Revelation34 posted...Currant_Kaiser posted...
But how long had you been dating?
Doesn't even sound like they were actually dating.
Technically, you're correct. We didn't go on an actual date, as she was from a family that was still very traditional (Her father was against her getting a job in the first place). Even being engaged is frowned upon. To these people, you're either married and allowed to be with her daughter, or you're not and you need to stay away as far as possible. There was no in-between.
Still, where there's a will there's a way. We made do with what we could as we chatted around the office. And even then we needed to be discreet.