Last Topic: 9:23:57pm, 05/04/2024
Last Post: 8:24:06pm, 01/15/2024
I've been in and out of your topics, and haven't read every post. I'm coming up on the tenth anniversary of my late husband's death in March, and I recognize so much of my emotional state back then with much of what you've posted. This time of year always hurts a little, even now. I was only a caregiver for about six months; he was diagnosed with metastatic cancer in March 2013, and passed in 2014. Most of it was good quality of life, but his last few months he declined rapidly. There came a point where all we could give him was love. I have my regrets, one big one in particular, but he left this world surrounded by friends and family and love. I held his hand when he died.
I have made my peace with it, as much as I can, anyway. I am happily remarried, and have a good relationship with my late husband's family. Everything you're feeling is perfectly natural. It will always hurt some, but like you said, you're happy you had your time together and wouldn't trade it for anything. That's really all you need.
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