Poll of the Day > Last time I went on holiday with my gf, that was the start of my depression

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FatalAccident
05/18/19 5:05:15 AM
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Were going to Italy in a couple weeks and Im nervous its gonna repeat itself.

Do I tell her how Im feeling or just see how it goes? Might spoil the mood

I was hesitant to even post this here cause it just makes the possibility its gonna happen even more real once my thoughts are out there. Hmm what do
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JixHedgehog
05/18/19 5:38:15 AM
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Where'd you go on your last holiday?
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wwinterj25
05/18/19 12:15:51 PM
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Nothing wrong with telling her how you feel but I certainly wouldn't let it put you off from enjoying yourself. Try to focus more on the holiday and your GF. I know with mental health issues this is more easy to say than to actually do but distractions help me with anxiety.
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Bugmeat
05/18/19 12:25:03 PM
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Why did going on vacation cause depression?

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_AdjI_
05/18/19 12:36:14 PM
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This sounds like something you should have talked to her about a long time ago, certainly before even making the plans for this trip. That said, can't change the past, so I'd say bring it up now and talk it through so you can avoid a repeat of that experience.
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Mead
05/18/19 12:54:10 PM
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I wouldnt bring it up now as itll likely just cause conflict before the trip

Maybe just enjoy the trip despite any bumps in the road that happen?
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LinkPizza
05/18/19 2:28:06 PM
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Mead posted...
I wouldnt bring it up now as itll likely just cause conflict before the trip

Maybe just enjoy the trip despite any bumps in the road that happen?

I think this. Telling might really sour the mood for the trip. Where it might even be fun if you dont tell her. That being said, it would probably depend on where you went on you last trip. And what actually caused the depression last time...
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ChaosAzeroth
05/18/19 11:42:08 PM
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IDK guys, I think it really depends on the relationship dynamic and how they told their GF.

If I didn't tell my spouse, even before we were married, they'd pick up on me getting depressed no matter how hard I tried to hide it and how well I fooled others. And then end up upset if I hadn't been open about it, because they'd assume it was either them or that I didn't talk to them about it.

But every relationship is different? So it's hard to say knowing nothing about the GF or their dynamic IMO.
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