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| Topic | as a kid: "don't do drugs!" |
| hockeybub89 12/30/19 12:56:38 PM #4 | Who tells kids to never take the medicine kind of drugs? --- |
| Topic | How come people aren't allowed to attack cops in self defense |
| hockeybub89 12/30/19 12:53:40 PM #16 | gamer167 posted... Because despite the small handful of Officers that you hear about on the news that abuse their power, the other 800,000 are actually doing the right thing and arresting criminals in compliance with regulations.Still doesn't change that the bad cops can shoot basically anything that scares them and yet other people are supposed to maintain cool heads and keep the cop calm. Logically, shouldn't cops be the ones not getting any benefit of the doubt?They're the trained professionals paid to deal with high stress scenarios. A cop could shoot your child by accident and you'd be jailed and probably shot if you punched the taste out of their mouth. --- |
| Topic | Oh noo... Terry Crews has joined the dark side :( |
| hockeybub89 12/30/19 12:47:39 PM #16 | China definitely could stand for its people to have some more power. Maybe we can get a few more protests and riots against the government. --- |
| Topic | What are your favorite sports moments of the decade? |
| hockeybub89 12/29/19 7:20:14 PM #3 | Kick Six was pretty cool --- |
| Topic | How come people aren't allowed to attack cops in self defense |
| hockeybub89 12/29/19 7:14:56 PM #1 | Civilians are just humans. They fear for their lives. --- |
| Topic | Largest quantifiable number? |
| hockeybub89 12/29/19 7:08:45 PM #78 | |
| Topic | Cop admits he told homeless man to lick urinal to avoid arrest |
| hockeybub89 12/29/19 7:07:25 PM #30 | Scott_Farkus posted... What if someone broke into your home while you were sleeping? Would you call the cops? What about cops that lay down their lives to protect others? Did they give their life just because they were a bastard?I'm not going to respect everyone that does a job just because I might call on their services at some time. I don't respect any job. I respect individuals that may do a job if they aren't bastards or bastard defenders. A good cop that protects a bad cop would also be a bad cop. --- |
| Topic | Why is everyone here so damn pessimistic? |
| hockeybub89 12/29/19 7:00:03 PM #33 | Maybe depressed people should try smiling. --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/29/19 6:48:35 PM #318 | 2Privileged4U posted... It's not at all ridiculous to expect all PEOPLE to be honest about very basic information. Since when did the gender of the person you're dating become "personal information?"Their gender is not secret. Transgender is not a gender. It is perfectly normal and human for someone to not share their baggage with someone before they are comfortable with them. A trans woman is a woman. Whenever she becomes comfortable enough to share more information (now or later), it will either end the relationship or not just like any other potential dealbreaker/preference. Special treatment is expecting trans people to not handle privacy like every other person and instead tell you things on your schedule to save you a potential headache. My entire point has been how not special being trans is. Another person may or may not be attracted and information may be shared immediately or over time depending on the personality and experience of the trans person. Just like anyone else. 100% of people would vote that world peace would be ideal but that doesn't mean world peace is going to happen. 90% of people agreeing on an ideal does not automatically make it feasible. No one demands people share their other personal baggage in case of dealbreakers. Wouldn't it be ideal if a woman told a man she was mentally ill? Most men would probably not be attracted to mental illness if a stranger told them she had it. Is it common courtesy for those women to remove themselves from the pool? --- |
| Topic | Tulsi: Impeaching the Cheeto President will only embolden him. |
| hockeybub89 12/29/19 6:32:46 PM #20 | More like LOLsi She says she doesn't care about political advantage, but then argues that Trump shouldn't be impeached because it is not politically advantageous for Democrats. We should impeach Trump and hold all politicians more accountable for their actions if we really want to do what's right rather than what's advantageous. --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/29/19 2:07:43 PM #305 | 2Privileged4U posted... Our attractions are natural. Physical, mental and emotional. If you're not attracted to somebody, you're not attracted. No mental gymnastics or guilt trips are going to change that. Look at the poll and process what that means.Point to where I called anyone a bigot for not dating trans women. I literally haven't even advocated for them to never divulge that informnation. I just disagree that they have to do it up front. Only certain personalities will be able to do that. 2Privileged4U posted... You spun the FUCK out that post and added your own bullshit. Who said anything about a life story? You exaggerate, stretch the truth and everything else that's dishonest. No wonder you're advocating for more deception. (I'm not saying being trans in ITSELF is deception. Clarification for the impaired)Not everyone is comfortable sharing personal information to complete strangers. It is ridiculous to demand that all trans people act a certain way. They won't always be comfortable confiding into everyone they meet. It makes perfect sense that one might not be comfortable telling someone they are trans before they trust them as friends or something more. --- |
| Topic | i love how a topic about keeping america white is still up |
| hockeybub89 12/29/19 1:57:59 PM #20 | and yet somehow CE is called a liberal hugbox --- |
| Topic | Bill Belicheck's biggest mistake this season is not benching Tom Brady |
| hockeybub89 12/29/19 1:57:09 PM #6 | So someone else can throw and hand off to nobody while being protected by nobody? --- |
| Topic | Donald Trump died for our sins, apparently. |
| hockeybub89 12/29/19 1:52:47 PM #30 | But I thought impeachment was good for Trump --- |
| Topic | How do we encourage white people to have children? |
| hockeybub89 12/29/19 10:00:16 AM #56 | Blighboy posted... A single western baby is consuming enough resources for a half dozen developing countries.Sounds more like an equality issue than too many babies --- |
| Topic | How do we encourage white people to have children? |
| hockeybub89 12/29/19 9:50:38 AM #48 | Rika_Furude posted... With the amount of climate damage generated, it absolutely is.Sounds like we should have been and should be fighting climate change then. Makes more sense than saying we should make a multi generational effort to adjust to it. We could have more children and harm the environment less if we wanted to. --- |
| Topic | How do we encourage white people to have children? |
| hockeybub89 12/29/19 9:43:13 AM #42 | Rika_Furude posted... Overpopulation is a real issue. All races need to have less children.Not in the developed West it isn't. --- |
| Topic | Lila Kagedan, the first ever female Orthodox Jewish rabbi is pretty cute. |
| hockeybub89 12/29/19 9:39:44 AM #6 | |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/29/19 9:19:17 AM #288 | RickyTheBAWSE posted... giving people reasons to not trust you is not the way to start any sort of relationship, lolololol. platonic or otherwise. that's a dodged bullet for BOTH sides.So you don't trust anyone that doesn't give you their life story the first time you meet them? That kind of trust is earned. You have to unlock all the dialog options through leveling This kind of logic implies that the only reason someone would be slow to give information is because they are a deceitful liar. Everyone in the closet is deceitful. Everyone with some medical condition or repressed trauma is a lying asshole. You aren't allowed privacy and control of personal info if you want to interact with another human being. --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/29/19 9:13:39 AM #287 | 2Privileged4U posted... So you're saying that our attractions aren't natural, then? We have physical, emotional and mental attractions all across the board, but they aren't natural?I literally just said there is no such thing as an unnatural person. Why the hell would I be implying that everyone's acting unnaturally? --- |
| Topic | What's your favorite strand game? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 10:41:41 PM #5 | |
| Topic | Real talk: I am in the closet and don't know if I'll come out |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 7:49:59 PM #12 | Gakk86 posted... Seriously, don't worry about the sex and just go and find somebody you want to spend time with. If your personalities are compatible the sex will happen unless you actively resist it.Yeah I'm not really stressing over that part. It's that whole companionship thing that's been pressing on me. --- |
| Topic | Real talk: I am in the closet and don't know if I'll come out |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 7:46:54 PM #10 | MonkeyBones23 posted... Do you really not want sex, or have you just closed your mind to the idea because your fear of coming out/opening yourself up?I mean, I don't feel like I've ever really had a real urge tbh, but I'm not big on touching at all, so who knows what is really affecting what. I just know that I've always seen some guys and felt more than my typical anxiety; a bit of heart fluttering something more. That sounds so cheesy and clinical. My whole life has been a long buildup of courage to do things I should have addressed years earlier and this has been weighing on me now. I'm 30 years into my life and have never had any sort of romantic relationship. I need to at least test my limits. --- |
| Topic | Imagine panicking about GMOs in 2019 |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 6:12:49 PM #2 | GMOs and lab grown food can solve hunger if we can get past the fearmongering. --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 6:07:57 PM #255 | The Trent posted... It's a fact that it's the statistical majority, or normalityGo around calling everyone abnormal for being or thinking something that is outside a statistical majority and document the reactions. --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 6:00:38 PM #250 | ThePrinceFish posted... cis is the opposite prefix as transNormal is an irrelevant descriptor for human beings. Hitting normalcy on the generic lottery doesn't earn you more or less than the minorities. It's dehumanizing to use the word. --- |
| Topic | Trump is twitting crazy stuff. |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 5:57:58 PM #20 | Tweeting should become a removable offense in response to Trump. Twitter or elected government official. Take your pick. --- |
| Topic | Real talk: I am in the closet and don't know if I'll come out |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 5:40:24 PM #1 | I don't really have any desire for sex and I'm destructively self-conscious of what people might think, so I don't even know if I should tell them I am attracted to men. --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 5:37:33 PM #228 | BillORileyReid posted... I can only imagine every bar conversation. 100 people going to eachother "Hi I'm a cis and I only date cis people, what's your name?"Yes I agree that neither cis or trans people should interact with anyone in such a way. You're catching on. --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 5:36:15 PM #226 | Wewillrocku posted... why not?Because the world sucks and is trying to kill everyone --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 5:35:33 PM #224 | BillORileyReid posted... Stop avoiding posts @hockeybub89Every person is as expected. No one is more expected than another. --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 5:33:31 PM #220 | Akagami_Shanks posted... A lot of things aren't easy to do, dry your eyes and accept the situation at hand.But the situation is all the things that are hard to do are not just done anyway. I bet you think depressed people should just cheer up and talk out their feelings. You're expecting simple solutions in a complex world. Disney movies aren't real. --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 5:27:20 PM #212 | Wewillrocku posted... what do you mean by this? pride (about who you are) has always been part of lgbt.They celebrate it because it has always been extremely difficult for people throughout history to come out. The community and its allies know it is still very hard out there for a lot of people to no longer feel shame. Many parts of the world are legislating against and sometimes even killing LGBT folk. They can face incredible difficulties from the friends and family that are supposed to love them, just for admitting they were born different. Again, all human beings are different. Just because some people can easily come forward doesn't mean all can. Past experiences shape us and some people need to feel safe with someone before they can tell them all. --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 5:22:33 PM #205 | 2Privileged4U posted... Please elaborate.I mean, there is no such thing as an unnatural person. "It's natural that people won't be attracted to trans people" is dehumanizing and tells on the type of person who would say it. It implies any attracted to a trans person is acting against nature. It shows ignorance about homosexuality as well since trans men or trans women can be gay, straight, or bi. It all just proves a bigger agenda than "People have dating preferences". --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 5:11:25 PM #190 | BillORileyReid posted... Do gay people naturally assume that a straight person wants to date them?Why would a man attracted to men assume a man attracted to women wants to date them? --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 5:10:05 PM #188 | "Natural" is an interesting choice of words in reference to trans people --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 5:08:55 PM #187 | Akagami_Shanks posted... tbh hiding something like that is only setting yourself up for disappointment, lets just be realistic and not live in some idea fantasylandYou say realistic and ignore the reality that it isn't always that easy to share something like being trans to complete strangers. It's not even always easy to share it with family, or even yourself. --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 5:07:15 PM #183 | BillORileyReid posted... Is sexual orientation not an intimate detail? If so, how do gay relationships happen without somebody disclosing?Because two same sex people flirt with each other and stick together after the relationship progresses and doesn't crumble when more specific personal details are disclosed over time? --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 4:58:21 PM #174 | BillORileyReid posted... This is all fine and dandy but how the fuck are they going to go the entire relationship without the other person finding out?Who is saying trans people should never ever tell a person? Intimate details require intimacy. --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 4:51:57 PM #166 | Umbreon posted... But yeah.But have they considered that they might be wasting a cis person's time? /s Seriously though, this is what I've been saying. --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 4:50:20 PM #164 | BillORileyReid posted... How would a gay guy know a guy was gay without that guy letting him know he was gay?This is a sad attempt --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 4:46:09 PM #162 | BillORileyReid posted... I'm curious how gay relationships happen when they're not supposed to let anyone know they were gay.How would a gay guy accidentally date a woman or accidentally get romantic with a straight man? --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 4:43:30 PM #157 | EffectAndCause posted... Like I said, its about giving the guy a choice and personal safety. Plus, again, if you get the vibe that the guy is someone youre hesitant to tell, thats a huge red flag that you shouldnt even be ON that date.But why does the responsibility have to be on the trans person? Why can't the cis guy also be mindful of safety and bad reactions? "There's far fewer trans people" is not a valid reason. I feel like it's unhealthy to think about worst case scenarios anyway. Will trans people feel comfortable existing if we teach them that need to tell everyone for their own personal safety? --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 4:36:44 PM #147 | BillORileyReid posted... Would you want to date a white supremacist?I feel like that situation is different as white supremacy is a pure choice rather than a legitimate birth condition. White supremacists also don't have a history of being oppressed by law and being disowned by their families and friends. They likely developed those beliefs because of the company they keep. But no matter what, what would be nice is not the same as the reality that not everyone is equally comfortable sharing things to people at the same point in relationships. And if future information ruins a once budding relationship, then oh well. You dated a Nazi. You win some, you lose some. Things happen. Your attempt to emotionally manipulate my stance does not change the fact that humans have many reasons why they might not share things before they feel comfortable. --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 4:24:24 PM #136 | The Trent posted... I knew she didnt have a dick and that was a solid starting point for me to find out the restDid she tell you or did you ask? Surely it wasn't just assumed. --- |
| Topic | WTF is a 2nd amendment sanctuary? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 4:22:38 PM #27 | I heard you can't just refuse to enforce the law. But I guess that only applies to deporting illegals --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 4:20:12 PM #128 | The Trent posted... I dunno man I married a woman who was born a woman because I like womenAnd you knew everything about her and anyone you previously dated before you ever went on a date? --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 4:16:13 PM #125 | The Trent posted... Ball dont lie bruhShould all mental and physical illness be revealed before a date? Criminal record? History of abuse or other past trauma? Social and economic leanings? Religious affiliation, etc? Lots of things can wind up killing a relationship. No one ever dates before passing out resumes? Human beings have a lot of personal feelings. Lots of people need intimacy before they can gather the courage to bare their soul. --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 4:09:30 PM #121 | EffectAndCause posted... In any other situation, yes, they absolutely have the right to privacy.Ah so only certain trans people are allowed to seek human companionship. And everyone that doesn't unveil all potential dealbreakers to all potential companions at first blush is a deceitful asshole. All because asking your own questions is too much of a bother. You say you're arguing for courtesy when all you're doing is changing who is allowed to be "selfish". --- |
| Topic | Should a trans person reveal they are trans before a date? |
| hockeybub89 12/28/19 4:04:07 PM #114 | EffectAndCause posted... Many men are not interested in dating trans women, its a widely known dealbreaker that should be disclosed before the date. Also known are the very dangerous consequences of NOT telling the wrong guy until afterward.So trans people aren't allowed privacy or diversity of personality because they need to be afraid that most people want nothing to do with them? Do your own homework. --- |
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