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NoxObscuras
06/16/22 2:28:33 PM
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epik_fail1 posted...
I mean. Not to be a jerk, but while I am not OP. That didn't work with my ex. The doctor even told him about health risks and he got offended and whined about a fatphobic doctor...
Yeah, some people won't change until they almost die. Hopefully TC's girlfriend listens to his concerns before she reaches that point. Just figured, if they've been together for a long time, it's worth offering support first.

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KYOJIROKAGENUMA
06/16/22 2:31:53 PM
#103:


Before I read this topic, I've gotta ask...

Why would you ask the CE board this question?

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2Pacavelli
06/16/22 2:37:00 PM
#104:


KYOJIROKAGENUMA posted...
Before I read this topic, I've gotta ask...

Why would you ask the CE board this question?

This is usually where I get my best life advice

CE is honest if anything
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Geist des Durcheinan
06/16/22 2:38:05 PM
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At 5' whatever and 200lbs you had to know she was a grower when you met her.

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WingsOfGood
06/16/22 2:38:25 PM
#106:


Do you love her?
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NeonOctopus
06/16/22 2:40:58 PM
#107:


KYOJIROKAGENUMA posted...
Before I read this topic, I've gotta ask...

Why would you ask the CE board this question?
Cuz anonymous people will be brutally honest, which people need sometimes

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2Pacavelli
06/16/22 2:41:30 PM
#108:


WingsOfGood posted...
Do you love her?

Yeah not as much in a romantic way but in a way that I really care about her and wish she succeeds
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KYOJIROKAGENUMA
06/16/22 2:47:56 PM
#109:


2Pacavelli posted...
This is usually where I get my best life advice

CE is honest if anything

I guess what I mean to say is, I feel like you already knew the responses you would get and needed to feel encouraged to make a brutally honest decision. But I guess there is really nothing wrong with that if that is the case...

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bsp77
06/16/22 2:50:46 PM
#110:


2Pacavelli posted...
Yeah not as much in a romantic way but in a way that I really care about her and wish she succeeds
That's... not good. You should end it

I still really care about my exes and hope they succeed and am still friends with a couple of them. But if you aren't feeling it, you need to find someone else. Sorry.

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TwigsthePnoDude
06/16/22 2:50:53 PM
#111:


If it bothers you, you should leave.

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ManaYuka
06/16/22 3:02:36 PM
#113:


200 is way too big for 53, let alone 280.

Your fighting an uphill battle, you can try to introduce healthy lifestyle like eating and working out, but unless she wants to change its useless. Just tell her to go to a physical and see if that scares her straight, if not, its a lost cause.

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Ivany2008
06/16/22 3:27:20 PM
#114:


ManaYuka posted...
200 is way too big for 53, let alone 280.

Your fighting an uphill battle, you can try to introduce healthy lifestyle like eating and working out, but unless she wants to change its useless. Just tell her to go to a physical and see if that scares her straight, if not, its a lost cause.

200 is perfect for 5'3. Then again... I like chubby women.
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I4NRulez
06/16/22 3:29:06 PM
#115:


Have an open talk with her. Youre entitled to your preferences and if you feel you're not attracted to her anymore because of it thats your right.

Maybe its something she wants to work on but can't find the motivation. Communication is key here.

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MaxEffingBemis
06/16/22 3:37:26 PM
#116:


2Pacavelli posted...
This is usually where I get my best life advice

CE is honest if anything
Ah, I feel like were getting trolled here fellas

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3PiesAndAFork
06/16/22 3:37:31 PM
#117:


Ivany2008 posted...
200 is perfect for 5'3. Then again... I like chubby women.
That ain't chubby. That's D.A.M.N

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Mistere Man
06/16/22 3:38:56 PM
#118:


3PiesAndAFork posted...
D.A.M.N
What does that stand for?

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Spidey5
06/16/22 3:43:49 PM
#119:


Mistere Man posted...
What does that stand for?
https://youtu.be/UfG1LL5n1z0

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Shablagoo
06/16/22 3:44:11 PM
#120:


3PiesAndAFork posted...
Follow her with a trumpet.

lol

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Mistere Man
06/16/22 4:02:09 PM
#121:


Spidey5 posted...
https://youtu.be/UfG1LL5n1z0
Oh I figured with the .'s maybe it was an acronym for something else.

And thank you.

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Slayerblade11
06/16/22 4:09:35 PM
#122:


280 at 5'3 she must be as wide as she is tall now
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DespondentDeity
06/16/22 4:11:56 PM
#123:


Her BMI is almost 50

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Slayerblade11
06/16/22 4:23:50 PM
#124:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vjetHZtehNQ
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Ivany2008
06/16/22 7:08:55 PM
#125:


3PiesAndAFork posted...
That ain't chubby. That's D.A.M.N

If you think that's DAMN then your so very innocent. My ex was 240, gorgeous woman outside of her mental state. Woman I'm trying to date now was 340, and is down to 260, but she lives too far for it to be anything serious.
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NeonOctopus
06/16/22 7:17:57 PM
#126:


I'd rather be innocent than go with that imo >_>

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MasterVading
06/16/22 7:33:36 PM
#127:


Dump her and move on.

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Sexypwnstar
06/16/22 9:45:25 PM
#128:


TC already liked em chunky if she was 200 and 5'3

He knew what he was getting into

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ShineboxPhil
06/16/22 9:53:25 PM
#129:


this is a great thread

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Illuminoius
06/17/22 7:11:28 AM
#130:


the responses in this thread are fucking disgusting
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refmon
06/17/22 12:09:27 PM
#131:


MasterVading posted...
Dump her and move on.


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ThyCorndog
06/17/22 12:39:05 PM
#132:


haloiscoolisbak posted...
Man the harpoons
Lmao

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NeonOctopus
06/17/22 12:40:23 PM
#133:


haloiscoolisbak posted...
Man the harpoons
I havent heard this in a long time. Old CE used to say this all the time >_>

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Ving_Rhames
06/17/22 12:41:48 PM
#134:


Kaiganeer posted...
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God dammit lol

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Rayman2943
06/17/22 9:59:58 PM
#135:


Ivany2008 posted...
200 is perfect for 5'3. Then again... I like chubby women.
35.4 BMI.

That's morbidly obese. My god you people are the worst.

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Arcanine2009
06/17/22 10:02:02 PM
#136:


When someone gains that much weight that fast, I immediately think... Is their mental health bad? Did they go through a traumatic event and using food to comfort them? I feel like that's what happens a lot (although not all the time).

I would check to see if she is depressed first and see if you can do anything about it

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scorpion41
06/17/22 10:03:08 PM
#137:


Smash it harder TCmore cushion for the pushin

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ShineboxPhil
06/17/22 10:39:20 PM
#138:


scorpion41 posted...
Smash it harder TCmore cushion for the pushin

How do you even get it in over all the excess blubber build-up?

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Ivany2008
06/17/22 10:52:48 PM
#139:


Rayman2943 posted...
35.4 BMI.

That's morbidly obese. My god you people are the worst.

Oh god fucking forbid, someone actually likes something that you don't like. You people are the worst. Judging someones taste based on your own. And by the way, you should never use the BMI to determine someones health. That same index lists people who are 6'6 220 lbs as overweight. For males it doesn't account for lean fat, or muscle. Is it a measurement tool that can help determine whether or not you are healthy? Sure. But its not 1 to 1. The only way to find out if your healthy or not is to actually get tested by an actual doctor. Not by some guy on the internet who read a medical document once in his life.
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scorpion41
06/17/22 10:55:44 PM
#140:


ShineboxPhil posted...
How do you even get it in over all the excess blubber build-up?

Its not that hard unless youre a littlelacking.

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NeonOctopus
06/17/22 10:58:53 PM
#141:


scorpion41 posted...
Its not that hard unless youre a littlelacking.
There's gonna be a point where it'll be an impossible feat for everyone

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Maninstagnate
06/17/22 10:59:32 PM
#142:


Send her to me. I work her down to a fit weight and give her back.
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Rayman2943
06/17/22 11:40:30 PM
#143:


Ivany2008 posted...
Oh god fucking forbid, someone actually likes something that you don't like. You people are the worst. Judging someones taste based on your own. And by the way, you should never use the BMI to determine someones health. That same index lists people who are 6'6 220 lbs as overweight. For males it doesn't account for lean fat, or muscle. Is it a measurement tool that can help determine whether or not you are healthy? Sure. But its not 1 to 1. The only way to find out if your healthy or not is to actually get tested by an actual doctor. Not by some guy on the internet who read a medical document once in his life.
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/1/9/8/AARNb5AADWpe.png
Maybe it has to do with encouraging an unhealthy lifestyle?

Sure. A bmi for 35.4 for women is unhealthy. Especially for one that short.

You are denying science to fit your viewpoint.

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Ivany2008
06/18/22 12:04:52 AM
#144:


Rayman2943 posted...
Maybe it has to do with encouraging an unhealthy lifestyle?

Sure. A bmi for 35.4 for women is unhealthy. Especially for one that short.

You are denying science to fit your viewpoint.

No, I'm telling you that I like something you don't. If you like women who are skinny, more power to you, I'm happy for you. But don't push your values on to other people because you want to try and feel superior. I've been around a long time, and that shit don't fly with me. I like what I like, you like what you like. Leave it at that.

Don't get it twisted, even I have my limits, as I found out recently when I fooled around with a woman who was 340 lbs. It just didn't work. She didn't eat unhealthy, she just wasn't active, and being someone who is 32 years old, your metabolism slows down. Mind you, she's lost 75 lbs in the past 5 months, so its a lot better now, but we live too far apart that we can only see each other every 3-4 months.
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Rayman2943
06/18/22 1:16:45 AM
#145:


Ivany2008 posted...
No, I'm telling you that I like something you don't. If you like women who are skinny, more power to you, I'm happy for you. But don't push your values on to other people because you want to try and feel superior. I've been around a long time, and that shit don't fly with me. I like what I like, you like what you like. Leave it at that.

Don't get it twisted, even I have my limits, as I found out recently when I fooled around with a woman who was 340 lbs. It just didn't work. She didn't eat unhealthy, she just wasn't active, and being someone who is 32 years old, your metabolism slows down. Mind you, she's lost 75 lbs in the past 5 months, so its a lot better now, but we live too far apart that we can only see each other every 3-4 months.
Lol.

35.4 is not chubby stop. You actively push an unhealthy lifestyle.

Don't normalize obesity


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Rayman2943
06/19/22 1:36:34 AM
#147:


@bsp77

I blocked you because you were being a complete asshole to me and bringing up my personal life in a topic for calling someone a vegan

Of course. You are an angry middle aged divorcee going through a crisis lol.

You will never be young again and you can't even get the women you want lol.

Otoh, I have options as a bi guy

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bsp77
06/19/22 8:55:29 AM
#149:


Rayman2943 posted...
@bsp77

I blocked you because you were being a complete asshole to me and bringing up my personal life in a topic for calling someone a vegan

Of course. You are an angry middle aged divorcee going through a crisis lol.

You will never be young again and you can't even get the women you want lol.

Otoh, I have options as a bi guy
@Rayman2943

Other than being divorced, nothing you said is true. Well, I guess I won't be young again either lol. But I do have the woman I want and am not having a crisis. I am happy, and maybe one day you will be too and not feel driven to be an asshole to all vegans for no reason*. I called you on it, and you decided to block me because you couldn't handle the criticism. However, it is possible I went too far, as I occasionally did that in the past, but I have been being much better as of late. So if I responded in a way that beyond what the argument called for, I apologize for going too far.

Ultimately, I don't let one interaction dictate what I think of someone anyway. I don't hold grudges. More than happy to move on if you are.

*maybe you are happy and just were having an off day or something. I've been there.

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Rayman2943
06/19/22 9:33:28 AM
#150:


bsp77 posted...
@Rayman2943

Other than being divorced, nothing you said is true. Well, I guess I won't be young again either lol. But I do have the woman I want and am not having a crisis. I am happy, and maybe one day you will be too and not feel driven to be an asshole to all vegans for no reason*. I called you on it, and you decided to block me because you couldn't handle the criticism. However, it is possible I went too far, as I occasionally did that in the past, but I have been being much better as of late. So if I responded in a way that beyond what the argument called for, I apologize for going too far.

Ultimately, I don't let one interaction dictate what I think of someone anyway. I don't hold grudges. More than happy to move on if you are.

*maybe you are happy and just were having an off day or something. I've been there.
Nah lol. You clearly lost your house and can't even see your daughters daily.

You done goofed and are trying to compensate.

Enjoy the alimony + child support + shrinking dating pool.

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Rayman2943
06/19/22 9:42:25 AM
#151:


See when parents divorce. The kids get really sad in ways they don't tell you.

I honestly feel had for all kids whose parents cant get along lmao

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DespondentDeity
06/19/22 9:43:10 AM
#152:


Is that why youre such a fuckin clown @Rayman2943 ?

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