Let HR deal with herYou would report someone to HR for asking personal questions even if you never asked them to stop?
To which she straight up asked if I was a virgin, and I was nervous to answer so she figured it out.
you caring about being a virgin is what's pathetic.Yeah, TC is the problem there and not his bitch co-worker
Yeah, TC is the problem there and not his bitch co-worker
Sounds like she was interested in you but you felt pitiful about yourself and made her change her mind and feel the same.If that were the case it's more likely she just didn't want to deal with someone with no experience at TC's age. Because the vast majority of women don't. So why should he feel any different than he does now?
Rate her looks on a scale of 1-10?
I would expect my coworkers to be professionals so that I wouldnt have to talk to HR for anything regarding them. If they fail to act professional, thats on them.All work and no play makes for a dull day.
Now I'm the one training her since she was...since she was rehired. I got paired with her again to make sure remembers the computer system. It took less than 20 minutes before she was prodding about my personal life because she remembered. My anxiety kicked in and I clammed up, which made her angry and fuss at me for making things awkward. Every time I'd answer something she'd judge.
Rate her looks on a scale of 1-10?Totally average, 5.0
How old are you? If you don't mind me asking.The opening post didn't really sound like she was being an asshole, but just nosy/curious. Your 2nd post makes it sound like she's an ass though.I'm 37. So, was 34ish when we first met. I wouldn't say she's an ass, she's nice, she's just very... intrusive? I am not comfortable around her, simply because of the way she asks things.
...since she was rehired. I got paired with her again to make sure remembers the computer system. It took less than 20 minutes before she was prodding about my personal life because she remembered. My anxiety kicked in and I clammed up, which made her angry and fuss at me for making things awkward. Every time I'd answer something she'd judge.Wait wait wait... TC, do you know how old she is? If she's younger than you, asking about your relationship status/past relationships and trying to convince you that dating a younger woman is better... C'mon man.
She told me I'd have to go for a younger woman if I wanted kids, then judged me for saying I'd rather date someone my age or a bit younger.
This is stressful. She's training at the other hotel Monday-Wednesday and I just hope I'm not paired with her again.
Also, I wasn't for sure if I was gonna post this. I was gonna type it out and see how I felt, but it got posted anyways. Sorry.
Wait wait wait... TC, do you know how old she is? If she's younger than you, asking about your relationship status/past relationships and trying to convince you that dating a younger woman is better... C'mon man.She's 28, but I seriously doubt she has any interest in me with the amount of judgement she passed on me being this way.
you caring about being a virgin is what's pathetic.That's only part of it. I've explained it many times before, that part of the situation isn't what bothers me. It's being unable to find anyone, and feeling inferior. It's what sex represents that I want, that I could manage to find someone to want to be with me, that despite my shortcomings that they'd be willing to share a part of themselves with me(physical or relationship wise). I want a real connection, and it stands to reason that if one could tick all the boxes to get sex, they'd tick them for simply finding a partner.
Let HR deal with herPretty much.
if you play your cards right, shed probably be down to have pity sex, no cap
Pretty much.Nah, that would be a bitch move.
Report her to HR and don't discuss anything personal with her.
She seems like a trainwreck waiting to happen.
Yeah OP should definitely spontaneously try and tounge her arsehole I agree.5 is perfectly average, nothing wrong or unfuckable about it.
Edit: if she's pretty
Oh I see you rated her a 5. Better get an injunction against her.
5 is perfectly average, nothing wrong or unfuckable about it.Yeah, I ****ed a 6/10 the other night and it was some of the wildest NHB porn sex I have ever had. I would definitely be willing to **** a 5 at this point.
TC your next topic should be either "I got fired for asking my annoying coworker to fuck me" or "I fucked my annoying coworker"
5 is perfectly average, nothing wrong or unfuckable about it.
TC your next topic should be either "I got fired for asking my annoying coworker to fuck me" or "I fucked my annoying coworker"
What other people think about you does not matter. They will think what you project. Project patheticness and they will reciprocate those sentiments.I am pretty awkward. It takes me so long to become comfortable with someone, it's ridiculous. In this case, it was more than that. I was worried she'd remember, embarrassed that she did, and offput by her questions again. I can generally hide my patheticness, but not this time.
Why was she so nosy?Idk... She just is. She even admitted that she knows that she asks uncomfortable questions, but that wouldn't stop her. Then she acted like she was offended when I stopped giving many answers.
I'll wait for the full context before I say something snarkyI dont have any more to give. Previous coworker got rehired, remembered something personal she learned about 3 years ago, and brought it up again with a TON of other personal questions.
Yeah, I ****ed a 6/10 the other night and it was some of the wildest NHB porn sex I have ever had. I would definitely be willing to **** a 5 at this point.I know, I saw the topic. I purposefully avoided posting there.
Given his posting history/gimmick -- yes.
Now that I'm caught up, this sums up TC well.At least I'm getting a couple of tags out of this topic. :/