Current Events > Tinder/Bumble/Grindr/etc General: Progress Edition

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Blue_Inigo
05/21/19 7:38:56 PM
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Guys holy shit I got a match on tinder

Guys holy shit she responded and we had a conversation

Guys she agreed to go on a date with me.

These stupid fucking apps do work but you really need patience
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Goats
05/21/19 7:39:50 PM
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The only person I got today was a bot.
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Blue_Inigo
05/21/19 7:43:38 PM
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Goats posted...
The only person I got today was a bot.

If I see just an IG handle, automatic left swipe
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berlyman101
05/22/19 2:49:01 AM
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I matched with a sexy Miami girl just now and asked her freak level, assuming it must be high to match at this hour with me not doing the swiping. I suppose that isn't necessarily the case though.
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Turtlebread
05/22/19 2:50:18 AM
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I met my gf at a club but we matched on Tinder before we met and never talked to each other on it.

That's all I have to contribute.
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berlyman101
05/22/19 2:52:00 AM
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Turtlebread
05/22/19 2:54:20 AM
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I mean we never messaged each other on tinder. We laughed about it after we started dating.
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Blue_Inigo
05/22/19 5:01:02 PM
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berlyman101 posted...
I matched with a sexy Miami girl just now and asked her freak level, assuming it must be high to match at this hour with me not doing the swiping. I suppose that isn't necessarily the case though.

Did she answer?
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NeoBowser
05/22/19 5:02:23 PM
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im bored but i made an agreement with myself to not download dating apps for a good while
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berlyman101
05/22/19 5:05:35 PM
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Blue_Inigo posted...
berlyman101 posted...
I matched with a sexy Miami girl just now and asked her freak level, assuming it must be high to match at this hour with me not doing the swiping. I suppose that isn't necessarily the case though.

Did she answer?


nope

I'm talking to a dude read head who messaged me first though.
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Blue_Inigo
05/22/19 8:37:11 PM
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"I love new restaurants but i usually get it to go since Im alone and its never as good as eating it there and then"

Am I mark if I take her out to dinner >__>

She's a bit big too
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Blue_Inigo
05/23/19 12:46:59 PM
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Well now, I ran into the tinder profile of someone I know IRL. Not only is she lying about her age in the profile, she may or may not be dating a friend of mine.

Very interesting
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Blue_Inigo
05/23/19 3:18:43 PM
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Godnorgosh posted...
I feel like kind of a terrible person for this. The other day I matched with someone on Bumble who seems nice and somewhat attractive, but I noticed that she has one hand. I don't know what happened, but it looks as if her other hand never developed for some reason.

I don't know if I should ask her out anyway and try to keep an open mind about it or not even bother and save her the trouble so she can look for someone better.

If you're not attracted to her, cut it off. Dont lead her on like that. Why did you like her profile in the first place?
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Blue_Inigo
05/23/19 3:35:22 PM
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Godnorgosh posted...
Meanwhile I've got 10 likes on Tinder hidden behind a paywall...

If you have 10, swipe right like crazy. One of them will pop up
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HairyThotter
05/23/19 3:38:12 PM
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Blue_Inigo posted...
Godnorgosh posted...
I feel like kind of a terrible person for this. The other day I matched with someone on Bumble who seems nice and somewhat attractive, but I noticed that she has one hand. I don't know what happened, but it looks as if her other hand never developed for some reason.

I don't know if I should ask her out anyway and try to keep an open mind about it or not even bother and save her the trouble so she can look for someone better.

If you're not attracted to her, cut it off. Dont lead her on like that. Why did you like her profile in the first place?


Phrasing!
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dj1200
05/23/19 4:21:13 PM
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Godnorgosh posted...
Blue_Inigo posted...
Godnorgosh posted...
I feel like kind of a terrible person for this. The other day I matched with someone on Bumble who seems nice and somewhat attractive, but I noticed that she has one hand. I don't know what happened, but it looks as if her other hand never developed for some reason.

I don't know if I should ask her out anyway and try to keep an open mind about it or not even bother and save her the trouble so she can look for someone better.

If you're not attracted to her, cut it off. Dont lead her on like that. Why did you like her profile in the first place?


tbh I didn't notice her condition when I liked it.


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dj1200
05/23/19 4:59:56 PM
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lol @ Grindr progress. That site is all men. If you want sex, its there for the taking.
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Blue_Inigo
05/24/19 12:29:31 AM
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jeffhardyb0yz posted...
I re-made a tinder 2 weeks ago. I have 400 matches lol.

Went out with a tinder girl last weekend. Went pretty well. Gonna try to smash this weekend

You lucky son of a.... HOW?!
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Blue_Inigo
05/24/19 9:49:28 PM
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Tinder girl hasnt hit me back in 2 days

Double text time?
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MTRodaba2468
05/24/19 10:22:00 PM
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Blue_Inigo posted...
Well now, I ran into the tinder profile of someone I know IRL. Not only is she lying about her age in the profile, she may or may not be dating a friend of mine.

Very interesting


I've come across a few people I've known in real life, and noticed similar instances. Hell, I've come across my ex on there, and she was definitely in a relationship with someone at the time.

One friend of mine told me about a match she made that ended up in a couple hookups, but it turned out that they were both lying about their ages; he claimed to be in his mid-20s, but was really about 10 years older, and she claimed to be in her early 20s, but was actually underage. It also involved crossing state lines, too. *cringe*
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Blue_Inigo
05/26/19 3:08:30 PM
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I matched with a cute girl on coffee meets bagel that's a nurse. She seems pretty interested in me so I asked her out to a museum.

We shall see her answer
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Blue_Inigo
05/27/19 3:10:22 AM
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Blue_Inigo posted...
I matched with a cute girl on coffee meets bagel that's a nurse. She seems pretty interested in me so I asked her out to a museum.

We shall see her answer

She said yes, gave me her number, and said lets go Thursday.

PROGRESS
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HairyThotter
05/28/19 1:50:27 AM
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Blue_Inigo posted...
I matched with a cute girl on coffee meets bagel


What do you think of coffee meets bagel?

I've used Tinder, Bumble and Hinge. Uninstalled bumble, but still use Tinder and Hinge. Get a fair bit of matches on Hinge... much less so on Tinder, but I'm in a smaller city.
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billcom6
05/28/19 1:56:29 AM
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I've been hanging out with a girl who is visiting from Australia. She leaves on Wednesday. I knew what I was getting myself into but I am gonna be bummed when she leaves.
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Blue_Inigo
05/28/19 12:02:30 PM
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billcom6 posted...
I've been hanging out with a girl who is visiting from Australia. She leaves on Wednesday. I knew what I was getting myself into but I am gonna be bummed when she leaves.

You can at least have some good memories

And sex
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Ruvan22
05/28/19 12:05:36 PM
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Blue_Inigo posted...
billcom6 posted...
I've been hanging out with a girl who is visiting from Australia. She leaves on Wednesday. I knew what I was getting myself into but I am gonna be bummed when she leaves.

You can at least have some good memories

And sex


And vegemite

And vegemite memories

And vegemite sex
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Blue_Inigo
05/28/19 12:19:59 PM
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HairyThotter posted...
Blue_Inigo posted...
I matched with a cute girl on coffee meets bagel


What do you think of coffee meets bagel?

I've used Tinder, Bumble and Hinge. Uninstalled bumble, but still use Tinder and Hinge. Get a fair bit of matches on Hinge... much less so on Tinder, but I'm in a smaller city.

From my limited experience with this girl and talking to girls who use it, it feels like the app was designed for women looking for something real. If that's what you're looking for, then try it out. It gives you a very limited, curated amount of people to swipe on which I kinda dislike
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HairyThotter
05/28/19 12:54:25 PM
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Blue_Inigo posted...
HairyThotter posted...
Blue_Inigo posted...
I matched with a cute girl on coffee meets bagel


What do you think of coffee meets bagel?

I've used Tinder, Bumble and Hinge. Uninstalled bumble, but still use Tinder and Hinge. Get a fair bit of matches on Hinge... much less so on Tinder, but I'm in a smaller city.

From my limited experience with this girl and talking to girls who use it, it feels like the app was designed for women looking for something real. If that's what you're looking for, then try it out. It gives you a very limited, curated amount of people to swipe on which I kinda dislike


Hm... okay, sounds a bit like hinge... which I've enjoyed so far because when you 'like' a part of their profile... you can actually leave a message with it which allows you to make more of an impression as opposed to just a swipe.
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Blue_Inigo
05/29/19 10:26:17 PM
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Do you guys usually meet up with your dates or meet at the location?
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PatrickMahomes
05/29/19 10:31:02 PM
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HairyThotter posted...
Blue_Inigo posted...
I matched with a cute girl on coffee meets bagel


What do you think of coffee meets bagel?.

CMB is horrid. They pride themselves on this whole "quality over quantity" bit, but totally pull a 180 by allowing you to buy more "beans" (people to swipe).

It's just another swiping app, but with microtransactions. I remember the first week I used it, they gave me login bean bonuses, which was cool, but that was just a first-week thing. Then it goes down to you only get like up to 10 swipes a day or something, then down to 9, 8, etc. until I literally would open it, get one swipe, and it'd say "that's all for today!" or something.

On-topic: Met this chick on OkCupid way back in like December/January (before they basically removed the ability to search by questions lol) and have been seeing her since. She met my parents last weekend at the cabin and it went extremely well.

Blue_Inigo posted...
Do you guys usually meet up with your dates or meet at the location?

At the location. I imagine most women these days wouldn't be too keen on starting a first date at your place and/or showing you where they live before actually meeting you, so I don't bother asking. I offer to pick them up just kinda casually, but never once have gotten one to accept on the first date. Even had one say she wanted to uber rather than get a free ride. No offense taken of course, it's just that their guards are usually up so it's pointless to bother.
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MTRodaba2468
05/30/19 1:01:16 AM
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Blue_Inigo posted...
Do you guys usually meet up with your dates or meet at the location?


Back when I was using dating apps, all but one time, I met up with them at the location.
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Blue_Inigo
05/30/19 7:23:45 PM
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Im waiting for date in parking lot

Should I go for the hug when we meet?!
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billcom6
05/30/19 7:24:39 PM
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I'm tempted to upgrade to Tinder Gold, if only as an experiment.
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Blue_Inigo
05/30/19 7:27:20 PM
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Showtime!
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Blue_Inigo
06/01/19 12:51:53 PM
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Went on date, felt nothing towards her after seeing her. Also she's a lot more churchy than I am so we weren't a good fit
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billcom6
06/01/19 2:21:43 PM
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Matched with a really hot girl on bumble. She messaged me once but hasn't responded since. Her profile says shes rather talk on snapchat. I'm tempted to install snapchat just to hit her up.
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Blue_Inigo
06/01/19 10:02:08 PM
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jeffhardyb0yz posted...
Tinder chick tonight flaked like 3 hours before

Got a date with a diff chick tomorrow night. We're gonna watch the Warriors/Raptors game tomorrow

Got a date with a diff chick monday lol

I dont understand the mindset of chicks who flake hours before a date.
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billcom6
06/02/19 12:11:53 AM
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Went out with a girl. It was okay. We just played pool and talked. She wasn't as cute as her pictures but still attractive. She has a 14 year old daughter which is very foreign territory for me. I'm not really sure if I want to go out with her again or not.

I'm just afraid I am gonna be hung up on the last girl I hung out with (who just flew back to Australia and that I'll never see again) for awhile. I know I gotta move on, but I don't want to force it just for the sake of it.
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au_gold
06/02/19 12:36:19 AM
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jeffhardyb0yz posted...
Got 550 matches now so you just next em and find ones who won't.

How the fuck? Do you travel a lot or have a perfectly sculpted body?
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