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VSTopicFanatic
07/03/20 2:41:00 PM
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Lets say for example: A Guy between Age 25-30, meets a girl(18-20) on Tinder or some Online dating site, and goes on a date with her. Is this considered "creepy" or would the guy get weird looks in public by being seen with a woman of this age?
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Slayer_22
07/03/20 2:42:15 PM
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It's fine as long as you call HER daddy.
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SrRd_RacinG
07/03/20 2:42:33 PM
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You're dealing with two drastically different mindsets.

So naturally, yes, it's weird, but not illegal or necessarily immoral.

Just understand there will be big gaps in mentality.

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a-c-a-b
07/03/20 2:45:34 PM
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I have a 17 year old daughter, the idea of dating someone around that age is creepy as hell for me.
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MrToothHasYou
07/03/20 2:45:45 PM
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The biggest gap Ive ever had in a relationship was 27-22 and it was definitely weird. Would not do that again.

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VSTopicFanatic
07/03/20 2:48:06 PM
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MrToothHasYou posted...
The biggest gap Ive ever had in a relationship was 27-22 and it was definitely weird. Would not do that again.
Interesting. What were the biggest issues in your relationship?

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LordMarshal
07/03/20 2:48:56 PM
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Im just going to bang her so no.

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Master_Bass
07/03/20 2:50:39 PM
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You're at two vastly different points in your lives. I wouldn't want to date someone that young.

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Scotty_Rogers
07/03/20 2:51:47 PM
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"It's creepy to date her but not bang her" will always be a double standard. Just banging her is creepier and more predatory than actually taking the time to have a good relationship with her.

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fire_bolt
07/03/20 2:55:30 PM
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I've got a friend who is 33 dating a 19 year old and tbh it is hella cringe. Like ultra cringe. And I know for a fact the only reason he's dating her is because he's got this idealized "perfect" woman in his head and that's the only person he wants to date: church girl, between 5'4" and 5'7", virgin, pretty, etc. Its why he dates'em so young, its the only way he can find someone like that xD
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J03can
07/03/20 2:56:22 PM
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Prob sends a message.
I dont think i would, but you do you.

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MrToothHasYou
07/03/20 2:59:33 PM
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VSTopicFanatic posted...
Interesting. What were the biggest issues in your relationship?
I just felt creepy. All of her friends were younger, so anytime we would hang out with them I was like the creepy older dude at the party. We were still sort of at different places in life. I was getting to the point where I wanted to settle down somewhat, maybe buy a house. She was 22 and still living out her twenties. Theres a difference of perspective even at those ages.

I suppose at this point Im old enough that a five year gap wouldnt make as much of a difference, but Id still be wary of it.

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electricbugs2
07/03/20 3:00:57 PM
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Who gives a shit? As long as they hit AoC where you live go wild and theres not shitting fuck anyone can do about it.

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BroodRyu
07/03/20 3:02:03 PM
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electricbugs2 posted...

Jesus Christ dude.
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Scotty_Rogers
07/03/20 3:03:18 PM
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BroodRyu posted...
Jesus Christ dude.

@BroodRyu Electricbugs is well known for bragging about dating 16 year olds as a 27 year old man. They're legal in Canada, where he lives.

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electricbugs2
07/03/20 3:03:19 PM
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BroodRyu posted...
Jesus Christ dude.
You must be new here.

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DarkChozoGhost
07/03/20 3:04:11 PM
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There is nothing wrong with someone in their late 20s or older dating an 18-21 year old (assuming they're out of highschool already).

It is extremely creepy and predatory if someone that age habitually dates girls that age range.

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Izrael
07/03/20 3:04:23 PM
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No, although a number of people may consider it as such.

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Guerrilla Soldier
07/03/20 3:12:32 PM
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no its not weird and anyone giving you shit for it is dumb

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Scotty_Rogers
07/03/20 4:17:26 PM
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Izrael posted...
No, although a number of people may consider it as such.

TC: Is this considered creepy
You: No, but yes

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Bestoffuture
07/03/20 4:18:55 PM
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Nah. Though it starts getting into the creepy zone at 30.

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coh
07/03/20 4:19:44 PM
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18-20 is like prime age for women. I don't begrudge any man dating them
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Pepys Monster
07/03/20 4:21:45 PM
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Some girls need a daddy.

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Arcanine2009
07/03/20 4:22:21 PM
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There's a math equation for that at least. Divide your age by 2 and add 7 years for the youngest.

Lifestyle/priorities and maturity of 18-20 year old is going to be really different from 25-30

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Shablagoo
07/03/20 4:24:54 PM
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nope

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Ruvan22
07/03/20 5:39:07 PM
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fire_bolt posted...
I've got a friend who is 33 dating a 19 year old and tbh it is hella cringe. Like ultra cringe. And I know for a fact the only reason he's dating her is because he's got this idealized "perfect" woman in his head and that's the only person he wants to date: church girl, between 5'4" and 5'7", virgin, pretty, etc. Its why he dates'em so young, its the only way he can find someone like that xD

What do her parents think of the age gap?

One of my friends is married to a guy ten years older, but being from a religious background (both of her parents were ministers) they weren't as concerned after his strong religious background (he's currently a youth minister) was presented
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fire_bolt
07/03/20 5:52:58 PM
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Ruvan22 posted...


What do her parents think of the age gap?

One of my friends is married to a guy ten years older, but being from a religious background (both of her parents were ministers) they weren't as concerned after his strong religious background (he's currently a youth minister) was presented


With all the COVID stuff going on he's not met her parents yet. I'm not even sure if they're aware she's dating someone so much older. I think it might be the same, though, and they're both Mormon and age gaps in that culture might be a little more common? Still, its weird to see them both chatting in Discord because she's *clearly* way younger than our peer group just from her mannerisms
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Ruvan22
07/03/20 5:58:53 PM
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fire_bolt posted...
With all the COVID stuff going on he's not met her parents yet. I'm not even sure if they're aware she's dating someone so much older. I think it might be the same, though, and they're both Mormon and age gaps in that culture might be a little more common? Still, its weird to see them both chatting in Discord because she's *clearly* way younger than our peer group just from her mannerisms

Ahh makes sense, my friend and her husband are Southern Baptists, I believe they share a lot of traditionalist values with LDS

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The_Creep_2020
07/03/20 5:59:45 PM
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That is very much a matter of personal opinion. I personally wouldnt with that age gap. When I was 26, a friend was trying to wingman for me as hard as anyone has ever wingmanned when a 19 year old was very interested in me. Lil buddy wingmanned his ass off. He saw nothing wrong with it, but I found the age difference and the difference in life stages a bit too much. Not illegal, not immoral, we just had absolutely nothing in common.

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pogo_rabid
07/03/20 6:00:39 PM
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When i was 27 I dated a 20 year old for a couple months.

It really didn't work out, it was fun at first, but her mind was on a completely different planet

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Wii_Shaker
07/03/20 6:00:48 PM
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mattymad posted...
CE will say it's fine as long as she calls you daddy.
I agree with this.

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The Wheelman1
07/03/20 6:05:49 PM
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Funny how people are ok with 18 year olds doing porn but not dating an older man.

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Jiek_Fafn
07/03/20 6:08:00 PM
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No
I told my niece that when she goes to college I'm going to creep on all of her friends and she acted like I didn't say anything which is a sign that it's perfectly normal.

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electricbugs2
07/03/20 6:08:06 PM
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The Wheelman1 posted...
Funny how people are ok with 18 year olds doing porn but not dating an older man.
CE is filled with sheltered gobsmacks.

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Orochi_
07/03/20 6:11:38 PM
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This is the wrong place to ask that question.

According to most of CE:

"Grass in the field" and "old enough to bleed"

Personally I believe that anything over 18 as long as there's a 5 age difference should be fine.

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Shablagoo
07/03/20 6:16:06 PM
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electricbugs2 posted...
CE is filled with sheltered gobsmacks.

what does gobsmack mean in this context?

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TheMikh
07/03/20 6:20:07 PM
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not really my thing, but i wouldn't go so far as to call it creepy

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Bestoffuture
07/03/20 9:47:57 PM
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The Wheelman1 posted...
Funny how people are ok with 18 year olds doing porn but not dating an older man.

I'm cool with hooking up with an 18 year old. Dating one doesn't sound that great tho.

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DespondentDeity
07/03/20 9:56:41 PM
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I know this guy who is 32 and dating a 21 year old, the fucked up thing is he met her when she was 17 and started organizing meetups to "get a feel for her". When he told me that I instantly lost all respect for him and told him that was predatory grooming shit and he kept trying to defend it by saying she was "really mature for her age". I met that girl and she has the body of an actual 13 to 14 year old child, it's absolutely fucking disgusting.

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Slayer_22
07/03/20 10:15:01 PM
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DespondentDeity posted...
I know this guy who is 32 and dating a 21 year old, the fucked up thing is he met her when she was 17 and started organizing meetups to "get a feel for her". When he told me that I instantly lost all respect for him and told him that was predatory grooming shit and he kept trying to defend it by saying she was "really mature for her age". I met that girl and she has the body of an actual 13 to 14 year old child, it's absolutely fucking disgusting.

What in the actual fuck?
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Ruvan22
07/03/20 10:20:18 PM
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DespondentDeity posted...
I know this guy who is 32 and dating a 21 year old, the fucked up thing is he met her when she was 17 and started organizing meetups to "get a feel for her". When he told me that I instantly lost all respect for him and told him that was predatory grooming shit and he kept trying to defend it by saying she was "really mature for her age". I met that girl and she has the body of an actual 13 to 14 year old child, it's absolutely fucking disgusting.
Where'd he meet an under aged girl like that? o.0
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DespondentDeity
07/03/20 10:21:48 PM
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He was a barista at a local coffee shop.

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CanuckCowboy
07/03/20 10:22:26 PM
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Scotty_Rogers posted...
@BroodRyu Electricbugs is well known for bragging about dating 16 year olds as a 27 year old man. They're legal in Canada, where he lives.

No they arent.

Theres a clause regarding the age difference. A guy in his mid 20s can 100% be charged for fucking someone under 18.

I was gonna google canada aoc laws but on second thought i dont want that in my search history. Lol.

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CanuckCowboy
07/03/20 10:23:11 PM
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Slayer_22 posted...
What in the actual fuck?

That aint the fucked up part dude. Not when he is literally grooming her.

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Slayer_22
07/03/20 10:23:34 PM
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CanuckCowboy posted...


No they arent.

Theres a clause regarding the age difference. A guy in his mid 20s can 100% be charged for fucking someone under 18.

I was gonna google canada aoc laws but on second thought i dont want that in my search history. Lol.

Depends on state/country/etc.

Some places in America, 16 is the age of consent.
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Ivany2008
07/03/20 10:24:23 PM
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I'm 34. I'd go out with someone who is 20. Christ I'd go out with someone who is 18, assuming they aren't lying about their age. Is it an age I would actively seek out? no.

Also, to the above poster, the age of consent is 16 in Canada. That said, there are many judges that would argue against that, so it isn't worth the risk, and to be honest, its just creepy. I can understand if your 18 years old dating a 16 year old, but a 20+ year old dating a 16 year old? find someone older.
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Slayer_22
07/03/20 10:31:03 PM
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I'm not disagreeing, just saying a guy in his 20s isn't 100% gonna be charged if he's with a girl under 18. It just varies.
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CanuckCowboy
07/03/20 10:33:06 PM
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Slayer_22 posted...
Depends on state/country/etc.

Some places in America, 16 is the age of consent.

True. I think it might be federal in canada vs provincial though. But again i dont really wanna google to find out.

Either way iirc me and bugs are in the same province.

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