Current Events > What's the record for most strike outs in picking up people?

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As of Midnight, today marks my 15 year anniversary without a girlfriend. I just went out for two hours to try my hand again and trying to get anyone to sit and chat with me, but of course I struck out again.

I talked to two women that were next to me at the bar, both of them gave simple responses to my small talk and went back to their party. When I wasn't at the bar I was at a small table so I could better see what was going on around me, and I was the only person there sitting alone. Just sat there for about 20mins listening to the music and the background noise, went to the bar two extra times to get a drink, ended up starting to feel really bad, started to cry a bit, walked home and broke down on the way. Smoked a bowl when I got back, and now I'm here

I don't even care about sex at this point, I just want to be not alone when I go out
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k. i see.

most if not all girls at bars respond simply cause they might want something.
so when you were with these girls, did you buy these them some drinks? nothing comes free. theres a price for what you want. are you willing and able to be used for it? just how lonely are you?

so next time try to buy drinks for them. maybe youll get better responses, maybe not. dont feel like they owe you anything. just go and have a good time.

there's another kinda bar you can goto for physical contact, drinks, and a whole lotta women. but, you can lose all your money there...
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I wasnt with them for enough time. They had friends to get back to. I had like 30 seconds of a conversation, if that.

And again, Im not trying to pick girls up. I simply want to sit and hang out with people
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Why stick with bars? Join a swingers club.
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PoopPotato posted...

Why stick with bars? Join a swingers club.

Dont you need to bring someone with you for a that?
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No, you just fill in the holes.
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