Have you ever questioned your sexuality or gender?

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HighSeraph
05/19/2024
01:56 PM
#1
Yes, I'm still questioning my sexuality lol
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TimeForAction
05/19/2024
01:57 PM
#2
Nope

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Dungeater
05/19/2024
01:59 PM
#4
yea. I'm on the other side now, took not that long surprisingly

tho now i question my sexuality regarding kink community stuff

but I'm confident in terms of my gender and who I'm attracted to
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UnholyMudcrab
05/19/2024
01:59 PM
#5
Only to the extent that I realized I was asexual sometime after high school
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Darkfire12
05/19/2024
02:01 PM
#6
very much so

sexuality's the eternal question-- gender not so much anymore because i'm pretty confident that i'm a tgirl, but it still gets pretty bad at times
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Mistere_Man
05/19/2024
02:02 PM
#7
Yes.
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archizzy
05/19/2024
02:02 PM
#8
Never. From my earliest memory I knew 100% what I was. Never once doubted that.
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IronChef_Kirby
05/19/2024
02:03 PM
#9
UnholyMudcrab posted...
Only to the extent that I realized I was asexual sometime after high school
I started thinking about whether I was asexual in high school, but when I mentioned it to a friend she mocked me and shut me down, so I stopped thinking about it until a few years ago. I am now fairly certain that I am asexual, but sometimes I still question it a bit.
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Probo93
05/19/2024
02:05 PM
#10
From what I can remember, no, not at all.
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LonelyStoner
05/19/2024
02:06 PM
#11
When I was younger I thought I might be bisexual. Then I realized Im just a straight guy who cares about his appearance and has no issues acknowledging how handsome other men can be.

I was brought up southern Baptist, too, so any characteristics that werent blatantly toxic masculinity was met with ridicule and other forms of bullying. Some more severe than others.
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Giacomo_Hawkins
05/19/2024
02:06 PM
#12
Gay man brought up in a Southern Baptist family

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Pikachuchupika
05/19/2024
02:07 PM
#13
Nope. Always knew what I liked or who I am as early as 9/10 years old.
ScazarMeltex
05/19/2024
02:14 PM
#14
Nope. 100% straight. I can look at other dudes and see why people might find them attractive, but thus far I've never seen a dude that I myself find attractive.
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Kradek
05/19/2024
02:14 PM
#15
Due to an incident in my early childhood I know for a fact that I'm straight.

And sometimes I feel like that's a shame because I've had more gay dudes take an interest in me than women over the years and if sexuality actually was a choice I'd choose to be bi or maybe even just go full gay. I can't imagine my romantic life would possibly be even more miserable than it is now.
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Finis-XII
05/19/2024
02:17 PM
#16
Nope.
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Thompson
05/19/2024
02:22 PM
#17
Asexual with a smidgen of biromantic tendencies, and some form of non-binary thrown in as well, because sometimes I feel like I am a sapient entity rather than a gender.
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NoxObscuras
05/19/2024
02:24 PM
#18
Nope. I've always been secure about my sexuality. I can admit when a dude is hot without questioning that I'm hetero.
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UnicornRaline
05/19/2024
02:42 PM
#19
I'm trans so I used to.
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ai123
05/19/2024
02:47 PM
#20
Not so far. If I was going to, it likely would have happened by now.
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Notti
05/22/2024
07:41 AM
#21
Yes.

Reconfirmed, straight.
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bigblu89
05/22/2024
07:43 AM
#22
archizzy posted...
Never. From my earliest memory I knew 100% what I was. Never once doubted that.
Same.

Can I admit another man is handsome/good looking? Absolutely.

Have I ever been attracted to one? No.
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Ratchetrockon
05/22/2024
07:51 AM
#23
My gender when I was a child. I wanted to be my mom so bad. Id make up scenarios in my head about a genderswapped version of me and play out certain events. Also I wanted my mom's attention so bad all the time. I used to get jealous when she gave my dad attention lmao. I was so weird.

IDR when I became content with being a guy it was before middleschool though

I'm still not sure about my sexuality. Kinda too shy to pursue same sex for sexual stuff. I got pretty close twice but just backed out last minute for one and the other scenario I really was too drunk at the time (to consent) so someone stepped in to stop it.
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GranAures
05/22/2024
08:17 AM
#24
Questioned? Not really. It all just kind of clicked and felt right when I posited for like five seconds if I was some form of ace and nb.
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DementedDurian
05/22/2024
09:16 AM
#25
Around eleven or so I decided I wanted to be a girl.

Even since then, I've noticed a blistering jealousy when I saw young girls in public and had to keep my emotions in check when I do.

I also have a family who the most part refuse to acknowledge my dysphoria, even when I had a panic attack because of it. Only my dad really does and the rest think I'm stressing myself out for "no reason".

*sigh* Talking about this used to be cathartic, but my current situation with nothing being done just reminds me of my woes once again.
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Southernfatman
05/22/2024
09:22 AM
#26
I'm technically non-binary(?) or gender fluid(?) from what I've read, but I outwardly and publicly identify as male. If I had total privacy at home, I'd probably dress and such as female more than male if not always. It's complicated and I don't really know where I stand in all of this.

I questioned my sexuality around age 12-ish when I thought my friend/neighbor was cute plus other things. Took a while to really accept my bi/pan-sexuality given the time period and where I live. Still in the closet, but I'm happy with myself regarding that.
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Xenogears15
05/22/2024
09:24 AM
#27
Sexuality yes, gender no.
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fsurb28
05/22/2024
09:25 AM
#28
Ummmmm no, I know what I see down there.
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DaxNovalis
05/22/2024
09:33 AM
#29
No, always been straight.
KitKats
05/22/2024
09:44 AM
#30
fsurb28 posted...
Transphobia rears its ugly head once again.

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Miquella
05/22/2024
10:13 AM
#31
I questioned my sexuality very early on. All my school friends were into girls while I was very much attracted to guys. Took a while to accept it.
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Robot2600
05/22/2024
10:35 AM
#33
bi/queer so yes there was some confusion, mostly bc of bisexual erasure

Anyway I just wanted to say sexuality can be fluid--to all the straights, gays, and aces, you can "try out" being bi if you want to
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Bass
05/22/2024
10:42 AM
#34
Not sexuality. I always knew I was attracted to women.

I have often wished I was born the other sex, though. I remember wishing that from a young age. I don't have dysphoria, so I don't want to take the steps to transition. Especially in the current climate. If I could press a magic button to change I would, though.
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KitKats
05/22/2024
11:23 AM
#35
Im surprised post #28 is still up. Denying trans people exist is textbook transphobia.
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Jeff_AKA_Snoopy
05/22/2024
11:33 AM
#36
Not really.

I've always known my gender for sure. Never been a question, but I'm lucky in the sense my gender is reflected in society and my reproductive organs.

My sexuality, I've always enjoyed physical contact. Men, women, didn't matter. I'm a hugger and sometimes it made me wonder because lots of people conflate physical contact with a sexual attraction. I also appreciate male bodies that look good. Like, the aesthetic of a male body.

I do not want to have a sexual experience with a man though. That thought doesn't excite me. It doesn't repulse me or anything like that, I just don't get aroused by men. So I'm straight. *shrug*
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Evolician
05/22/2024
11:40 AM
#37
Im way to obsessed with boobs to be gay but at the same time I think Id kiss a dude if he was pretty enough.
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gatorsPENSbucs
05/22/2024
11:43 AM
#38
No
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Guide
05/22/2024
11:44 AM
#39
nope
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TheOnionKnight
05/22/2024
12:08 PM
#40
Never questioned my gender, but I don't know what to call my sexuality anymore. One of my partners came out as a trans man while we were dating a few years ago. When he finally transitioned, we broke up amicably since neither of us thought it would work out. But we got back together earlier this year to see if it could work, since we've still got a strong bond. I'm very open-minded with sex and have tried lots of experimental stuff over the years with many diverse partners, but this current relationship is a mind-fuck in so many ways. It has basically destroyed all the conventional categorization systems for sexuality in my mind. Even a catch-all term like pansexual seems inadequate.
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TMOG
05/22/2024
12:09 PM
#41
Yes, I wasn't sure for years if I was straight or gay because neither option didn't feel right, and neither did bi. It was actually Bojack Horseman that helped me realize that asexuality is a thing and that I'm ace.
SauI_Goodman
05/22/2024
12:12 PM
#42
I watched a gay porno once. Didn't do anything for me.
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Guide
05/22/2024
12:16 PM
#43
SauI_Goodman posted...
I watched a gay porno once. Didn't do anything for me.

Way back when "is being gay a choice??" was the cultural zeitgeist, I tried deeding to gay porn and it hurt my brain, like physically felt like some kind of friction burn in my skull, and I couldn't get an erection for most of the week after. A painful experiment, but it answered that question for me, and gave me sympathy for the movement.
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KitKats
05/22/2024
12:28 PM
#44
Bass posted...
Not sexuality. I always knew I was attracted to women.

I have often wished I was born the other sex, though. I remember wishing that from a young age. I don't have dysphoria, so I don't want to take the steps to transition. Especially in the current climate. If I could press a magic button to change I would, though.
Its actually common for trans women to not realize they have gender dysphoria or to believe its not that bad before transitioning, due to trauma associated with depersonalization and repression.
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