Lurker > bsp77

The hell? There's nothing wrong with trying to court more than one person.

Your opinion. It's pretty weird in mine.

I specifically said that I find it disrepectful to be openly dating 2 people.

It's kind of a long story. Here's a summary to catch you up on CE lore.
-sktgamer's girlfriend passes away unexpectedly a while before the following incidents, and he makes a couple topics discussing his shock and sorrow
-someone posts news story of a gay man who was murdered by a college football player after pretending to be a woman on tinder
-initially it wasn't fully clear he was a gay man and not a trans woman misgendered by the article, and gunplagirl introduces the topic of trans bigotry and victimization
-sktgamer posts some reddit comment from some random purporting to have heard of the victim, claiming that he made a habit of luring underage men
-gunplagirl and sktgamer get into it, and sktgamer tosses some fuel on the fire by saying some transphobic things
-gunplagirl makes a post to the effect that since he'd recently lost someone, sktgamer should understand how she feels about trans victims
-he blows up and starts attacking her for what he perceives as a jab at his girlfriend and iirc even makes a veiled death threat before being suspended, she deletes the post to try to sweep it under the rug but gets suspended as well anyway
-much fierce debate about the incident over the next couple days, cyricz and a few others defend her while a few on the other side attack them
-sktgamer eventually comes back from suspension and starts lashing out some more at gunplagirl and the people defending her (prominently including cyricz), who after a couple weeks of it retaliates by telling him that his girlfriend would be ashamed of him
-cyricz gets warned and makes a pseudo-apology to the world at large about how he regrets stooping down to sktgamer's level
-people eventually get sick of ranting about it after a while

Its delicious and its no more expensive than the alternative. Theyre also polite, which is a pleasant change

Near the center. Not sure which side I'm closer to, anymore, though.

Me too. Still am, but used to be, too

He literally said he wasn't that into her.

I didn't say he was.

That was a response to what you said:
"go after the two at the same time"

Like I said, I wouldnt like it if a girl I like is "going after" another dude while also going after me.

I find it disrespectful and cringe.

Huh

oh right. Forgive me Mr. Experienced.

I'm clueless because I don't promote seeing 2 people at the same time, sure.

Yes.

I know *I* wouldn't feel good if I found out a girl I'm getting involved with romantically is actually getting involved with another dude at the same time.

I don't know. Basic respect?

More like it sounds like he wasn't really into that girl.

Irrelevant. Just flirting with 2 people at the same time, especially when you're open about it seems pretty cringe.

Ugh.

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I think you may be looking too deep into what folks consider a hit colloquially

If we saw the video a lot we just thought it was somewhere in the zone of being some sort of hit

Idc enough though feel free to disagree, I won't fight back lol

Was good enough to be in a Tony Hawk game, and those games were known for their soundtrack.

Yes. They had 2 songs. This and the one tc mentioned.

Wish?

https://youtu.be/-NPLYBIwjjg

To be fair, back when I was on the dating scene I rejected a few women that apparently have never been turned away.

Totally lost their minds and became instant bratty bitches!

Kind of a long story but we stopped dating... My call. She was Nepalese, wanted to get way too serious too quick. she actually talked about her family trying to set her up for an arranged marriage during our first conversation online and if the next Aussie guy she met wasted her time she'd consider it, she'd just had a 9 month situationship. I remember being unsure if she was kind of a traditional or modern woman or somewhere in between.

I give pretty girls a lot of rope and am pretty open minded so was still happy to meet and see where it went, and things went pretty well for the first 3 or so dates.

When I realised it would probably not be a good idea to continue seeing her since our values are pretty different I sent a message basically apologising for wasting her time and she understood or at least said she did

1. Never put all your eggs in one basket. You can go after both at the same time.
2. If you suck at texting, don't let it carry on for long. Ask them out early in the texting process. Actually, this is true even for people good at texting.

It's very frustrating when it's over a text misunderstanding. I fucking hate messaging people before I'm really comfortable with them lol

You'll ask yourself like "wait did she think that particular message was rude or sarcastic, did she think I was implying this when I said this".

I definitely get why people get upset and confused over ghosting

interesting to see such matter-of-fact tone in most of the takes here on "social skills" considering a full half of this forum admits to having literally zero (0) friends lol

Since you guys are fucking losers only talking about dating, I'm gonna bring up an entirely different point.

Job interviews.

The same people saying "just take the hint" probably shouldn't be agreeing to ghosting being a thing in job interviews, since a level of professionalism is expected. But it still happens. Doesn't matter if there were hundreds of applicants. A simple automated "you weren't selected" is all that's needed. Getting ghosted after weeks of interviewing sucks.

On the flip side, I've ghosted someone once after they canceled an interview on me one too many times. It felt good, but I was absolutely being an asshole doing so.

Good to know that you view human beings like a roulette wheel.

Maybe if you're only a few messages in. I still consider it ghosting if it's after we've already planned the first date though. And that's happened to me twice so far.

I don't get mad or anything, but most of the women I match with, put emphasis on how important communication is to them... so it's kind of like "practice what you preach?" lol

There's been times where I've gotten two or three texts and forget to text back so I feel like if I can ghost someone by accident then it isn't a clear communication strategy

instead of thinking well maybe she hasnt responded because shes been busy and then forgot or something

No need to question it, it's about 1 in 6.
https://www.rainn.org/statistics/scope-problem
Not good at all but a far cry from the ubiquity claimed by several ITT

You won't get modded btw, lol

I wouldn't say I don't consider CEpeople human, just very low quality ones

The problem with any argument that relies on anecdotal claims in place of evidence or statistics is that there's not many cards to play other than tossing ad hominems and other fallacies around

Fucking yikes.

All I said it wasn't 100%.

Oh okay, so they are just seeking attention like they usually do and their using the traumatic events of women they've allegedly met for it to boot.

Yikes.

Let me just say this, if your a homebody, dont try to make it work with an extrovert who loves going out all the time. Youll be miserable, and will start to resent each other.

That opposites attract be us just that,BS

This is alien to me, lmao. I haven't met a single human being, even my own family, that was actually mindful about my anxiety. My ex would literally just scream at me and tell me to "man up".