Current Events > AITA here?

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All this happened over messaging.

Day before yesterday:
GF: So what time do you usually start gaming?

Me: 10pm

GF: Between gaming & me, which is more important?

Me: You of course.

GF: Haha, is that the truth?

Me: Yes, I don't mind putting aside games for you. But I hope you won't ask me to give it up.

GF: I won't.

Yesterday (10:30pm):

GF: Hey.

ME: *took a while to reply because I'm playing Division 2 with a friend*

GF: Are you playing games?

Me: Yea, sorry.

GF: Oh, so now gaming is more important than me?

Me: ohboyherewegoagain.jpg

Me: *waits for more replies... nothing, so continue gaming*

Today

GF: Remember what you told me before?

Me: Yea sorry, I didn't expect you to message me that time. Can I call you tonight?

GF: Who was the one who said he can put aside gaming?

Me: Yes, that was my bad.

GF: What you say is inconsistent with your actions.

Me: . . .

GF: Stop lying to please me.

Me: I admit I made a wrong decision yesterday, but I wasn't lying.

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Communication stops here.

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I thought GameFAQs was the place where you made fun of obvious AITA reddit bait.

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dolomedes posted...

cool

Well it's still today.

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she messaged you when she knew you were busy and then got mad at you for being busy? fuck that noise.

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with all due respect, she's being a dick
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St0rmFury posted...

Me: Yes, I don't mind putting aside games for you. But I hope you won't ask me to give it up.

this sentence should have ended at "Yes."

now she's playing games because she can.

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She asked which one is more important. You or games. Of course, you did the natural and reasonable and said she is more important. You also told her you'll be gaming after 10 PM. Then she texts you at 10:30 PM and becomes upset learning you're gaming. What did she expect? That you had taken the question as an ultimatum to cut games out of your life and replace them with servile devotion to her?

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Yeah, she's intentionally being a dick. She asked when you game specifically so she could call in the middle of it.

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AsucaHayashi posted...

this sentence should have ended at "Yes."

now she's playing games because she can.

I have a tendency to volunteer more information than needed >_>

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I feel I won't be able to win this argument even when I point out that she called me after 10pm because of what I said about putting it aside for her.

In fact, I don't even want to win this argument.

I just want her to respect my space and understand that just because I said she's more important than gaming (tbh, saying the opposite is just suicidal) doesn't mean she can just intrude into my personal time and expect me to drop what I'm doing for her.

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It would be nice if women could actually have hobbies too so they could entertain themselves once in a while.

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