Funny because psychic attraction is like the most important thing to me. Physical is still important, but I've been psychically attracted to only a few people in my life, and only 2 of them where female.
I can be psychially attracted to a guy and not be phsycially attracted to them (my best friend when I was in my 20's, I enjoyed doing just about anything with him.
My wife was like that as well, I enjoyed doing just about anything with her.
It's hard for me to even think about dating someone that isn't like that but I have a few times in the past, and have considered it a bunch more (Even recently).
Honestly though, being attracted to someone, or enjoying their company enough that almost anything you do with them is fun/enjoyable etc, is the most important thing to me by far. I don't find guys physically attractive, but I would rather "date" a guy that I had that connection with over a girl I didn't.
It's super rare (at least for me) to find anyone like that though, I have lucked out a few times in my life though, so far.
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