Current Events > CE, a stripper gave me her number on Saturday.

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My co-workers bought me a dance and as she did her thing she asked me if I was single. After I told her that my girlfriend and I recently broke up she asked if she could give me her number.

I'll probably call her today after work and see if she wants to go out or if this is just a way to get me back in the club and pay for more dances. What a crazy work dinner/party that was, lol.
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how hot was she

hopefully u ain't getting played like Barney on HIMYM lol
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If you play your cards right, shell give you the other six

Jk, get in that boi!
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I was drunk but with good enough judgment to solidly gauge that she was hot with an awesome body.

If something happens then cool, if not then it's whatever. I hate HIMYM so I'm not familiar with that story, lol.
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Pow Pow Punishment posted...

I hate HIMYM so I'm not familiar with that story,

Barney thinks a stripper is into him but she only wants to go on "dates" while she's working. Thus they aren't really dates, just ways for her to con him into more money.

Basically if she wants to go on a date with you anywhere but work, then it's legit. But if she only wants to see you at the club, then it's a scam.
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yup. thanks Muffinz lol
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Or shes a prostitute

Muffinz0rz posted...

Barney thinks a stripper is into him but she only wants to go on "dates" while she's working. Thus they aren't really dates, just ways for her to con him into more money.

Basically if she wants to go on a date with you anywhere but work, then it's legit. But if she only wants to see you at the club, then it's a scam.

Oh yeah, I had this in the back of my mind. I don't want to be too cynical but we'll see. I'm not desperate or anything.

I actually woke up the next day feeling like I didn't want to bother with the effort of meeting someone new but ultimately decided it'd be good to give it a go and experience new things. After my bad breakup I didn't want to see anyone and have just been concentrating on my athletic endeavors, partying with friends, and work.
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Spoiler alert: the phone number was 555-1234.
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soulunison2 posted...

Or shes a prostitute

Lol I didn't think of that possibility.

I actually find that kind of hot but I still wouldn't do it.

BeyondWalls posted...

Spoiler alert: the phone number was 555-1234.

I'm no fool. It's a 1-800 number.

That's a good sign because it shows she also has a day job and is a hard worker.
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She gave you a 1-800 number?
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I've gone out with strippers outside in the world. It's a weird experience and I was never able to tell if they were trying to get me to be a sugar daddy or if they were actually into me. It always led to me being overly paranoid about everything so it ruined any possibility of things developing or even just having a fun date.
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Akagami_Shanks posted...

She gave you a 1-800 number?

No, totally kidding.

Jiek_Fafn posted...

I've gone out with strippers outside in the world. It's a weird experience and I was never able to tell if they were trying to get me to be a sugar daddy or if they were actually into me. It always led to me being overly paranoid about everything so it ruined any possibility of things developing or even just having a fun date.

Interesting feedback, thanks. I usually enjoy paying for dates and try to cover everything, but think it's a good sign when a girl pushes back and tries to pay her share or even all of it. That was a good thing about my ex.

Did you meet them at their clubs or outside of that?
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She's looking for clientele.
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Uh, strippers give out numbers so they can meet outside the club and fuck (not for free, of course). Not a bad idea if the price is right and you're into her like that.
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smoke_break posted...

Uh, strippers give out numbers so they can meet outside the club and f*** (not for free, of course). Not a bad idea if the price is right and you're into her like that.

Maybe, but my expectations aren't high or anything to begin with. I'm definitely not paying. Even if there's a Groupon for it.
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BeyondWalls posted...

Spoiler alert: the phone number was 555-1234.

Marked for posting my personal info
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Tag for updates.
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I called her number and it went to voicemail. Mailbox was full. I might text her tomorrow and if I don't get anything then that's that.
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A stripper did the same to me when Redbook was a thing back in the day in Cali. I just googled her stripper name and that's how I found out she was a prostitute and redbook was a thing lol
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Lol I'm seeing a lot of stories like that when I Google this scenario. Could very well be. She did seem to single me out and kept touching my stomach when I passed her in the crowd at the club. My two co-workers said she came up to them and said their friend is cute and hopes I call her.
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So she texted me this morning asking how I've been and I responded back and asked her the same thing. Just a nice greeting, but haven't heard back since. Not expecting this to go anywhere from here, haha.
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It's a burner phone she uses for clients lol.

"Come see me tonight baby."
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Very possible, but strippers are people and can also just want to go out. She didn't give her number to my two co-workers who were spending way more money than me and I already get hit on when I go out sometimes so it wasn't completely out of left field.
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Honestly, maybe she likes you. I dated one for a while. As long as you're ok with her job, and she upholds boundaries it's fine. Don't go there when she's working and don't feel like you need to "save" her from her job. It's complicated but can be fun
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99% of the time she's an escort and that's how she gets clients.

Pow Pow Punishment posted...

Jiek_Fafn posted...

I've gone out with strippers outside in the world. It's a weird experience and I was never able to tell if they were trying to get me to be a sugar daddy or if they were actually into me. It always led to me being overly paranoid about everything so it ruined any possibility of things developing or even just having a fun date.

Interesting feedback, thanks. I usually enjoy paying for dates and try to cover everything, but think it's a good sign when a girl pushes back and tries to pay her share or even all of it. That was a good thing about my ex.

Did you meet them at their clubs or outside of that?

Met them in the clubs originally. Met them at a restaurant for the dates This happened all of twice. I never called either after the first date.

I'm pretty average looking and don't overly enjoy talking to strippers while they work so I was ignoring them when they hang out at the table so it wasn't like I charmed them or anything.
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powerman1426 posted...

don't feel like you need to "save" her from her job

Oh God, no. I imagine that would be obnoxious as hell being a stripper or sex worker.
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Pow Pow Punishment posted...

powerman1426 posted...

don't feel like you need to "save" her from her job

Oh God, no. I imagine that would be obnoxious as hell being a stripper or sex worker.

They hear it a lot.
Just remembered I used to drink with a different one who also drove a cement truck on her off days. She was hot as fuck in that vest and hard hat lol.

It was funny when she'd show up at a site I was at and everybody drooled. Then go meet her at the bar later and tell her. She should've put that in her routine tbh
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What kind of place do you work at?
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sutree posted...

What kind of place do you work at?

Me? I'm an electrician. I didn't know she also drove a truck til she showed up on site one day lol
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Honestly, don't treat her any different. If you like her, ask her to dinner or something. Nothing like bars or clubs. She spends plenty of time there. Treat her like a person, cuz she is one, and if she's just into you as a client you'll know quickly. If she likes you and you're into her, hey, give it a shot
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Damn, Butters! You got game! So, when are you going back to Raisin's?
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Vicious_Dios posted...

Damn, Butters! You got game! So, when are you going back to Raisin's?

LOL
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Vicious_Dios posted...

Damn, Butters! You got game! So, when are you going back to Raisin's?

LOL
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you seem to have the right attitude about this, time will reveal whether she has legit interest or not, but you needn't make first contact any kind of formal date

when i met girls at bars or clubs i would often invite them for more lowkey nights at other bars/clubs and that went fine
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Best of luck!
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Love no thoties
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Her number was probably 867-5309
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Thanks, haven't heard back from her since yesterday morning so I'm just gonna assume it went nowhere. Fun ass night though. It also renewed my interest in seeing other girls. It was fun to see how things developed.
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