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TopicLAPD executing mentally disabled people now and attacking their families
TommyG663513
06/17/19 12:31:59 PM
#13
Zikten posted...
CableZL posted...
So the officer's argument is that the whole family was attacking him?

he probably will try to claim that. it's the only way to try to explain why he shot the parents.


I mean, wouldn't you attack a crazy person who just shot your son in public?
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TopicLAPD executing mentally disabled people now and attacking their families
TommyG663513
06/17/19 12:28:56 PM
#12
eston posted...
If you're holding your child and someone physically attacks you, that is absolutely a situation in which deadly force would be justified, especially if you have no way of knowing if the person who "jumped on you" is armed.

What makes this story contentious is the unlikelihood of that being what happened. I guess we'll see when/if the CCTV footage gets released.


The average person doesn't carry a gun on them so you'd absolutely try to punch them. You also have the option of just running away. This was in a Costco so a very public place.

I mean, the cop shot both the parents too so I'm just gonna take a random guess and say he probably overreacted.
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TopicAre all Disney villains Incels?
TommyG663513
06/17/19 2:26:11 AM
#4
Jafar definitely
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Topic10 year old held at gunpoint by cop.
TommyG663513
06/15/19 1:07:43 PM
#34
RickyTheBAWSE posted...
police are a protected class. they're the state's revenue collectors, and it would be financially harmful to change police culture to serve the citizens.

they don't even get encouraged to deescalate. if they bully and antagonize somebody into reacting in a way to "make them feel threatened," they can justify murder/brutality/arrest.

they've killed children before.


horrible how accurate this is
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Topicso im a teacher. today a students parent yelled at another child
TommyG663513
06/15/19 5:29:45 AM
#7
An overreaction by the parent for sure, but she still has some reason to be upset. I get that kids horseplay and you need to be flexible with that, but there are lines.

Though ultimately the mother's overreaction is certainly more troubling than kids screwing around.
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TopicRemember The Titans is on, amazing movie.
TommyG663513
06/14/19 8:46:18 PM
#3
The movie was sort of ruined for me when I researched the actual events and discovered just how much of the reality was altered for the movie. Like it was very significant. The movie was a fairy tale.

Miracle is a film that actually captures the facts of an event while still being a great film. Pretty rare at how dramatic the real events of that film were. They really didn't have to change anything to make it movie worthy.

I still think Remember the Titans is a good film, but I enjoyed it more when I thought it was real.
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TopicAnimal Rights Activists Chain Themselves to Slaughter Machine, Instant Regret
TommyG663513
06/14/19 8:40:51 PM
#26
Sexypwnstar posted...
Basically:

They all go in like they think they're Ninjas and own the place while calling out shots like they're military generals.

They then start themselves up to a slaughter rack, it moves a little and they're like "HOLY FUCKING SHIT!!! FUCK! OH GOD WTF!" and bail out (and get lost), then they just sit indian style holding dead ducks and crying.


pretty hilarious how fast they crumble
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TopicWomen's US soccer team under fire for over celebrating, other team left in tears
TommyG663513
06/12/19 3:24:24 PM
#79
If my first WC goal was the 11th goal in a 13-0 win then I don't know if I'd be too thrilled.

Eh, it is the WC though. May as well get whatever goals you can. Tourney is once every four years and for many players this is their only opportunity to play in a WC.

As long as they weren't taunting opposing players or doing choreographed celebrations then I don't have a problem with it.
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TopicJoe Rogan Reacts to YouTube Demonetizing Steven Crowder
TommyG663513
06/10/19 6:09:06 PM
#53
So beyond this guys (Crowder) recent use of homophobic insults/slurs at an individual what makes him so hated?

I never heard of him until this topic. Wiki'd him and it looks like he is a conservative social commentator. I'm sure I disagree with him a lot more than I agree just based on that, but I don't see a reason to hate him.

Is he much different than Ben Shapiro? I don't really like him or agree with him very often, but I don't see a reason to hate him or anything.

Is a big part of this just far left people displaying a tendency to label anything conservative leaning as ALT right?
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TopicHow is Frank Underwood not a fatass?
TommyG663513
06/10/19 6:00:44 PM
#6
Smashingpmkns posted...
Pretty sure this is a minor plotline.

DD Divine posted...
He has a rowing machine

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Topicbeing born rich is better than being born smart if you want to be successful
TommyG663513
06/10/19 12:05:59 PM
#5
I've always argued that socioeconomic status is by far the most important thing in determining an individuals success later in life. Money is way more important than skin color though there tends to be a correlation between the two.
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TopicThe whole thing with Brie Larson got overblown by youtube I think.
TommyG663513
06/10/19 11:57:20 AM
#12
It's weird how incel is the go to insult now. At least we've moved on from cuck. I wonder what the next term will be.

I just feel like if you're going to criticize people who criticize Brie Larson you should try doing so without mentioning how much sex you think the other person is having. Shouldn't that be considered irrelevant? Isn't shaming someone for not getting laid a toxic masculinity sort of thing?
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TopicWould be funny seeing REDDITS reaction when Keanu Reeves is #MeToo'd
TommyG663513
06/10/19 11:48:07 AM
#6
Antifar posted...
There's a lot about this topic that isn't correct

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TopicBakersfield bends over to Christians, agrees to put 'In God We Trust' on copcars
TommyG663513
06/07/19 6:10:37 PM
#54
The Admiral posted...
I hope these folks never look at their money. They'll be shook.


Yeah putting that on money is also stupid.

So is the "one nation, under god" part of the pledge of allegiance.
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TopicBakersfield bends over to Christians, agrees to put 'In God We Trust' on copcars
TommyG663513
06/07/19 6:07:30 PM
#53
The Admiral posted...
NathanX95 posted...
This is literally non news. If you get upset about this, you have bigger issues.


This logic works both ways. People cared enough about this to put the work in to get these decals put on police vehicles. Why would they be allowed to care, but not the people who oppose it?

The reality is that "in god we trust" violates separation of church and state, but people have done very little against that. It is minor, but it is worth discussing. I don't have a major issue with it as long as it stops with the decal.

I think it is hard to argue that putting religious references on a police vehicle is anywhere close to necessary or even beneficial.
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TopicIt is not toxic masculinity. It is toxic people
TommyG663513
06/02/19 12:14:25 AM
#54
A_A_Battery posted...
If you attribute the term to gender roles and mundane stereotypes, it loses all meaning.

Toxic masculinity, when any two people see it, they will recognize its toxicity unless they themselves are psychopaths.

It is not merely bro needs to tone it down, that is unbecoming of a man, it is destructive, often psychopathic behavior perpetrated to show them what for! and how a real man gets things done.


Can you please elaborate on how it'd lose all meaning? Not really sure what you're getting at here. Women feel societal pressure to adhere to feminine roles as well and those effects can be toxic. Thus, strict adherence to gender roles, masculine or feminine, can be rather toxic.

What is the problem with having a gender neutral term for toxic or problematic behaviors stemming from a strict adherence to gender roles? Why do we only have one for masculine traits?
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TopicIt is not toxic masculinity. It is toxic people
TommyG663513
06/02/19 12:09:07 AM
#53
The23rdMagus posted...
TommyG663513 posted...
I also want to say that I usually feel like the people complaining about the effects of toxic masculinity are people who aren't masculine themselves. It's like they feel some level of inadequate and need to label masculinity itself in some sort of negative.

There are tons of very healthy masculine attitudes and beliefs to have.

Yes. We're talking about the ones that aren't.


Yes and it seems like it is very easy for people to confuse a pressure to be masculine with toxic masculinity. A pressure to be masculine isn't necessarily a bad thing.
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TopicIt is not toxic masculinity. It is toxic people
TommyG663513
06/01/19 11:57:12 PM
#48
nemu posted...
Conflict posted...
nemu posted...
There are certainly negative behaviors for both sexes that should be addressed, but the whole toxic masculinity discussion is too much of a one-sided buzzword. It falls too close to other nonsense like mansplaing and manspreading. If the creation of the term was truly simply about the dissolution of negative aspects and the empowerment of positive aspects, there would be an active buzzword for women as well. It's basically trying to put more of an onus on men than women for the issues in the world.


It's an "onus on men" because men contribute to it and it's a specific issue regarding male-expected stereotypes. If you want to complain about toxic femininity, that's a whole different discussion, but that's doesn't make this term any less valid just because it's concerning men.

No, the term being specifically gendered for men puts the entire onus on men. That is the problem. As I said, there are discussions to be had, but this is a purposefully loaded term. If it was created with good intentions, both would be used in tandem in the media to help solve widespread issues among both sexes, but you instead see it plastered over woke article after woke article. It's a bad-intentioned solution to a problem that does need to be addressed.


If only there was a gender neutral term that highlighted problems adhering from societal pressures to conform to traditional gender roles.

I'm being serious here though. I completely agree with you. Inventing and actively using a term like toxic masculinity without a feminine equivalent seems rather biased to say the least.
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TopicIt is not toxic masculinity. It is toxic people
TommyG663513
06/01/19 11:50:54 PM
#46
The23rdMagus posted...
The Admiral posted...
Toxic masculinity occurs when the expectations of men are actually toxic and harmful to society -- things like needing to act violent to feel manly, needing to fight to assert yourself around other men, needing to act misogynistic or treat women like shit, needing to rebel against authority and break the law to prove that no one can tell you what to do, etc.

Needing to be stoic, needing to assert authority...


Those aren't necessarily toxic. In fact, as you've said them, there is nothing wrong with those at all. You've failed to highlight what is toxic about them. Asserting authority through violence would certainly be toxic, but not at all if you do it in a professional manner. Judges assert their authority in courtrooms. It is literally their job.
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TopicIt is not toxic masculinity. It is toxic people
TommyG663513
06/01/19 11:47:10 PM
#44
Conflict posted...
TommyG663513 posted...
Eh, it matters to what extreme you take things and to what reason you attribute certain actions. Never crying about anything, because you don't want to cry may just be labeled as masculine.


You're already experiencing the biggest misconception with 'toxic masculinity'.

It is not saying "never crying about anything" is toxic. Nor is it saying "being a fighter and protector" is toxic. Possessing those traits themselves are not a mark against you. If you're tough and you can rebound off of problems easier, more power to you. But mocking someone for not adhering to such a stupid and harmful stereotype that's actively contributing to mental health problems in the country is by definition, toxic


Did you even read my post beyond what you quoted?
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TopicIt is not toxic masculinity. It is toxic people
TommyG663513
06/01/19 11:45:30 PM
#42
I also want to say that I usually feel like the people complaining about the effects of toxic masculinity are people who aren't masculine themselves. It's like they feel some level of inadequate and need to label masculinity itself in some sort of negative.

There are tons of very healthy masculine attitudes and beliefs to have.
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TopicIt is not toxic masculinity. It is toxic people
TommyG663513
06/01/19 11:39:55 PM
#36
Conflict posted...
The Admiral posted...
Conflict posted...
ZMythos posted...
The phrase isn't denouncing masculinity itself as toxic. It describes beliefs and actions that are harmful to the self and others that are labeled as masculine traits by cultures and societies.

"A man shouldn't cry"
"A man should be sexually active"
"A man should be ready to fight"

etc.

THAT is toxic masculinity.


This

Basically, the notion that because you're a man, you -must- adhere to these specific stereotypes or else you aren't a true man


None of those expectations are toxic. They're just inconvenient for men who are not traditionally masculine and don't like societal judgment.


Telling someone that because they have a dick and two balls, they shouldn't cry over anything except a death in the family and they're supposed to be "fighters" and "protectors" is indisputably toxic.


Eh, it matters to what extreme you take things and to what reason you attribute certain actions. Never crying about anything, because you don't want to cry may just be labeled as masculine. Very actively repressing intense feelings of sadness that may lead to crying and instead expressing anger possibly through violence would be toxic masculinity. Crying fairly often and/or in public or inappropriate places like work would be someone who needs to get a grip on their emotions.

The term toxic masculinity gets thrown around a lot in ways that imply a problem with masculinity itself. Toxic masculinity is mostly just various types of violence and bullying stuff.

Men can still feel free to rarely if ever cry, hate rom coms, and love sports.
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TopicSo is Monty Python hated now?
TommyG663513
06/01/19 1:36:36 PM
#40
Isn't he completely correct though? Immigrants are now a majority in London? Did he describe that as a positive, negative, or a neutral thing?
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TopicAnyone else find it gross Barstool makes lists rating the teacher rape stories
TommyG663513
05/31/19 1:19:25 PM
#8
Female teacher and male student?

Yeah no one cares about male statutory rape victims, because they totally wanted it.... *rolls eyes*

But yeah societal views regarding male sex crime victims are pretty backwards.
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TopicAlt-right army veteran wearing body armour shoots 3 police officers, kills 1
TommyG663513
05/31/19 12:44:32 PM
#20
TennTux posted...
Bio1590 posted...
TennTux posted...
Ok he's a Trump supporter, that's bad enough.

But I'm not seeing anything about him being alt right or a white supremacist?

Stop being intentionally blind

I'm not. He posted a Putin meme and a video of that goobie that dressed up like an evil Captain America. That's not enough to label someone alt right white supremacist.

I'm all for bashing the alt right and white supremacists but it seems like your just jumping the gun and making shit up and that doesn't help our cause.


People have been throwing around the Alt Right label way too easily. That and incel. It makes me feel embarrassed to call myself a liberal. We should be above this crap. People see Trump in office and they all start stooping to lower levels.
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Topicsupposed leak of phase 4 MCU movie list
TommyG663513
05/29/19 10:36:38 PM
#5
Sure I'd watch those movies. Sounds ok enough. I'm sure we will know for sure at comic con this summer.
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TopicDo you think aliens have been to the Earth?
TommyG663513
05/29/19 9:37:38 PM
#3
Oh definitely. We are not alone.
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TopicDo Americans really eat Chicken with waffles?
TommyG663513
05/29/19 7:13:54 PM
#19
It is merely ok
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TopicArkansas cop on a hair trigger on unarmed motorist
TommyG663513
05/29/19 5:45:26 PM
#36
_Matchabuu_ posted...
spudger posted...
ZeroKelvin posted...
Just another shitty pig who wont suffer any negative consequences for misconduct

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TopicCringe video: Call Of Duty pro gamers expect to be worshiped at Gamestop
TommyG663513
05/22/19 7:03:46 PM
#36
Tryhaptaward posted...
Dude, I know that mall lmao


It looked like Mall of America to me

But yeah expecting even a tiny amount of adoration for this sort of thing is pretty pathetic.
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TopicTrump: 40 Million Dollars. 18 Angry Democrats. NO COLLUSION and NO OBSTRUCTION!
TommyG663513
05/22/19 2:37:16 PM
#24
I have no hope for this country
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TopicThe first reviews for Aladdin are coming in and it's currently at 71% on RT.
TommyG663513
05/22/19 2:18:18 PM
#31
Holy_Cloud105 posted...
YookaLaylee posted...
In what universe is 71% a bad score?

In the last 10 years or so, gaming and movie reviews for the general audience has turned anything below an 85% or an 8/10 rating to mean it's shit.


Nope. That is just true of gaming reviews. Plenty of poorly received movies critically receive appreciation from movie goers, but poorly received games almost never do from gamers.
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TopicThe first reviews for Aladdin are coming in and it's currently at 71% on RT.
TommyG663513
05/22/19 2:14:03 PM
#30
Kolibri X posted...
Aaaaand its trash. How is this out already? Didn't Dumbo come out last month reinforcing how bad these remakes are? I wish they lose money on this crap. They need to chill already.


I believe Dumbo did lose money and it was also designated as rotten on RT. Movie made almost $350 million WW on a $170 million production budget. Movies need to make roughly 2.5-3x the production budget to break even. This is due to marketing budgets (which often match the production budgets) and the fact that movie studios do not receive 100% of the revenue from the BO (theaters do get some of that).
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TopicThe first reviews for Aladdin are coming in and it's currently at 71% on RT.
TommyG663513
05/22/19 2:07:36 PM
#27
AsucaHayashi posted...
beauty and the beast has 71% and made $1.2b..

yeah, disney are gonna be fine


Lol what?

This movie will definitely finish lower than Beauty and the Beast critically. Do you not follow RT ratings leading up to a films release? Scores tend to drop. Currently it is sitting at around 60% on RT with 73 reviews counted. The film will finish with a but over 300 reviews though some blockbusters have finished closer to or even over 400 reviews.

No one in this topic has been commenting on the Box Office projection for this film. I haven't been following the tracking on this, but I assume it will be profitable. Plenty of nostalgia from millennial aged people.

This topic is about the critical reception and the overall quality of the film. Not its commercial success.
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TopicThe petition to remake final season of GoT with competent writers is at 1.3M
TommyG663513
05/21/19 6:33:22 PM
#26
DevsBro posted...
I dunno, I can't think of many finales in anything that were well-received.

Seems like it's just hard to write a finale.


It definitely is a difficult thing to do, but also very doable. Breaking Bad's finale was well received and so was Endgame.

Honestly, it seems like you just need to create something that people won't hate at the very least. Sounds like a lot of people have hated this.
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TopicThe petition to remake final season of GoT with competent writers is at 1.3M
TommyG663513
05/21/19 6:30:42 PM
#24
On one hand, if you are a consumer of anything then you're entitled to give feedback

On the other, a petition to redo the show sounds like a bit much

On further examination, 1.3 million people signed that petition. I'm gonna go out on a limb and say the show probably ended very badly. I've never watched GoT before.

I think it is a bit crazy to care about a show this much, but it is also sad that the creators of the show couldn't end it in a satisfying enough way. Clearly they've benefited from fans loving the show so much so they owe it to them to deliver a quality product.

From reading through topics on this it sounds like they rushed what could have been a few seasons worth of stories into one season. That seems like a fair complaint. That type of stuff usually causes sloppy story telling and awkward character arcs.
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TopicMen shouldn't be making laws about women's bodies
TommyG663513
05/19/19 10:59:38 PM
#287
I am very much pro choice.

Honestly though, I'm way more bothered by the arguments coming from pro choice people than pro life people. The thing I have to give to pro life people is that their arguments tend to be more consistent and less contradictory even though I disagree with their stance. I keep seeing weird straw man arguments from pro choice people where they assume the other persons vaguely related political positions.

Typically pro life people think life begins at conception and typically that is a religiously fueled idea (though you can definitely argue that while being atheist). They feel outlawing abortions decreases abortions.

Pro choice stances inherently seem a lot more convoluted. Though that depends.

For instance, I am pro choice, but generally pretty anti abortion. My stance comes down to believing abortion is mostly wrong, but I don't believe it should be attempted to be reduced or banned through legislation that criminalizes the act. I think the option should be available, but I believe it is a poor option. There is more nuance to my opinion than that, but that is the gist.

Arguing that men shouldn't be able to make laws that only effect women is dumb. The reason being that abortion clearly effects more than women (though it still is mostly a women's issue) and females are sometimes pro life and thus can be the constituents of these male legislators. Being a pro life woman isn't being a traitor to your sex though I'd still argue it is a stupid position to hold for other reasons.

Honestly, people should just be responsible in choosing sexual partners and in their use of contraceptives. That alone solves the vast majority of problems stemming from this though I get that people making mistakes is a part of life.

I mostly wish that pro life people would give up this battle on the legislative front and enact various types of social programs that make carrying a baby to term an easier solution. Stuff like shelters for pregnant women, better adoption and foster child programs, daycare, job placement for expecting mothers, etc. A lot of churches do offer various programs like this, but I wish they would be the only real focus in preventing and/or reducing abortion rates.
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TopicImagine if Neanderthals were alive today & existed alongside modern humans.
TommyG663513
05/18/19 5:18:27 PM
#10
This would be an interesting concept for a TV show

The closest thing we have is the Planet of the Apes franchise.
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TopicFinally! After 10,000 years I'm free...
TommyG663513
05/18/19 12:47:22 PM
#4
So are you just a brain in a jar with the ability to post on CE?
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TopicThe new Batwoman Trailer is pure feminist propaganda
TommyG663513
05/17/19 7:55:05 AM
#88
Looks like another CW show I won't care about
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Topicnow there's a video of Halle Berry training for John Wick 3
TommyG663513
05/15/19 3:58:57 PM
#15
Damn that was incredibly entertaining to watch. Can't wait to see John Wick 3 this weekend.
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TopicSTUDY: kids with same-sex parents do better in school
TommyG663513
05/14/19 3:22:19 PM
#17
Shopaholic163 posted...
JamesVanDerBeek posted...
Last time this was posted I remember it was pretty much just because they were wealthy and nothing to do with them being gay.

That's a huge part of it. They tend to be wealthier, more educated, and they plan when they have kids.


Similar things can be said of wealthy hetero couples with fertility problems.
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TopicGirl gives her experience using OKCupid
TommyG663513
05/14/19 2:56:19 PM
#65
TheGoldenEel posted...
Skywalker82 posted...
I wouldn't go down on some girl that I just met and let me bang her the first night either.

That's how you get the bum bump on your lips.

Yeah this

That is reserved for someone you trust


Yeah she clearly contributed to the bad/mediocre sex and doesn't want to take responsibility for it. Sometimes the better play is to just withhold a bit. Build some tension. Don't just quickly talk then go have sex.

dolomedes posted...
And don't get me wrong. Most sex with most people is bad the first time. You just don't know how the other person works. So a word to the wise guys out there: the first time you f*** a girl, do everything as slowly as you can. Get to the sex slower. Rub her c*** first, very softly and slowly. Eat her out a little. Kiss all the way down her body. When you get to the p-i-v, don't be a jackhammer. Like Tenacious D says, f*** her gently. Move slowly, every movement of every muscle made with intention. It will be amazing, for you and for her. She will call you back. You're not going to be able to be a porn star that first night. But you can be sensual, and f***ing great.

this is legit tho


It is true except for the part where she acknowledges it isn't great the first time with someone new then talks about a fantasy where the first with someone is a more sensual experience. She cant have it all. If you want one night stands and want something sensual then your expectations are off. Was she ever sensual to them? Girls can contribute to how good or bad sex is too.

Fair enough for her to try something out and learn some things. I hope she realized that the sensuality she craves isn't so realistic unless she has a real connection with someone.
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TopicGirl gives her experience using OKCupid
TommyG663513
05/14/19 2:39:35 PM
#60
16-BITTER posted...
Protip: no one who is actually classy makes a point to tell you that they are classy


This is true of a lot of things like informing others of how humble and mature you are. Or telling someone else that you're a nice person.
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just tell them all your base doesn't belong to us because we were getting stoned...they'll understand-Ken156
TopicDid anyone listen to Hollywood Undead in the Myspace days? 2006-2008
TommyG663513
05/14/19 6:20:10 AM
#16
I love them. Pretty catchy songs with really over the top lyrics. Talked with a coworker about them not too long ago and bonded over listening to them back in the day. Pretty weird band to say the least.

I totally get why a lot of people would find them to be trash, but it still remains a guilty pleasure.
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just tell them all your base doesn't belong to us because we were getting stoned...they'll understand-Ken156
TopicI just called in sick to work and i feel like a piece of trash for doing it
TommyG663513
05/14/19 6:12:35 AM
#6
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mentally Im just exhausted.

that's called being too unwell to do your job to the normal standard

I know but here in the good old USA that is frowned upon. Its a valid excuse to call in sick for but its not valid in the eyes of your bosses and corporate America.

I just told them I had severe diarrhea and vomiting rather than be stuck with the stigma of being one of those mentally unwell losers

Cause thats what theyll view you as


Does your work require that you give details? I just say that I'm not feeling well, I won't be making it in to work, and that I'd like to use my paid sick time. They aren't allowed to ask me details of whatever medical issue, illness, or whatever that I may be dealing with.
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just tell them all your base doesn't belong to us because we were getting stoned...they'll understand-Ken156
TopicI just called in sick to work and i feel like a piece of trash for doing it
TommyG663513
05/14/19 6:08:07 AM
#5
Eh if your work allows sick time then you get to use it as you see fit. At my work, you earn paid sick time every so many hours worked. Use it or you lose it once a year. Generally accepted that you can use it for a wide range of stuff.

Being very sleep deprived due to a bout of insomnia isn't anything worth feeling guilty about. Just chill and get some sleep.
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just tell them all your base doesn't belong to us because we were getting stoned...they'll understand-Ken156
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