Poll of the Day > What's the worst thing a significant other has said/done to you?

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MannerSaurus
10/10/18 11:50:30 AM
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Like, did they crush your soul? Or key your car? Or cheat on you?

My ex from manyyyyy years ago, (like 15 years ago, in fact it was the girl I lost my virginity to) was a few years older than me... and was extremely emotionally and physically abusive. I didn't know it at the time, because I was "in love" and thought it was normal. And for the physical abuse part, I get hard when a girl slaps or punches me. It wasn't until later that I came out of my tunnel vision and realized it wasn't right the way she treated me. I carried baggage from her in to a few relationships after, but I matured and grew much more healthy mentally and stable by the time I started dating my (now late) wife.

Just a few examples:

*I told her I might be dyslexic and I should take a test, and she said "You better, because I'm breaking up with you if you are because I don't want handicapped (the r-word) children."
*I yawned after sex and she made me sleep on the couch because that meant her "sex bored me."
*She demanded I get a job, so I got a job working the go-kart tracks nearby and she said "GOD, I'm dating a 16 year old that works at a Family park and I could be with a 20 year old construction worker."

Man. I'd still take a bullet for her, because I do love unconditionally, but I am so glad I got out of that hell, and I hope she has grown up and become a better person for whoever she is with now.
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Mead
10/10/18 11:54:25 AM
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I had this great pair of hamburger pajama bottoms and she threw them away
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TaKun782
10/10/18 12:15:35 PM
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Think that's messed up TC? Well then this one is a doozy. Ok, so way back in 2013 I fell in love with a guy over the internet. Our interests of course being into gear fetish and the like. Which is fine and all, and we both sounded like a match made perfectly. But however, things kind if didn't because he was already in a relationship with his boy friend too. But he says there is always room for one more to join in. And yes. Before you ask, this was going to be a poloymonry relationship three way. And so I thought, eh... give it a try or something. I went through about 10 months of that shit. Not in person but over online of trying to makeban attempt to know the other guy. Things didn't click and I seriously was just lying to myself thinking I could do anything like this... this, wasn't me...and I felt depressed about it all. So I sort of quitielty broke it off. That, was my first love experience too...
MannerSaurus
10/10/18 12:28:10 PM
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TaKun782 posted...
Think that's messed up TC? Well then this one is a doozy. Ok, so way back in 2013 I fell in love with a guy over the internet. Our interests of course being into gear fetish and the like. Which is fine and all, and we both sounded like a match made perfectly. But however, things kind if didn't because he was already in a relationship with his boy friend too. But he says there is always room for one more to join in. And yes. Before you ask, this was going to be a poloymonry relationship three way. And so I thought, eh... give it a try or something. I went through about 10 months of that shit. Not in person but over online of trying to makeban attempt to know the other guy. Things didn't click and I seriously was just lying to myself thinking I could do anything like this... this, wasn't me...and I felt depressed about it all. So I sort of quitielty broke it off. That, was my first love experience too...


Wow... I'm sorry, brother. That's rough.
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MannerSaurus
10/10/18 4:59:57 PM
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:O
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Blorfenburger
10/10/18 5:43:16 PM
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I was forced into an ultimatum to throw away a friend because she was a girl, close friend. But I was always faithful, nothing in this universe or the next would make me cheat. Didnt matter anyway since uh, it didnt last too long after that. Of course now I know it was for the best
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lihlih
10/10/18 5:53:56 PM
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My first girlfriend ever broke my heart multiple times(it was an off again, on again relationship, and every break up hurt me like the first one did), then she cheated on me the last time we were together.
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EvilMegas
10/10/18 6:04:12 PM
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I was stabbed in the chest by an ex. The wound wasn't that bad and we had sex after.
The same girl also burned me with a car cigarette lighter because "she was curious if it burned".

Man, that was a good relationship... I might text her tonight.
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MannerSaurus
10/10/18 6:13:56 PM
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EvilMegas posted...
I was stabbed in the chest by an ex. The wound wasn't that bad and we had sex after.
The same girl also burned me with a car cigarette lighter because "she was curious if it burned".

Man, that was a good relationship... I might text her tonight.


This is the hottest thing I've read today.
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Jen0125
10/10/18 6:43:46 PM
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Sexually assaulted me.
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Far-Queue
10/10/18 6:57:02 PM
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One time my wife forgot to buy milk when she went grocery shopping and I had to eat dry shredded wheat the next morning it was an absolute nightmare
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Jen0125
10/10/18 6:57:35 PM
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Far-Queue posted...
One time my wife forgot to buy milk when she went grocery shopping and I had to eat dry shredded wheat the next morning it was an absolute nightmare


I can't imagine how you're still married holy shit

Has your mouth even healed yet
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SunWuKung420
10/10/18 6:58:25 PM
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Ignored my posts on Facebook. Then had the gall to invite me to like her professional page! Ugh!
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Zangulus
10/10/18 7:06:36 PM
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She got angry when I ate the entire box of S'mores and she wanted to try them.
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MannerSaurus
10/10/18 7:10:15 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
Sexually assaulted me.


Jesus. That makes me so angry to read. I'm sorry, darlin'.
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JimCarrysToe
10/10/18 7:40:55 PM
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"Btw this is all a dream"

I woke up in tears.
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thedeerzord
10/10/18 7:42:24 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
Sexually assaulted me.

Would you be willing to elaborate on this?
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EvilMegas
10/10/18 7:44:49 PM
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thedeerzord posted...
Jen0125 posted...
Sexually assaulted me.

Would you be willing to elaborate on this?

Why? You weirdo.
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Nightengale
10/10/18 7:45:03 PM
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I dated a guy for seven months and then I found his tumblr where he was posting a ton of homophobic and transphobic stuff. Broke it off immediately but tbh Im still really hurt even though it was months ago.
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Doctor Foxx
10/10/18 7:45:36 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
Sexually assaulted me.

That's shitty

And my shitty answer too
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Jen0125
10/10/18 8:38:22 PM
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thedeerzord posted...
Jen0125 posted...
Sexually assaulted me.

Would you be willing to elaborate on this?


No.
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MannerSaurus
10/10/18 9:32:43 PM
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thedeerzord posted...
Jen0125 posted...
Sexually assaulted me.

Would you be willing to elaborate on this?


What the actual fuck, dude?
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captpackrat
10/10/18 10:27:12 PM
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Died
TheWorstPoster
10/10/18 10:28:36 PM
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Got pregnant and married the guy behind my back.

And she did not contact me for 3 months beforehand.
Far-Queue
10/10/18 11:05:07 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
Far-Queue posted...
One time my wife forgot to buy milk when she went grocery shopping and I had to eat dry shredded wheat the next morning it was an absolute nightmare


I can't imagine how you're still married holy shit

Has your mouth even healed yet

It's been a tough road, but me and my mouth are in a better place now.
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EnvyFox
10/11/18 12:21:21 AM
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Being cheated on takes the cake for me personally. One of my then-girlfriend's friends felt really sorry for me and let me know about what was going on behind my back. Only pleasure I got out of that was confronting her while she was out with the other guy, finding out that other guy had no idea she was already with someone and having us both dump her right then and there in public. Oh she tried to say sorry and "it won't happen again I promise!" Yeah you bet your ass it won't happen again because I wasn't going to give her the opportunity.

So yeah that felt kind of good but, ultimately, she was the true winner. Being cheated on damaged me. Left me with some pretty huge trust issues (y'know... on top of the ones I already had) and, to this day, I'm hesitant to date people because "what if it happens again?" and all that. The whole situation also left me feeling like the biggest idiot and that lead to a period where I was taking my anger out on anyone who was just trying to help which lead to me losing a couple of good friends (and I don't blame them one bit for wanting nothing to do with me after the things I said). Meanwhile, she's probably long moved on by now. Maybe has a new guy to cheat on and make look like a fool. I doubt she even remembers my name.

In my eyes, cheaters are some of the most disgusting people on the planet. Right down there with murderers, rapists, child abusers and telemarketers. This, of course, doesn't extend to people in open relationships. If you two agreed to sleep with other people than while together then that's all good.
MICHALECOLE
10/11/18 12:25:21 AM
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When my ex and I broke up she went to my house while I was at work and stole all my comics and magic cards and put my bowl (my pipe) in the kitty litter (right in the shit)

Fuckin bitch. She probably stole like 1,500$ worth of comics and cards. And that bowl was like a 60$ bowl.

Worth it though, never saw her again
wwinterj25
10/11/18 1:26:25 AM
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This topic makes me happy I've been single most my life tbh.

TaKun782 posted...
Think that's messed up TC? Well then this one is a doozy. Ok, so way back in 2013 I fell in love with a guy over the internet.


TheWorstPoster posted...
Got pregnant and married the guy behind my back.


Does internet "relationships" count? I mean I never count them because for me they never became a reality for one reason or another but if we are counting them I suppose this gal I was going to meet and had been "internet dating" for several months decided to fuck some random guy in real life and lie to me claiming she didn't. The guy however blown the whistle on a online chat and she then phoned me to explain things. Of course that was the last time I bothered with her and she had no chance of me meeting her in real life after that. It doesn't sound like much but it takes a lot for me to trust someone and once that trust is gone I see no way back.
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McSame_as_Bush
10/11/18 1:34:59 AM
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After breaking up she refused to let me keep the awesome blanket she had made for me years earlier as a birthday present.
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DeathMagnetic80
10/11/18 1:55:02 AM
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My first real relationship was with a physically and mentally abusive woman who I realize later probably had a mental illness. She could fly into a rage at the drop of a hat, and you never knew what would spark it. One "good" one was when I was doing dishes and dropped a glass and it broke. She went on a tirade about how much of a fuck up I was, and called me (mentally disabled, I can't post the actual word). Apparently that wasn't cruel enough, so she followed up with "You're (mentally disabled) because your dad used to do drugs" She was a real piece of work.

For the record, I don't have any mental disabilities or anything, she was just a huge bitch.
MannerSaurus
10/11/18 11:23:28 AM
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DeathMagnetic80 posted...
My first real relationship was with a physically and mentally abusive woman who I realize later probably had a mental illness. She could fly into a rage at the drop of a hat, and you never knew what would spark it. One "good" one was when I was doing dishes and dropped a glass and it broke. She went on a tirade about how much of a fuck up I was, and called me (mentally disabled, I can't post the actual word). Apparently that wasn't cruel enough, so she followed up with "You're (mentally disabled) because your dad used to do drugs" She was a real piece of work.

For the record, I don't have any mental disabilities or anything, she was just a huge bitch.


... Her name wasn't Katie, was it?
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DeathMagnetic80
10/11/18 2:15:21 PM
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MannerSaurus posted...
DeathMagnetic80 posted...
My first real relationship was with a physically and mentally abusive woman who I realize later probably had a mental illness. She could fly into a rage at the drop of a hat, and you never knew what would spark it. One "good" one was when I was doing dishes and dropped a glass and it broke. She went on a tirade about how much of a fuck up I was, and called me (mentally disabled, I can't post the actual word). Apparently that wasn't cruel enough, so she followed up with "You're (mentally disabled) because your dad used to do drugs" She was a real piece of work.

For the record, I don't have any mental disabilities or anything, she was just a huge bitch.


... Her name wasn't Katie, was it?


Lol, no. Sara.
Revelation34
10/12/18 5:24:01 AM
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EnvyFox posted...
cheaters are some of the most disgusting people on the planet. Right down there with murderers, rapists, child abusers


What the fuck.
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BeerOnTap
10/12/18 6:14:48 AM
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TaKun782 posted...
Our interests of course being into gear fetish and the like.


Prepare to be very, very arroused.

https://www.pexels.com/search/gears/
TaKun782
10/12/18 9:04:15 AM
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BeerOnTap posted...
TaKun782 posted...
Our interests of course being into gear fetish and the like.


Prepare to be very, very arroused.

https://www.pexels.com/search/gears/


Yeah.. uh, not that "type" of gear fetish.. I'm talking about stuff like, Alpinestars, zentais, etc.
KINGWAR
10/12/18 10:06:57 AM
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Had this really cute college girlfriend who always talked about how she'd never cheat on me because she had been cheated on and knew how much it hurt.

Yeah, after three years together she cheated on me. I found out when I discovered these lengthy notes about the other guy on her MySpace (this was back in 2006).

I had a complete meltdown for a few months, like severe depression and suicidal thoughts which eventually culminated in me moving to Alaska for a few years (I had spent my entire life up to that point in Indiana and Illinois).

And that actually ended up being a great idea and pulling me out of it.
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EnvyFox
10/12/18 11:04:17 AM
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KINGWAR posted...
Had this really cute college girlfriend who always talked about how she'd never cheat on me because she had been cheated on and knew how much it hurt.

Yeah, after three years together she cheated on me. I found out when I discovered these lengthy notes about the other guy on her MySpace (this was back in 2006).

I had a complete meltdown for a few months, like severe depression and suicidal thoughts which eventually culminated in me moving to Alaska for a few years (I had spent my entire life up to that point in Indiana and Illinois).

And that actually ended up being a great idea and pulling me out of it.

Glad to hear you're doing alright now. I don't think cheaters know the damage they can cause people. Either that or they don't care.
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