New coworker thinks I'm pathetic. *Sigh*

Also, you could make this super easy. When it comes up, and she gets judgmental, just be like "What? Do you want to help me out with this problem?" and **** her in the break room. These things happen, and it usually starts with a girl being super nosey. Women are only like that when they want to learn more about you and they prefer learning about what they find interesting.