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yemmy
01/28/22 8:26:31 AM
#51:


If a girl takes longer than like 24 hours to answer you back and she isn't dead or in an extreme emergency, she's most definitely fucking some other guy

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Doom_Art
01/28/22 8:33:12 AM
#52:


omega cookie posted...
That fucking hurt to read. Like, hair on my neck standing up, embarrassed to be reading it.
Yep lol

I'm starting to come around to the idea that shit was aight and then that spooked her off lol

[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Yep that's where I fucked up. I think "?" and "hey?" were whatever but the third one was the shit that made it weird lol


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Doom_Art
01/28/22 8:41:33 AM
#53:


yemmy posted...
If a girl takes longer than like 24 hours to answer you back and she isn't dead or in an extreme emergency, she's most definitely fucking some other guy
I know what other dudes are like in this city

If she's fucking someone else she's traded down lol

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--Zero-
01/28/22 8:46:20 AM
#54:


CEman- Dur shes fucking someone else! All girls are whores!

Sounds like she just likes to flirt and is keeping you in mind as a possibility when shes ready. Otherwise she is just too busy to get attached to anyone. Id just try being distant back and see if that changes anything with her demeanor toward you.

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haloiscoolisbak
01/28/22 8:53:49 AM
#55:


--Zero- posted...
CEman- Dur shes fucking someone else! All girls are whores!

Sounds like she just likes to flirt and is keeping you in mind as a possibility when shes ready. Otherwise she is just too busy to get attached to anyone. Id just try being distant back and see if that changes anything with her demeanor toward you.

it sounds like they were dating, at least that's what I gather

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CyricZ
01/28/22 8:55:00 AM
#56:


Doom_Art posted...
Yep

I'm pissed at how I was treated and I'm pissed that she didn't live up to the hype
That's valid man.

*hugs*

Keep at it. Took me a long damn while.

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CyricZ
01/28/22 8:55:23 AM
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I think he's very handsome.

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CyricZ
01/28/22 9:00:48 AM
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You seem to be taking this personally. I feel what Doom needs right now is confidence in himself. I'm not going to tell him he's probably not all that hot.

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Doom_Art
01/28/22 9:04:00 AM
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Nah I definitely think I'm a catch tho

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MFBKBass5
01/28/22 9:18:04 AM
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Sounds like you scared her away with your neediness.

I overthink shit a ton too. Just dont triple text. Texting in general is something you really shouldnt read into much. Especially if you see her face to face at work constantly. Talk it out in person and dont rely on reading into shitty text convos

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Doom_Art
01/28/22 9:18:39 AM
#64:


--Zero- posted...
Sounds like she just likes to flirt and is keeping you in mind as a possibility when shes ready. Otherwise she is just too busy to get attached to anyone. Id just try being distant back and see if that changes anything with her demeanor toward you.
Tbh years ago we made out and she went off for work abroad the next day. We kept in contact but drifted away after.

The reason me and her took so long to get together was becausr of that event and the followup I assumed she wasn't interested.

She clarified that we drifted apart because romance terrifies her

So honestly I'm wondering if that happened here. Regardless it's not worth it to ask so you're right in that stepping back and putting some distance is probably a good idea

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Doom_Art
01/28/22 9:19:33 AM
#65:


MFBKBass5 posted...
Sounds like you scared her away with your neediness.

I overthink shit a ton too. Just dont triple text. Texting in general is something you really shouldnt read into much. Especially if you see her face to face at work constantly. Talk it out in person and dont rely on reading into shitty text convos
Yep it's a toxic trait I have tbh. I get way too into constant contact and overthink shit a ton

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Doom_Art
01/28/22 9:28:26 AM
#66:


Doom_Art posted...
Nah I definitely think I'm a catch tho
I should also add on I don't think I'm some super stud or anything, I just think the other guys in town here suck.

The common joke here in town is "are you not fat? Are you not addicted to anything? Do you have all your teeth? Then you're desirable "

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MFBKBass5
01/28/22 9:29:10 AM
#67:


Doom_Art posted...
Yep it's a toxic trait I have tbh. I get way too into constant contact and overthink shit a ton

It sounds like you were more invested in her than she was with you. Gotta keep things casual, and if you wanna move a fling into something else just have the conversation. Talk it out. Be open and dont assume a bunch of shit.

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Doom_Art
01/28/22 9:35:17 AM
#68:


MFBKBass5 posted...
It sounds like you were more invested in her than she was with you. Gotta keep things casual, and if you wanna move a fling into something else just have the conversation. Talk it out. Be open and dont assume a bunch of shit.
Yep we were definitely on different pages

In my defense it was a conversation I wanted to have after the holidays, like "what is this?" but obviously that never happened lol

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The Eko
01/28/22 9:50:17 AM
#69:


Doom_Art posted...
Seriously, it's like, dude we weren't a couple. Just say you want out lol

If you guys weren't a couple then she shouldn't need to say she "wants out" because she's not "in" anything IMO

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MrKapowski
01/28/22 10:05:28 AM
#70:


TC giving off major nice guy vibes

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OudeGeuze
01/28/22 10:06:32 AM
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This is cringe
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Doom_Art
01/28/22 10:07:33 AM
#72:


MrKapowski posted...
TC giving off major nice guy vibes
Nah

Nice Guys think that by treating women well they're entitled to sex/affection from them, which is not where my head's at lol

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Doom_Art
01/28/22 10:09:09 AM
#73:


OudeGeuze posted...
This is cringe
This post is cringe

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OudeGeuze
01/28/22 10:10:15 AM
#74:


Doom_Art posted...
- Over the next few days I send three followups being like "?" "Hey?" And "Are we good?", same deal.
This is cringe
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Doom_Art
01/28/22 10:13:37 AM
#75:


OudeGeuze posted...
This is cringe
I will absolutely not disagree with ya on that

It was a very unflattering side of myself I thought I had defeated resurfacing again lol

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bobaban
01/28/22 10:13:55 AM
#76:


how are you a catch when your clearly needy af?

also expecting a woman to just tell me whats wrong is asinine
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Doom_Art
01/28/22 10:17:53 AM
#77:


bobaban posted...
how are you a catch when your clearly needy af?


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bsp77
01/28/22 10:21:41 AM
#78:


bobaban posted...
how are you a catch when your clearly needy af?

also expecting a woman to just tell me whats wrong is asinine
I don't see how TC is needy. Friends with someone for years, she wants more, they have more but it stays undefined and casual. She suddenly pulls away without explanation and he is upset/confused. He sounds like a normal human being.

TC - don't listen to this stuff. You be you. Not saying you have been perfect (none of us are), but you are learning and mean well.

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haloiscoolisbak
01/28/22 10:24:06 AM
#79:


some people here clearly dont actually do much dating

no double texting in any circumstances! no weakness!

if you've been texting someone basically every day for months, and banging them, it's not crazy to be confused and want to know what's wrong if they suddenly stop talking to you. it's not like he starting hurling hatred or writing essays to the girl

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Doom_Art
01/28/22 10:25:42 AM
#80:


bsp77 posted...
I don't see how TC is needy. Friends with someone for years, she wants more, they have more but it stays undefined and casual. She suddenly pulls away without explanation and he is upset/confused. He sounds like a normal human being.

TC - don't listen to this stuff. You be you. Not saying you have been perfect (none of us are), but you are learning and mean well.
I don't think I was insane but there's definitely merit to the interpretation that I came across as unnecessarily dramatic or needy.

As tempting as it is to victimize myself I definitely could've reacted in a healthier manner

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OudeGeuze
01/28/22 10:26:53 AM
#81:


Doom_Art posted...
I know what other dudes are like in this city

If she's fucking someone else she's traded down lol
"So anyways, I know I triple texted you but if you think about it the Holdo Manuever really makes sense and I'd love to explain it to you."


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haloiscoolisbak
01/28/22 10:27:05 AM
#82:


Doom_Art posted...
I don't think I was insane but there's definitely merit to the interpretation that I came across as unnecessarily dramatic or needy.

As tempting as it is to victimize myself I definitely could've reacted in a healthier manner

by sending 2 texts instead of 3 maybe. nothing to beat yourself up over though. people can go too far the other way with this stuff

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bsp77
01/28/22 10:30:35 AM
#83:


haloiscoolisbak posted...
some people here clearly dont actually do much dating

no double texting in any circumstances! no weakness!

if you've been texting someone basically every day for months, and banging them, it's not crazy to be confused and want to know what's wrong if they suddenly stop talking to you. it's not like he starting hurling hatred or writing essays to the girl
This. TC, you did nothing to be ashamed of. If 3 concerned texts scared her off after months together then you don't want that in your life

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R1masher
01/28/22 10:32:11 AM
#84:


After your first grandchild is born, show her this topic and you can both laugh at how silly you both were being during this awkward courting phase

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Doom_Art
01/28/22 10:56:00 AM
#85:


R1masher posted...
After your first grandchild is born, show her this topic and you can both laugh at how silly you both were being during this awkward courting phase
Yeah I think that ship has sailed unfortunately lol

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_Krave_
01/28/22 11:07:42 AM
#86:


Fony posted...
A coworker felt my chest and grabbed my dick. She cried rape when I pushed her off of me. Luckily I had a witness.
Ugh. That's so horrible. That's why you only flirt with older women, they don't pull that shit.

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Doom_Art
01/28/22 12:03:00 PM
#87:


_Krave_ posted...
Ugh. That's so horrible. That's why you only flirt with older women, they don't pull that shit.
Older women are pretty handsy tbh

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bsp77
01/28/22 12:05:19 PM
#88:


Doom_Art posted...
Older women are pretty handsy tbh
Yeah, they are lol

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Pitlord_Special
01/28/22 12:22:35 PM
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Changing your schedule just to be less available to her sounds like a passive aggressive bitch move unless your work performance is actually tanking because of this situation.


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Doom_Art
01/28/22 12:25:25 PM
#90:


Pitlord_Special posted...
Changing your schedule just to be less available to her sounds like a passive aggressive bitch move unless your work performance is actually tanking because of this situation.
"Less available to her"? She doesn't need me there lol.

We already have very little overlap most of the time

And my performance isn't tanking it's just kinda a weird/annoying vibe I could do without for a bit at least lol

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KaZooo
01/28/22 12:27:54 PM
#91:


Oh dang the sequel.

Pretty much what others said. Forget her. You put yourself out there. Exhausted all your rational options. I don't think you really did anything wrong. If there was going to be any potential in this, she just never did her part.

Not to make you feel better, but her loss. You're imperfect like her. Difference is you were willing to make something of it and figuratively she didn't take up that offer.

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samurai bandit
01/28/22 1:33:16 PM
#92:


She sounds like a child tbh. Also, could be she got drunk in NYE and did something she regrets or surprisingly liked (kiss or fuck a rando). Then didn't want to talk to you because of that.

Not responding to your texts I can buy since maybe she forgot or was dealing with some shit. But to change your relationship randomly with no reason is really suspicious. Either way you dodged a bullet.

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TheoryzC
01/29/22 1:53:10 AM
#93:


bsp77 posted...
Yeah, they are lol
Think this is a general thing? Or something else?

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Doom_Art
01/29/22 8:01:12 AM
#94:


Lol

So

She's away working on something in Mexico rn.

And she changed her profile pic

To her on a bench in touristy area

And the spot on the bench next to her has "Looking for the perfect man" written on the back and she's gesturing to it

And I'm like oh fuck all of this *unfollow*

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nfearurspecimn
01/29/22 1:04:51 PM
#95:


yeah you're out. time to move on sadly.

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MedeaLysistrata
01/29/22 1:06:27 PM
#96:


I had a ton of work crushes but never really made a move...

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Doom_Art
01/29/22 1:13:54 PM
#97:


nfearurspecimn posted...
yeah you're out. time to move on sadly.
Yea

I'm a big boi who can handle rejection and being broken up with, I've been in plenty of relationships.

It's just how sudden and severe a turn she seemed to take with no indication or explanation. Like a few days before ghostin we were chattin normally and she was all "Omg I haven't been over in a little while" and bringing up hangin out and stuff

Shit just fucks with my brain lol.

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Doom_Art
01/29/22 1:14:43 PM
#98:


MedeaLysistrata posted...
I had a ton of work crushes but never really made a move...
She made the move, actually.

Once when we just kinda kissed a bit a few years ago, then a few months ago when she kept trying to contrive shit to get me alone at my place.

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MedeaLysistrata
01/29/22 1:27:13 PM
#99:


Doom_Art posted...
She made the move, actually.

Once when we just kinda kissed a bit a few years ago, then a few months ago when she kept trying to contrive shit to get me alone at my place.
I wasn't saying it's the same thing lol

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BeantownHero
01/29/22 1:30:28 PM
#100:


Doom_Art posted...
Lol

So

She's away working on something in Mexico rn.

And she changed her profile pic

To her on a bench in touristy area

And the spot on the bench next to her has "Looking for the perfect man" written on the back and she's gesturing to it

And I'm like oh fuck all of this *unfollow*

Damn, streets cold


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