM
#90:


Kyuubi4269 posted...
Super_Thug44 posted...
People like me are astounded that there are others who think it's okay for a grown-ass adult to lose his cool over something so petty and also make a scene enough to get kicked out.

Nobody said it was okay, but it was expected. This may surprise you, but it doesn't matter if you're right or wrong morally, just don't cause trouble and don't be surprised if you get shit back when you do.


Cool man. You really stood up to that super intimidating *checks previous posts* suburban Mom.
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Xfma100
07/20/18 8:19:03 AM
#91:


How did the woman say those words?
Did she ask politely? Or did she say it in a rude manner?
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kangolcone
07/20/18 8:19:04 AM
#92:


Like seriously how little is going good in your life where you are proud of insulting kids and standing up to a Suburban Mom in a Target.
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Kyuubi4269
07/20/18 8:21:40 AM
#93:


kangolcone posted...
I also have English and Irish blood. I'm actually first generation on my Mother's side. I don't swear in front of those groups.

Don't blame your idiocy and poor upbringing on "your blood."

Firstly, if you're first generation English then you were the first of your mother's side to be born in England so blood isn't really there if that's what you actually meant.

Secondly, I am English and live in England, it is the culture, none of these people bat an eyelash at this. It's not "poor upbringing", it's part of the many nuances of being part of a social culture developed over thousands of years.
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kangolcone
07/20/18 8:25:27 AM
#94:


Kyuubi4269 posted...
kangolcone posted...
I also have English and Irish blood. I'm actually first generation on my Mother's side. I don't swear in front of those groups.

Don't blame your idiocy and poor upbringing on "your blood."

Firstly, if you're first generation English then you were the first of your mother's side to be born in England so blood isn't really there if that's what you actually meant.

Secondly, I am English and live in England, it is the culture, none of these people bat an eyelash at this. It's not "poor upbringing", it's part of the many nuances of being part of a social culture developed over thousands of years.


Nah. My Mom was born in England so was her entire family. My Father was the first of his family to be born outside of Ireland.

And having visited multiple times throughout the years to both countries, you're full of horse manure. You are clearly rude, entitled, and immature. Please don't slander two countries because you don't know how to properly behave in public.
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SonnerAnarchy
07/20/18 8:26:06 AM
#95:


Xfma100 posted...
How did the woman say those words?
Did she ask politely? Or did she say it in a rude manner?

It was...stern? Not polite but not rude. The excuse me part sounded rude.
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kangolcone
07/20/18 8:27:02 AM
#96:


SonnerAnarchy posted...
Xfma100 posted...
How did the woman say those words?
Did she ask politely? Or did she say it in a rude manner?

It was...stern? Not polite but not rude. The excuse me part sounded rude.


Awww. A suburban Mom hurt your little feelings and your super scary friend put her in her place.

Lmao. You are both such tools.
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InhumaneRaider
07/20/18 8:30:18 AM
#97:


kangolcone posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
kangolcone posted...
I also have English and Irish blood. I'm actually first generation on my Mother's side. I don't swear in front of those groups.

Don't blame your idiocy and poor upbringing on "your blood."

Firstly, if you're first generation English then you were the first of your mother's side to be born in England so blood isn't really there if that's what you actually meant.

Secondly, I am English and live in England, it is the culture, none of these people bat an eyelash at this. It's not "poor upbringing", it's part of the many nuances of being part of a social culture developed over thousands of years.


Nah. My Mom was born in England so was her entire family. My Father was the first of his family to be born outside of Ireland.

And having visited multiple times throughout the years to both countries, you're full of horse manure. You are clearly rude, entitled, and immature. Please don't slander two countries because you don't know how to properly behave in public.


LMAO, UK is rowdy as all hell. I know it's sort of a stupid comparison, but when you look at entertainment and the crowds that these specific entertainment events draw, I.e WWE, those crowds are far more toxic and rowdy than any US crowd. I mean hell, look at the stupid event KSI was just at, these people literally called someone's girlfriend, they've never met, a hoe.
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Kyuubi4269
07/20/18 8:30:53 AM
#98:


kangolcone posted...
having visited multiple times throughout the years to both countries, you're full of horse manure.

Oh you visited, have you? You must know our ways so well!

Look, bro. I work here, I talk to my family here, I've talked to police here, I know just a touch better than you how my family and my country reacts to swearing. There's even a guy here who visited recently who noted the casual use of swearing.

How can you even have the balls to say you're Irish when you doubt their swearing? gtfo.
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kangolcone
07/20/18 8:31:20 AM
#99:


InhumaneRaider posted...
kangolcone posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
kangolcone posted...
I also have English and Irish blood. I'm actually first generation on my Mother's side. I don't swear in front of those groups.

Don't blame your idiocy and poor upbringing on "your blood."

Firstly, if you're first generation English then you were the first of your mother's side to be born in England so blood isn't really there if that's what you actually meant.

Secondly, I am English and live in England, it is the culture, none of these people bat an eyelash at this. It's not "poor upbringing", it's part of the many nuances of being part of a social culture developed over thousands of years.


Nah. My Mom was born in England so was her entire family. My Father was the first of his family to be born outside of Ireland.

And having visited multiple times throughout the years to both countries, you're full of horse manure. You are clearly rude, entitled, and immature. Please don't slander two countries because you don't know how to properly behave in public.


LMAO, UK is rowdy as all hell. I know it's sort of a stupid comparison, but when you look at entertainment and the crowds that these specific entertainment events draw, I.e WWE, those crowds are far more toxic and rowdy than any US crowd. I mean hell, look at the stupid event KSI was just at, these people literally called someone's girlfriend, they've never met, a hoe.


Ahh yes the generally comparable atmosphere of the general public to a pro wrestling show.
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SonnerAnarchy
07/20/18 8:31:54 AM
#100:


kangolcone posted...
SonnerAnarchy posted...
Xfma100 posted...
How did the woman say those words?
Did she ask politely? Or did she say it in a rude manner?

It was...stern? Not polite but not rude. The excuse me part sounded rude.


Awww. A suburban Mom hurt your little feelings and your super scary friend put her in her place.

Lmao. You are both such tools.

Who said I was apart of it? I thought he was in the wrong. Throughout the entire confrontation, I just stayed out of it.
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kangolcone
07/20/18 8:32:14 AM
#101:


Kyuubi4269 posted...
kangolcone posted...
having visited multiple times throughout the years to both countries, you're full of horse manure.

Oh you visited, have you? You must know our ways so well!

Look, bro. I work here, I talk to my family here, I've talked to police here, I know just a touch better than you how my family and my country reacts to swearing. There's even a guy here who visited recently who noted the casual use of swearing.

How can you even have the balls to say you're Irish when you doubt their swearing? gtfo.


I didn't doubt their swearing. I doubt they feel the need to confront a suburban house wife with children to prove their masculinity.
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