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DarthAragorn
09/24/18 8:11:43 PM
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But then after that said if not this week then next week

I'm so confused
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V-E-G-Y-
09/24/18 8:12:33 PM
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Panthera
09/24/18 8:15:23 PM
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Maybe almost always means no fyi
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Flockaveli
09/24/18 8:16:04 PM
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Quick go out with someone else. It doesnt matter who just have a date on the night you were supposed to take her out.
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monkmith
09/24/18 8:16:32 PM
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ouch, i did that to a girl that asked me to prom in highschool... actually still feel bad about never giving her an answer...
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TboiGreezy
09/24/18 8:18:17 PM
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Bitch said maybe bro I dont even want to know your response to that

Better not be being a nice guy to this girl cuz she sees you as the guy who's always gonna be around.

You dont want to be that guy
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Turbam
09/24/18 8:19:00 PM
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Dab on that hoe
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Hayame Zero
09/24/18 8:19:47 PM
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Panthera posted...
Maybe almost always means no fyi

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Reiss
09/24/18 8:20:49 PM
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show up to her house with your dick in hand
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---Devin---
09/24/18 8:20:55 PM
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@TboiGreezy posted...
Bitch said maybe bro I dont even want to know your response to that

Better not be being a nice guy to this girl cuz she sees you as the guy who's always gonna be around.

You dont want to be that guy


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Lost_All_Senses
09/24/18 8:31:35 PM
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Maybe usually means "I need time to think about a strategic way to say no and get the least amount of resistance"
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DarthAragorn
09/24/18 8:32:16 PM
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I thought the same thing when she said maybe but then she said if not this week then next week, if she just wanted an easy no I feel like she wouldn't have said the last part

If it doesn't work out whatever I tried but like there's still some small chance right
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Lost_All_Senses
09/24/18 8:32:50 PM
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---Devin--- posted...
@TboiGreezy posted...
Bitch said maybe bro I dont even want to know your response to that

Better not be being a nice guy to this girl cuz she sees you as the guy who's always gonna be around.

You dont want to be that guy


my trigga. you a real one


A real one fakes being a nice guy just to serve his purpose? Mmmkay
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DrizztLink
09/24/18 8:32:51 PM
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rahasperj
09/24/18 8:33:13 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
Maybe usually means "I need time to think about a strategic way to say no and get the least amount of resistance"

^This. Wouldn't get my hopes up.
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Forlorn_Ass
09/24/18 8:33:16 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
Maybe usually means "I need time to think about a strategic way to say no and get the least amount of resistance"


Panthera posted...
Maybe almost always means no fyi

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DarthAragorn
09/24/18 8:36:22 PM
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Did anyone read past the topic title
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Reiss
09/24/18 8:36:47 PM
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DarthAragorn posted...
Did anyone read past the topic title

lol...
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rahasperj
09/24/18 9:05:31 PM
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DarthAragorn posted...
Did anyone read past the topic title

Yes, we all did.
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MabusIncarnate
09/24/18 9:06:38 PM
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Maybe is usually a no, but she thinks you are nice enough that she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, but still doesn't want to date you. At least in my experience.
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DezDroppedFreak
09/24/18 9:08:01 PM
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DarthAragorn posted...
Did anyone read past the topic title

Yeah

Still a no from me dawg
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alimajor
09/24/18 9:12:52 PM
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Maybe is always no bro
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DarthAragorn
09/24/18 9:13:22 PM
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Conflict posted...
DarthAragorn posted...
Did anyone read past the topic title


The problem is if she doesn't sound enthusiastic then she's bound to flake

"Maybe next week" is still a red flag

She didn't sound unenthusiastic. About the same as the rest of the conversation we had before I asked her
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wannabepranksta
09/24/18 9:17:32 PM
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You're asking the wrong people. Don't ask the videogame forum for advice. Chances are, they're all virgins trying to make sure you remain a virgin.
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CrestedTax
09/24/18 9:17:35 PM
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I'm afraid it looks like a no. You could still try because one never knows, but don't get your hopes up.
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Tmaster148
09/24/18 9:18:28 PM
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If it's not a confirmed yes, it's probably a no.
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Infinite 2003
09/24/18 9:18:34 PM
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Bruh. That's a no. Just accept it
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OffTempo
09/24/18 9:20:27 PM
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Clear no.

Go after another girl.
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alt_no_1_loves
09/24/18 9:25:16 PM
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Propose something good to do next week. If it works it works, doesn't it doesn't. Simple as that.
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Kaliesto
09/24/18 9:27:35 PM
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alt_no_1_loves posted...
Propose something good to do next week. If it works it works, doesn't it doesn't. Simple as that.


I 2nd that, if she still says no then move on to someone else.

Don't give her anymore attention, some women don't like that.
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TboiGreezy
09/24/18 9:28:21 PM
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wannabepranksta posted...
You're asking the wrong people. Don't ask the videogame forum for advice. Chances are, they're all virgins trying to make sure you remain a virgin.


Yeah no don't generalize.

Listen TC you'll be alot better off if you quit being such an optimist with these material bitches and see things for what they are

Let me give you some advice

Don't listen to what a girl says

Read her and watch how she acts.

Stand your ground women want a man not a boy.

Never put her first. Girls call me when I'm playing videogames complain that I'm more focused on the game. In this situation YOU would quit the game or play terrible to please her. What I do is focus on the game and tell whoever it was their choice to call while I was playing a game.

Be real. Be a man. Drop this.bitch right now don't piss me.off
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Kaliesto
09/24/18 9:31:58 PM
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For example I've been talking to a girl, and I've been noticing she has been not really responding back as of late (for whatever reason) or doesn't try to make the effort to text back once in a while. One person shouldn't have to do all the giving if the other person is just wasting your time as it takes two to tango.

Don't let someone waste your time, eventually she'll start to wonder why you never talk to her anymore and she may or may not try to get back to you.
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Cornmuffins
09/24/18 9:32:29 PM
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babynames.com
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bossjony
09/24/18 9:33:18 PM
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Pics
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MabusIncarnate
09/24/18 9:36:33 PM
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wannabepranksta posted...
You're asking the wrong people. Don't ask the videogame forum for advice. Chances are, they're all virgins trying to make sure you remain a virgin.

Eh, i'm married, dated a few dozen women before I settled down. I had a lot of friends growing up that dated also. I think most of the advice in this thread is accurate.
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EnragedSlith
09/24/18 9:39:14 PM
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Well I wound up dating a girl who said maybe, and found out from her later that she was confused because she didnt think I was single
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Kaliesto
09/24/18 9:42:47 PM
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EnragedSlith posted...
Well I wound up dating a girl who said maybe, and found out from her later that she was confused because she didnt think I was single


lol wtf.
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DarthAragorn
09/24/18 9:43:58 PM
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Well I'm going to be alone forever so thanks CE
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stoltenberg11
09/24/18 9:46:33 PM
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rip tc
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Panthera
09/24/18 9:51:05 PM
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DarthAragorn posted...
Conflict posted...
DarthAragorn posted...
Did anyone read past the topic title


The problem is if she doesn't sound enthusiastic then she's bound to flake

"Maybe next week" is still a red flag

She didn't sound unenthusiastic. About the same as the rest of the conversation we had before I asked her


What specifically did you ask her that she said maybe in response to? It's possible if you asked her about a specific time/place that she said maybe because she doesn't know if she can make it but would want to another time, but if she said maybe to the idea of going out with you at all she's probably not that interested. It's not a guarantee or anything, but don't get your hopes up.
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DarthAragorn
09/24/18 9:57:01 PM
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Panthera posted...
DarthAragorn posted...
Conflict posted...
DarthAragorn posted...
Did anyone read past the topic title


The problem is if she doesn't sound enthusiastic then she's bound to flake

"Maybe next week" is still a red flag

She didn't sound unenthusiastic. About the same as the rest of the conversation we had before I asked her


What specifically did you ask her that she said maybe in response to? It's possible if you asked her about a specific time/place that she said maybe because she doesn't know if she can make it but would want to another time, but if she said maybe to the idea of going out with you at all she's probably not that interested. It's not a guarantee or anything, but don't get your hopes up.

Asked if she wanted to get lunch sometime this week (I think I included the this week part) and she responded with maybe, if not this week then next, and she would let me know.

She just started a job so I don't know if she's leaving the building for lunch yet, and I know she's pretty busy this weekend as a whole since we talked about it today
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Panthera
09/24/18 10:10:36 PM
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That is a bit more promising than a typical maybe, I suppose
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DarthAragorn
09/24/18 10:11:48 PM
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There's also other complicating factors but yeah

IDK we'll see
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On_The_Edge
09/24/18 10:12:46 PM
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wtf its not a clear no dont listen to these people
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KlRBEH
09/24/18 10:13:45 PM
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What is there to be confused about?

She clearly doesn't want to go out on a date with you but on second thought she realized she wouldn't mind getting a free food from some poor sap when it's a convenient night for her.
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No_U_L7
09/24/18 10:13:58 PM
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DarthAragorn posted...
Panthera posted...
DarthAragorn posted...
Conflict posted...
DarthAragorn posted...
Did anyone read past the topic title


The problem is if she doesn't sound enthusiastic then she's bound to flake

"Maybe next week" is still a red flag

She didn't sound unenthusiastic. About the same as the rest of the conversation we had before I asked her


What specifically did you ask her that she said maybe in response to? It's possible if you asked her about a specific time/place that she said maybe because she doesn't know if she can make it but would want to another time, but if she said maybe to the idea of going out with you at all she's probably not that interested. It's not a guarantee or anything, but don't get your hopes up.

Asked if she wanted to get lunch sometime this week (I think I included the this week part) and she responded with maybe, if not this week then next, and she would let me know.

She just started a job so I don't know if she's leaving the building for lunch yet, and I know she's pretty busy this weekend as a whole since we talked about it today


Fyi lunch isn't clearly a date
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DarthAragorn
09/24/18 10:35:59 PM
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Huh that's weird it said there was a new post
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Admiral_Zero
09/24/18 10:52:04 PM
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Dont hold your breath.
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